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This article was written in Sister2Sister Magazine by a white woman who explained her attraction to black men. She also explained why black men are likely to choose women like her over black women.

Dear: I’m sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Black male readers. I am a White female who is engaged to a Black male-good-looking, educated and loving. I just don’t understand a lot of Black female’s attitudes about our relationship.

My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Black women were slim to none. As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much excess baggage. Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by Black men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world. If Black women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don’t they look at themselves and make some changes. I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we’re out in public. I would like to hear from some Black men about why we are so appealing and coveted by them. Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley Snipes… I could go on and on. But, right now, I’m a little angry and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don’t be mad with us White women because so many of your men want us.

Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better. If I’m wrong, Black men, let me know.

Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA RESPONSE

 
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Kweli tupu. Leo nimetoa hela ya saloni kashinda huko hadi saa kumi na mbili jioni halafu sijamuelewa hata kidogo mda huu nawaza kukuche nianze na bodaboda then nitaenda kusema na aliyemsuka ili anipe taarifa mbili tatu kabla sijaamua kiume. Nshakasirika mie.
 
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mwaka huu JF hamnipati na madongo yenu,mlizoea kuniburuza eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee :rockon::rockon::rockon::rockon::rockon:
 
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Mie sijawahi kukupiga dongo Jestina nimeomba tu kama una opinion ya aina yoyote kuhusu barua hii.

Jestina said:
mwaka huu JF hamnipati na madongo yenu,mlizoea kuniburuza eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee :rockon::rockon::rockon::rockon::rockon:
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Natamani mke wangu mtarajiwa wa JF apitie hapa sasaiv. Asante mdhungu kwa kuwachana laivu.
 
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Black women will always be black men true queens, those who deserve to be. White women?...more like opportunities. That's the way i see it
 
Mi nahisi hii barua iko ki mbele mbele zaidi.Kibongo bongo hata sio issue unless kuwe na direct connection baina huyo me mweusi aliejiingiza ktk mahusiano na ke meupe huku akimuacha mweusi mwenzie, most of time case hizi ni bifu binafsi baina ya wanawake hao na sio sana kukuta rangi zao ndio chanzo BAK
 
Jestina said:
mwaka huu JF hamnipati na madongo yenu,mlizoea kuniburuza eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee :rockon::rockon::rockon::rockon::rockon:
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can u sit down and read, think and argue consciously...bila ya kuona ni madongo ..wanawake mbadilike aisee
 
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Hili swala linasumbua sana jamii ya watu weusi sasa hivi hapa us..kwa sababu mambo yanabadilika..wanaume(black americans) walioenda shule na wenye mafanikio wanaoa wazungu na wapanish kwa kasi..kwa sababu wazungu wametulia na wanajua maana ya ndoa na kumuheshimu mme...wanawake weusi(African American) wanaachwa wanaangaika..

Statistics zinaonesha 70% waliofikisha umri wa kuolewa wapo single(na wengi ni single mothers)..na sababu kubwa ni kwamba ni zile hood rat and rachet behaviours wanawaake wengi weusi walizo nazo kama kuwa argumentative, kupenda-drama(madrama quen), kujichubu na kuvaa manywele banda, kujichora matatuu, kupenda kufuta mkumbo na kuiga macelebity ambao ni destructive kwa jamii kama nikii minaj, beyonce nk ...kupenda kuzaa ovyo hasa nje ya ndoa...sasa hivi ni swala lenye discusson kubwa sana..ni shida kwenye jamii ya watu weusi
 
