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Five things men love to hear on a date:
1. Then what happened?
Its only human for a man to want to think that his life is reasonably interesting. And while interrupting him, changing the subject, or acting bored are well-known nails in the conversational coffin, its not enough to just sit there, smile and say uh-huh every few seconds. Actively egg him on with comments like, Youre kidding! What happened next? or Go on... That way, hell know youre genuinely interested versus just being polite.
2. Thats pretty impressive.
Maybe he placed in a local triathlon recently or got a promotion at work, or he figured out how to fix his air conditioner by himself. Whatever hes done, if hes mentioning it on a date, hes most likely proud of it and if you feed his ego by applauding his efforts, youll make him feel like a king.
3. Thank you.
No doubt about it, manners matter and are sorely lacking in todays less formal dating scene. Tap into your inner Emily Post, and its sure to make you stand out. So, thank him when he tells you that you look pretty tonight. Thank him for paying for dinner. Thank him for walking you to your car. Its such a small thing, but itll make a huge difference to him.
4. What do you do when youre not at work?
Although a mans job might be of primary importance, he also has other things in his life that he values. Does he juggle? Work on his car? Play an instrument? With a little probing, a woman can hit upon hidden passions and convey that shes interested in getting a complete picture of him as a person and not just what he does to earn his paycheck.
5. Id like to get your opinion on something.
Its the damsel-in-distress call, and its pure catnip for men... and thats because we love feeling useful, and seeking our advice definitely fits the bill in that regard. So whether you need tips on buying a digital camera or how to handle a tricky situation with your boss, hell be glad to help you. (He will be less eager, however, to comment on shopping, knitting or his dating past...but you already knew that.)
SOURCE:What men really want to hear from you
Five things men love to hear on a date:
1. Then what happened?
Its only human for a man to want to think that his life is reasonably interesting. And while interrupting him, changing the subject, or acting bored are well-known nails in the conversational coffin, its not enough to just sit there, smile and say uh-huh every few seconds. Actively egg him on with comments like, Youre kidding! What happened next? or Go on... That way, hell know youre genuinely interested versus just being polite.
2. Thats pretty impressive.
Maybe he placed in a local triathlon recently or got a promotion at work, or he figured out how to fix his air conditioner by himself. Whatever hes done, if hes mentioning it on a date, hes most likely proud of it and if you feed his ego by applauding his efforts, youll make him feel like a king.
3. Thank you.
No doubt about it, manners matter and are sorely lacking in todays less formal dating scene. Tap into your inner Emily Post, and its sure to make you stand out. So, thank him when he tells you that you look pretty tonight. Thank him for paying for dinner. Thank him for walking you to your car. Its such a small thing, but itll make a huge difference to him.
4. What do you do when youre not at work?
Although a mans job might be of primary importance, he also has other things in his life that he values. Does he juggle? Work on his car? Play an instrument? With a little probing, a woman can hit upon hidden passions and convey that shes interested in getting a complete picture of him as a person and not just what he does to earn his paycheck.
5. Id like to get your opinion on something.
Its the damsel-in-distress call, and its pure catnip for men... and thats because we love feeling useful, and seeking our advice definitely fits the bill in that regard. So whether you need tips on buying a digital camera or how to handle a tricky situation with your boss, hell be glad to help you. (He will be less eager, however, to comment on shopping, knitting or his dating past...but you already knew that.)
SOURCE:What men really want to hear from you