Utazamaji wa mtu na kile kinachotembea akilini mwake

[Mtambuzi]

Hivi karibuni nimejifunza kitu ambacho sikuwahi kukijua hapo kabla na na nilikuwa na boss wangu na mara nyingi alikuwa anasoma mawazo ya watu kwa kuangalia body language.

Awali nilijua ni mchawi aisee kumbe haya mambo yanafundishika.

Je mnajua mtu anayetazama juu kushoto anawaza nini?

Je anayetazama juu kulia naye mnajua anawaza nini?

Ngoja niwaelezee kuhusu hii siri ya body language.

Mtu anayetazama juu kushoto anajaribu kukumbuka picha ya kitu alichowahi kukiona wakati fulani anajaribu kuvuta taswira ya kitu hicho akilini mwake ili kuvuta kumbukumbu jinsi kitu hicho kilivyokuwa.

Je anayetazama juu kulia naye mnajua anawaza nini?

Mtu anayetazama juu kulia anajaribu kujenga picha ya kitu anachoelezwa ili kukipa sura ya jinsi kinavyokuwa kulingana na maelezo anayopewa au aliyopewa au simulizi tu kama hadithi za kufikirika pale tunapojaribu kuzipa sura.

Kwa mfano mwanaume anapohisi kusalitiwa na mkewe huwa na utazamaji huo pale anapojaribu kujenga picha ya jinsi mkewe anavyofanya akiwa kitandani na huyo bwanake.

Kama mwanamke akigombana na mumewe kwasababu ya kumtuhumu kumsaliti kisha mwanaume akawa kimya halafu akawa na utazamaji huo ni wazi baada ya hapo ugomvi ukawa mbaya zaidi kwani mwanaume akijenga picha zake kichwani za kuona kitendo cha kusalitiwa live akilini mwake hata kama si kweli akili itamwambia ni kweli na hapo kitakachofuata ni ngumu kusimulia.

Mwanamke akiona utazamaji huo kutoka kwa mumewe aondoke hapo kwa muda.

Mtu anayetazama kushoto anajaribu kukumbuka jambo fulani.
Mtu ambaye labda anahojiwa kuhusu jambo fulani pale anapojaribu kukumbuka huwa na utazamaji huo.

Wapelezi huweza kujua mtu anachoongea ni kweli au anadanganya kutokana na utazamaji wake.

Mtu anayetazama kulia anakuwa anajaribu kutengeneza sentensi hapo anakuwa anatengeneza maelezo kwasababu ya kudanganya kwa kuwa hakujiandaa na swali. Au anataka kuficha jambo na hapo ndipo tunasema kwamba maelezo yana nusu uongo nusu ukweli.

Je mtu anayetazama chini kulia mnajua kinachotembea akilini mwake?

Mtu anayetazama chini kulia anajaribu kukumbuka hisia alizozipata wakati fulani zinaweza kuwa za huzuni au za furaha hususan za kuridhishwa kimapenzi.

Je mtu anayetazama chini kushoto?

Mtu anayetazama chini kushoto anakuwa anamjadala mzito kichwani mwake. Inategemea ni mjadala gani kwani sura itatoa majibu

Huo utazamaji unafanya kazi kwa wanawake na wanaume.

Lakini kwa wale mashoto hufanya kazi kinyume chake.

Yaani inafanya kazi vise versa

Hii sasa ni kwa wanawake. Hivi mnajua mwanaume anayekutaka kimapenzi au anayekutamani jinsi anavyouangalia mwili wako anawasilisha hisia zake juu yako.

Utazamaji wake unakupa ujumbe maridhawa.

Je unawezaje kujua ujumbe anaokupa?

Ask me......

Nitarudi......

 

[Benny]

Ngumu kumeza...

 

[Omerta]

Mtambuzi unazeeka, hizo mbinu hazifui dafu kwenye maisha ya Kawaida

 

[Interest]

Ukisikia kumezeshana, ndio huku sasa!

Kuna uhusiano gani kati ya upande; wa kulia au kushoto, na 'tabia za kufikiri'?
Angalau ungeambatanisha na hoja za kisayansi au kitafiti tukafanye rejea kujiridhisha..

Hii imekaa kimaoni zaidi kuliko kiuhalisia.. Ni kama fumbo la imani. Wapo watakaoamini kwa kadri watakavyoshawishika na maelezo, lakini kimantiki, nasikitika kusema kwamba haileti maana.

Jazia jazia nyama hizo hapo juu kisha na mie 'Nitarudi'.

 

[Senior Boss]

Wenye makengeza inakua vp ?? Tehe

 

[Mtambuzi]

Msitokwe na povu tafuteni hiki kitabu msome......

