"uanajeshi unatuhatarishia penzi letu"

Bwai · Jun 30, 2013

Hello! Brothers and sisters, hope mnaendelea na wkend vizuri. Imekuwa mda sasa hatujawa pamoja, ila naamini hakuna kilichoharibika na wadau wa MMU mnaendelea na majukumu ya ujenzi wa jamii yetu. Nimekuja na tatizo, nina very best friend of mine amejiunga na jeshi baada tu ya kuhitimu elimu ya juu, bado yupo depo. Alichonisimulia ndicho ambacho kimenilazimu kuja MMU kuwa ombeni ushauri. Alichonisimulia ni kama ifuatavyo: Rafiki yangu ana mpenzi wake wa mda mrefu na anampenda kweli ila tatizo ni kuwa demu wake hataki jamaa kuwa mwanajeshi, na hii inatokana na parception aliyonayo kuhusu wanajeshi ya kuwa ni wakatili, wazinzi, wababe n.k. Ki ukweli mimi rafiki yake nimejitwisha mzigo wa kwenda kumshauri kipenzi cha rafiki yangu us you know rafiki ni zaidi ya ndugu, najipanga niende nikaongee naye ana kwa ana. Kati ya ninayomwamini huyu rafiki yangu ni kuwa si wa mambo ambayo yeye anayadhania, kutokana na hilo ndo maana nimekubali kumsaidia rafiki yangu. Please ushauri wenu ni muhimu wadau.

Mwali · Jun 30, 2013

Muulize hiyo perception imejengwa na nini? Kuna kitu aliwahi shuhudia?
Then mwambie kua kila mtu ana personality yake, sio lazima tufanane
Kuna wanajeshi ambao sio wakatili, wazinzi wala wababe (toa mfano)
But mwambie rafiki yako aongee mwenyewe na mpenzi wake, ni bora

Mbimbinho · Jun 30, 2013

Tell her that, if she doesn't like something in her life, she should change it,
If she can't change it, she should change the way she think of it. :thumbup:

LIKUD · Jun 30, 2013

Mbimbinho said:
Tell her that, if she doesn't like something in her life, she should change it,
If she can't change it, she should change the way she think of it. :thumbup:

Mwisho wa kunukuu..

Bwai · Jun 30, 2013

Mwali said:
Muulize hiyo perception imejengwa na nini? Kuna kitu aliwahi shuhudia?
Then mwambie kua kila mtu ana personality yake, sio lazima tufanane
Kuna wanajeshi ambao sio wakatili, wazinzi wala wababe (toa mfano)
But mwambie rafiki yako aongee mwenyewe na mpenzi wake, ni bora

Nimekupata mwali. Ulichokisema nilimwuliza rafiki yangu akaniambia kuna ndugu yake ambaye ameolewa na msolder na ya yeye mwenyewe alishakaa kambini kwa huyo ndugu yake, inawezekana ndo kinachomfanya aone kuwa wako hivo, kuna mambo ambayo ameyaona.

Bwai · Jun 30, 2013

Mbimbinho said:
Tell her that, if she doesn't like something in her life, she should change it,
If she can't change it, she should change the way she think of it. :thumbup:

sure, umenifunza kitu. Hi ni zaidi ya ushauri.GOD BLESS YOU ALL.

rozay · Jun 30, 2013

Mbimbinho said:
Tell her that, if she doesn't like something in her life, she should change it,
If she can't change it, she should change the way she think of it. :thumbup:

loud n clear

Mnyamwezi wa Urambo · Jun 30, 2013

Duh!Ukichanganya na anayoyasikia yanayoendelea Mtwara basi binti wa watu anajua kifo kinamtazama.

asakuta same · Jun 30, 2013

inamaana alienda jeshi bila kujadiliana kwanza na mpenzi wake?