BAK said:
As he said they were either

  1. too fat,
  2. too loud,
  3. too mean,
  4. too argumentative,
  5. too needy,
  6. too materialistic or
  7. carrying too much excess baggage.
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This is true for most black!,
  1. too fat, -kufuatia wengi kutoka kwenye stinking poverty, eating and eating and eating is big deal kwao, ndio maana kuna maeneo mengi, just chips kuku, unajibebea!, as a result wanaishia kuwa too fat!, japo kwa baadhi yetu, ile fatness ndio mpango mzima.
  2. too loud,-kufuatia malezi mengi ya uswazi, mistrust, maneno maneno, umbea, ghubu, ukionekana tuu na fulani issue!, ukichelewa home issue!, wazungu wao poa, chelewa, onekana, as long as she trusts you she'll always be there for you.
  3. too mean,-hii ni kufuatia umasikini uliotopea, hata ukimpeleka good places, anauliza kwanza bei, mkispend anaanza kukumbushia un met commitments, ukisaidia ndugu, ni sheedah!, hadi m=pesa inafuatiliwa na kuulizwa huyu ni nani, alifanya nini kutumiwa pesa hizi!, mzungu always mind her own business!
  4. too argumentative, -wanawake waeusi wabishi!, wanapenda tuu ligi, kelele nyingi na malumbano kibao!, baadhi ya makabila, kama hutii kibao, anajiona hapendi, atafanya visa, apate kibano ndio aridhike anapendwa!.
  5. too needy, -hii ni kufuatia general poverty, hivyo kujikuta tamaa ndio kaweka mbele kwa mahitaji hadi access, mnaweza kupanga kufanya Chritmass shopping ya watoto, badala ya kuishia toto junction, atataka mpitie kila boutique na kila kitu anatamani!. Mzungu anaweza kuwa na jeans zake mbili, zikapokezana hizo hizo, weusi ni wardrobe nzima full of viwalo!
  6. too materialistic -hii pia ni kutokana na umasikini, hivyo wanachojali ni pochi tuu, sio penzi, nyumba nzuri, gari zuri, pesa za kutosha kutumia na kutanua!, hata ukilala nje poa!.
  7. carrying too much excess baggage-haps ndipo haswa, kufuatia tofauti za fertility, blacks tuna extended families, wadogo zake, wazazi, familia yote inakutegemea!
​Pamoja na shida zote hizo, pia kuna slightly temperature diferences kati ya black and white na some taste diferences, blacks wako hot zaid na more tasty, hivyo bado preference yangu ni blacks vinginevyo mimi nilikutana na bad luck kila nyeupe nilipopita nilikutana na kipande cha mua cha juu!. Nimezisikia sifa za Mulato or latino, huko sijabahatika!.

Jumapili njema.
Pasco

 
Dear White Lady,

I will keep it short and to the point. A man, will say anything to get you off your p anties so dont flatter yourself.You might not even make it to the finishing line.:lol:

Karucee.
 
Pasco

Mkuu, ni mulata kwa mwanamke na mulato kwa mwanaume. Basically hao ni machotara - mweusi/mzungu, mweusi/mchina etc

Points zote kasoro namba 2 tu, ni umaskini tu kama ulivyosema. Siku hizi inakuwa ngumu zaidi. Wanataka usawa mfumo dume uondoke lakini wakati huo huo wanaupalilia. Hata kama wote ni wafanyakazi, kwenye matumizi mwanaume ndio awe kichwa cha nyumba. Bili zote kwake.

Ni contradiction ambayo itapata ufumbuzi with time. Hata hao wenzetu walipitia huko
 
Karucee said:
Dear White Lady,

I will keep it short and to the point. A man, will say anything to get you off your p anties so dont flatter yourself.You might not even make it to the finishing line.:lol:

Karucee.
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Kay ungekosea hoja kwa hoja badala ya kuleta hoja mpya.
Ningekuona mweledi.
 
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Be proud to be African! Be satisfied with what you are!
 
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Sikubaliani na article iliyowasilishwa hapo, coz imekuwa generalised sana. Muwasiliashaji siyo mwafrika na maanisha mtanzania, maana yake anaongelea black americans siyo black Africans.

Halafu mbona unasahau uzuri na natural attraction ya black women? Wazungu anaweza hata akatembea uchi usisimke but mwanamke wa kiafrica akuvalie min.............
 
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That drivel is still making the rounds in 2015?

Thought I done seen it 17 years ago!
 
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