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What men really want to hear from you

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Poriposha, Nov 12, 2011.

  1. Poriposha

    Poriposha JF-Expert Member

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    Five things men love to hear on a date:

    1. “Then what happened?”
    It’s only human for a man to want to think that his life is reasonably interesting. And while interrupting him, changing the subject, or acting bored are well-known nails in the conversational coffin, it’s not enough to just sit there, smile and say “uh-huh” every few seconds. Actively egg him on with comments like, “You’re kidding! What happened next?” or “Go on...” That way, he’ll know you’re genuinely interested versus just being polite.

    2. “That’s pretty impressive.”
    Maybe he placed in a local triathlon recently or got a promotion at work, or he figured out how to fix his air conditioner by himself. Whatever he’s done, if he’s mentioning it on a date, he’s most likely proud of it — and if you feed his ego by applauding his efforts, you’ll make him feel like a king.

    3. “Thank you.”
    No doubt about it, manners matter — and are sorely lacking in today’s less formal dating scene. Tap into your inner Emily Post, and it’s sure to make you stand out. So, thank him when he tells you that you look pretty tonight. Thank him for paying for dinner. Thank him for walking you to your car. It’s such a small thing, but it’ll make a huge difference to him.

    4. “What do you do when you’re not at work?”
    Although a man’s job might be of primary importance, he also has other things in his life that he values. Does he juggle? Work on his car? Play an instrument? With a little probing, a woman can hit upon hidden passions — and convey that she’s interested in getting a complete picture of him as a person and not just what he does to earn his paycheck.

    5. “I’d like to get your opinion on something.”
    It’s the damsel-in-distress call, and it’s pure catnip for men... and that’s because we love feeling useful, and seeking our advice definitely fits the bill in that regard. So whether you need tips on buying a digital camera or how to handle a tricky situation with your boss, he’ll be glad to help you. (He will be less eager, however, to comment on shopping, knitting or his dating past...but you already knew that.)

    SOURCE:What men really want to hear from you
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    AMINATA 9 JF-Expert Member

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    Things Girls like to Hear from u boys:

    Well, every girl would like to hear 'I love you' whispered gently into ear! If you love her, say it. But ensure you don't keep saying it all throughout the day till she turns a deaf ear. Pick your situation; it could be a romantic walk by the beachside or a candlelit dinner.

    Tell her what she means to you. You may know it and so would she, but words are important and nothing could be better than being vocal about it! Say 'You complete me' or 'You mean the world to me' and watch the smile light up her face. A simple sentence with a whole lot of depth is something any girl would definitely like to hear.

    If you love her and wish to take the plunge then you can simply say 'I want to be yours forever and ever' or 'Would you be mine forever?' is bound to floor her!

    If you feel she is beautiful, just go ahead and say it! Complimenting her about her physical beauty is also important apart from praising her inner beauty. Begin with subtle admiring comments and if you share a close relation with her, you can feel free to express what you wish to say. If she has great long locks, praise them! You love her eyes, go ahead and say it!

    Every girl would love being appreciated and if she always goes out of her way for every little thing for you, then you need to tell her you appreciate it a whole lot. It may seem to be a very simple line, but trust me; it would go a long way!

    And if this girl is really so very important, you need to simply say, 'I want to spend the rest of my life with you'! There should be nothing stopping you then! Best of luck! By Kashmira Lad
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    mzabzab JF-Expert Member

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    wat i wana hear is "oh you soo smart ..i wish my kids get to be smart as you"
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    Poriposha JF-Expert Member

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