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Hizi ndizo ndoa zetu wanaJF?

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Simcaesor, Oct 4, 2011.

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    Simcaesor Senior Member

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    Inasikitisha sana mtu kaoa tena ndoa ya kimungu na kwa heshima kubwa halafu unamkuta kwenye madanguro na mausiku klabu, kikubwa anatafuta malaya na hana ugomvi na mkewe kisa tamaa tu. kuna mana gani ya kuoa halafu unakuwa na tamaa kibao za wanawake wengine, ki ukweli hili linanichefua sana tena sana. wanaJF tuungane kuwashauri wanandoa wenye akili mbovu kama hizi....
     
  2. Baba_Enock

    Baba_Enock JF-Expert Member

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    Unaandika kwa kutumia nadharia! Halafu pia nadhani umri wako ni chini ya miaka 25 hivi!

    Ndoa siyo hayo maandishi manne - Ina maana kubwa zaidi ya hapo!
     
  3. Gama

    Gama JF-Expert Member

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    Wewe ni HE au SHE?, umeoa/olewa?!. Ukiona baba anamucha mwenza kitandani na kwenda kwa wajasiliamali ujue huyu aliyeachwa ndani is a problem too.
     
  4. Painstruth

    Painstruth Member

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    kwa hiyo unamaanisha ndoa ni sex? na ukioa ukamkuta mkeo au mmeo hakuna ile kitu ndo mnaachana? au akipata ajali akawa functionless ndio ndoa inavunjika?

    au unamaanisha wasiokuwa na ndoa ni sawa kwenda kwenye madanguro na kuchukua malaya? huyo Mungu anayeruhusu haya na kukataza yale ni yupi?

    unazungumzia very very complicated subject which certainly you know nothing about it!
     
  5. Mzee

    Mzee JF-Expert Member

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    Kila jambo linalotokea, kuna sababu ya kutokea. Ukiona mwanaume amemwacha mke wake ndani na kwenda kununua penzi ujue kuna sababu ya kufanya hivyo!

    Ndoa ni zaidi ya tendo la ndoa.
     
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    hashycool JF-Expert Member

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    duh...watu wakware humu...
     
  7. Painstruth

    Painstruth Member

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    Sio wakware, tumekuwa wepesi kulaumu matatizo yanayoonekana ambayo chanzo chake huwa hakionekani na wengi hawapendelei kusema. Mtu tangu utotoni kazoe kamchezo ka kuwa na wanawake wengi, leo akitaka kuoa atatakiwa kulipa mafungu ya kumi tu, akifunga ndoa huo mchezo wa zamani anaacha kwa mechanism gani?

    kuna sababu nyingi sana na kama ni GT inabidi kuangalia mzizi wa tatizo

    1.malezi
    2. kampani
    3. saikolojia
    4. financial
    5. frustration za ndani ya nyumba na nje
    6. Nature

    wengine ni nature tu, I would say 99% of african male/men are born to bonkey many many women, that was before christianity and muslim to come ove to our continents

    ukiangalia nature za mababu wetu walikuwa wanaona wake sita saba mpaka basi, vile vinasaba vyao vile viko mpaka leo hii na watu utakuta wana vinyumba vidogo tunawalaumu tu

    Ili nature ibadilike wa kutatua ni kumpa Yesu maisha yako ili akuumbe upya , nje ya hapo is just wasting time tu kujadili topic ambayo hata mleta maada anajua fika na yeye ina mgusa.

    muulize mtoa maada kama ameoa, muulize kama bado ameisha lala na wenzi wangapi, na kama ameoa alishalala nao wangapi hapo kabla! INATISHA!
     
  8. Tausi Mzalendo

    Tausi Mzalendo JF-Expert Member

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    Acheni ujuha!
     
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    shalis JF-Expert Member

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    jamani mimi sioni tatizo la mtoa mada yeye alichowakilisha kuwa tukiwaona hawa watu tuwashauri maana haoni maana halisi ya mtu kuwa na mweza...kutokana na mtu kuendekeza tabia za mwanzoni na kuzileta kwenye family
    ok, mim nitakuwa wakwanza kuwashauri ila ki ukweli mambo ya ndoa yanakatisha tamaa sana na wanaume wengi sasa wameshidwa kabia kabisa kuwa Real mens wana tangatanga na mwisho wa siku kuharibu familia ..tubadilike wajameni
     
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    HAZOLE JF-Expert Member

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    na sababu kubwa mojawapo ni TAMAA MBAYA
     
  11. PakaJimmy

    PakaJimmy JF-Expert Member

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    bWA MDOGO,
    Elewa wazi kuwa unaongelea suala-mtambuka, tena ambalo kwa mtazamo tu, hulijui hata kwa 36%!
    Shida yako ni kuwa unaangalia upande wa baba tu, na ume'level-ground kuwa mwanamke ni innocent muda wote!
    Anyway, sio kosa lako!
    Wewe unaamini kabisa kuwa vitabu na tamthilia unazoangalia kwenye Weekend-Movie ndiyo hali halisi ya maisha ndani ya familia!
    Let me tell you that you are totally wrong, and when you come to reality everything is inside-out, upside-down!
    Usidanganyike na mapenzi unayopewa na "DEMU", ukadhani ndiyo sawa na ndoa,...fikiria ndoa yenye umri wa miaka hata 15 tu!!

    I dont blame you young man, sema chochote unachopenda!
     
  12. Elli

    Elli JF-Expert Member

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    Umeseam ukweli kabisa Mpwa, ila sijaelewa una ushahidi gani kuwa hao uliowakuta huko kwenye madanguro wana ndoa tena ndoa halali na takatifu, pili na wewe ulienda kutafuta nini huko? ok, ujumbe ulioutoa ni changamoto nzuro kwetu sote.
     
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    IGWE JF-Expert Member

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    Tatizo unasikitishwa na kitu usicho na uelewa nacho_ni kama unaambiwa tu watu wanaokwenda club ni wahuni na wanafuata malaya...acha kulalama kwa kitu usichokijua
     
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    Mamndenyi JF-Expert Member

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    napita njia hapa.
     
  15. Husninyo

    Husninyo JF-Expert Member

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    Wamekusikia tayari.
     
  16. Bigirita

    Bigirita JF-Expert Member

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    Etieee!
    Aseeee!
     
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    mkalagale Member

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    Unajua mwanamke kabla hajaolewa huwa anajituma katika lile tendo letu lkn akishaolewa tu anakuwa kama gogo
     
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    mtoto mpole JF-Expert Member

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    Inahuzunisha hii si kidogo yaani.. ila ipo siku watakuja kujuta kwa ujinga wanaofanyaga kwa kuamini kwamba wake zao hawaaoni ila ipo Siku tuuu.
     
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    mtoto mpole JF-Expert Member

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    hiyo sio sababu ya wewe kwenda kwenye madanguro na sehemu nyingine kutafuta wanawake tofauti na wake zenu....vunja ukimya ongea na mkeo kwa busara....uamuzi wa kutafuta pengine lazima ukugharimu kama sio leo kesho na kama sio duniani basi Mbinguni..fanyeni tu research ndogo ya watu waishio vema na wake/waume zao na maisha pamoja na watoto wao hubarikiwa sana...sasa angalieni ndoa zenye mausaliti na mahujumu ya kila aina nini kinakuwepo hapo zaidi kusikia mume kamnyonga mkewe,mara mume kapinduka na gari alikua na kimada na balaa mengineyo tuu...WANAUME TULIENI NA WAKE ZENU.
     
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    aaha..ndoa kitu gani bana...upuuzi mtupu peoples are supposed to be free from flooshness called marriage
     
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