Read this book and send your nonverbal intelligence soaring. Joe Navarro, a former FBI counterintelligence officer and a recognized expert on nonverbal behavior, explains how to "speed-read" people: decode sentiments and behaviors, avoid hidden pitfalls, and look for deceptive behaviors. You'll also learn how your body language can influence what your boss, family, friends, and strangers think of you. You will discover:

• The ancient survival instincts that drive body language
• Why the face is the least likely place to gauge a person's true feelings
• What thumbs, feet, and eyelids reveal about moods and motives
• The most powerful behaviors that reveal our confidence and true sentiments
• Simple nonverbals that instantly establish trust
• Simple nonverbals that instantly communicate authority

Filled with examples from Navarro's professional experience, this definitive book offers a powerful new way to navigate your world...

He says that's his best offer. Is it? She says she agrees. Does she? The interview went great—or did it? He said he'd never do it again. But he did.

 

[nzalendo]

Darasa mjarabuh

 

[Mtambuzi]

Tangu nijiunge na JF sijawahi kuandika jambo la kufikirika, kwa hiyo mkija na hoja kupinga nilichoandika muwe mnajiandaa.....

CC: Mabazazi wote.

 

[above metal04]

Right side of the brain is responsible for creativity while left side of the brain is responsible for memory.
Kwa hiyo mtu akiilizwa swali then macho uakaelekea upande wa kulia, huyo anajaribu kufanya access to the creative side hivyo % kubwa ni kitu atakacho jibu is a lie.
Akielekeza macho juu kushoto basi anajaribu ku access memory zake.
Kuna psychologists ambao wao kazi Yao ni kusoma body language ili kujua what goes on in our brains

I learnt this from the series "lie to me"

 

[double R]

Siku nyingi, i missed this.

 

[Mtambuzi]

Na hiki pia nitakuja kuwaletea muhtasari wake ni namna gani unaweza kumjua mtu kama ni mbaya au mwema kwako kwa muda mfupi tu kwa kumuangalia.

Hii itawasaidia kuwagundua watu wabaya kabla ya kujifunganisha nao kama wake, waume au wasichana wa kazi au business partner

 

[Interest]

N

Msitokwe na povu tafuteni hiki kitabu msome......

Read this book and send your nonverbal intelligence soaring. Joe Navarro, a former FBI counterintelligence officer and a recognized expert on nonverbal behavior, explains how to "speed-read" people: decode sentiments and behaviors, avoid hidden pitfalls, and look for deceptive behaviors. You'll also learn how your body language can influence what your boss, family, friends, and strangers think of you. You will discover:

• The ancient survival instincts that drive body language
• Why the face is the least likely place to gauge a person's true feelings
• What thumbs, feet, and eyelids reveal about moods and motives
• The most powerful behaviors that reveal our confidence and true sentiments
• Simple nonverbals that instantly establish trust
• Simple nonverbals that instantly communicate authority

Filled with examples from Navarro's professional experience, this definitive book offers a powerful new way to navigate your world...

He says that's his best offer. Is it? She says she agrees. Does she? The interview went great—or did it? He said he'd never do it again. But he did.

Naam, hiki ndicho ulipaswa kukileta tangu awali na sio maneno ya jumla jumla we bazazi...

Lakini mbona utazamaji wa mtu na kile kinachotembea akilini mwake umetajwa kuwa ndio the least likely place to gauge somebody's true feelings?

Anyway, asante kwa kitabu. Hakuna soft-copy?

 

[Interest]

Na hiki pia nitakuja kuwaletea muhtasari wake ni namna gani unaweza kumjua mtu kama ni mbaya au mwema kwako kwa muda mfupi tu kwa kumuangalia.

Hii itawasaidia kuwagundua watu wabaya kabla ya kujifunganisha nao kama wake, waume au wasichana wa kazi au business partner

Uzi mzuri sana na umefanya vyema kutuletea elimu hii zama hizi, inaweza kusaidia vijana kupunguza ugoro kichwani.
Lakini kwanini umeuleta MMU?!

 

[Kitombise]

ngoja nisubscribe kabisa.. ili niende na huu uzi sambamba

 

[50thebe]

bandiko matata sana hili Mtambuzi

kwa wanaopenda kumsoma zaidi Joe Navarro, copy yake hii hapa

 

[Valentina]

Ngoja nijaribu kukariri

 

[Evelyn Salt]

Ahsante sana Mtambuzi kuna kitu kikubwa nimejifunza hapa

 

[itara]

Right side of the brain is responsible for creativity while left side of the brain is responsible for memory.
Kwa hiyo mtu akiilizwa swali then macho uakaelekea upande wa kulia, huyo anajaribu kufanya access to the creative side hivyo % kubwa ni kitu atakacho jibu is a lie.
Akielekeza macho juu kushoto basi anajaribu ku access memory zake.
Kuna psychologists ambao wao kazi Yao ni kusoma body language ili kujua what goes on in our brains

I learnt this from the series "lie to me"

Kuna kitu kina itwa NLP hapo kibahusika

 

[BADILI TABIA]

Mtambuzi upo? Umeadimika

 

[above metal04]

Kuna kitu kina itwa NLP hapo kibahusika

Mkuu funguka kuhusu NLP