Woman says:
"I hate you, get away from me."
What she's really saying:
"I love you so much, I want you to come after me and hold me, so I can feel secure again and know that you love me. Please tell me you love me."
Man responds:
"I'm sorry baby, I promise I won't do it again, please don't leave, I'm begging for your forgiveness."
What he's really saying:
"Please don't go, who am I going to have sex with? Who is going to cook for me? If you need me to say some stuff about promises and I love you , I will, as long I still get to see you naked."