salimkabora · Jun 30, 2013

Bwai said:
Hello! Brothers and sisters, hope mnaendelea na wkend vizuri. Imekuwa mda sasa hatujawa pamoja, ila naamini hakuna kilichoharibika na wadau wa MMU mnaendelea na majukumu ya ujenzi wa jamii yetu. Nimekuja na tatizo, nina very best friend of mine amejiunga na jeshi baada tu ya kuhitimu elimu ya juu, bado yupo depo. Alichonisimulia ndicho ambacho kimenilazimu kuja MMU kuwa ombeni ushauri. Alichonisimulia ni kama ifuatavyo: Rafiki yangu ana mpenzi wake wa mda mrefu na anampenda kweli ila tatizo ni kuwa demu wake hataki jamaa kuwa mwanajeshi, na hii inatokana na parception aliyonayo kuhusu wanajeshi ya kuwa ni wakatili, wazinzi, wababe n.k. Ki ukweli mimi rafiki yake nimejitwisha mzigo wa kwenda kumshauri kipenzi cha rafiki yangu us you know rafiki ni zaidi ya ndugu, najipanga niende nikaongee naye ana kwa ana. Kati ya ninayomwamini huyu rafiki yangu ni kuwa si wa mambo ambayo yeye anayadhania, kutokana na hilo ndo maana nimekubali kumsaidia rafiki yangu. Please ushauri wenu ni muhimu wadau.

Uanajeshi sio kazi nzuri sana kwa ujenzi wa familia; ujenzi wa taifa ni mbele zaidi na asilimia kubwa ya malezi ya mwanajeshi analea kazi sio familia

jokapangoni · Jun 30, 2013

Mwambie aache kuhukumu kabla kwani nina mifano mingi ya hao jamaa kifupi ni kua wanajua kupenda kwa dhati af ni wavumilivu sana ktk ndoa.

Bangu-silo · Jun 30, 2013

Huyo demu yupo sawa kabisa. Wanajeshi wana viapo vyao ambavyo hawawezi kwnd kinyume chake. Sasa ya nini kukaa na mtu mwenye viapo lukuki wkt we hauna hata kimoja. Wakaoane wenyewe kwa wenyewe huko jeshini.

Bwai said:
Hello! Brothers and sisters, hope mnaendelea na wkend vizuri. Imekuwa mda sasa hatujawa pamoja, ila naamini hakuna kilichoharibika na wadau wa MMU mnaendelea na majukumu ya ujenzi wa jamii yetu. Nimekuja na tatizo, nina very best friend of mine amejiunga na jeshi baada tu ya kuhitimu elimu ya juu, bado yupo depo. Alichonisimulia ndicho ambacho kimenilazimu kuja MMU kuwa ombeni ushauri. Alichonisimulia ni kama ifuatavyo: Rafiki yangu ana mpenzi wake wa mda mrefu na anampenda kweli ila tatizo ni kuwa demu wake hataki jamaa kuwa mwanajeshi, na hii inatokana na parception aliyonayo kuhusu wanajeshi ya kuwa ni wakatili, wazinzi, wababe n.k. Ki ukweli mimi rafiki yake nimejitwisha mzigo wa kwenda kumshauri kipenzi cha rafiki yangu us you know rafiki ni zaidi ya ndugu, najipanga niende nikaongee naye ana kwa ana. Kati ya ninayomwamini huyu rafiki yangu ni kuwa si wa mambo ambayo yeye anayadhania, kutokana na hilo ndo maana nimekubali kumsaidia rafiki yangu. Please ushauri wenu ni muhimu wadau.

Rogie · Jun 30, 2013

asakuta same said:
inamaana alienda jeshi bila kujadiliana kwanza na mpenzi wake?

Mkuu,mfano ww ndo ungekuwa rafiki wa jamaa..ukashauriana na mwenzako akakataa usiende. Ni kweli usingeenda?

asakuta same · Jun 30, 2013

Rogie said:
Mkuu,mfano ww ndo ungekuwa rafiki wa jamaa..ukashauriana na mwenzako akakataa usiende. Ni kweli usingeenda?

ningejadiliana Pros and Cons za pande zote mbili , na kwakuwa alichonacho yeye ni perceptions tu na siyo ukweli tungefikia muafaka tu............ na zaidi kama angeshilia msimamo , maisha hayana fomula nisingeenda.

Bwai · Jun 30, 2013

asakuta same said:
ningejadiliana Pros and Cons za pande zote mbili , na kwakuwa alichonacho yeye ni perceptions tu na siyo ukweli tungefikia muafaka tu............ na zaidi kama angeshilia msimamo , maisha hayana fomula nisingeenda.

Walijadiliana ila demu alimkubalia kwa shingo upande coz jamaa alikuwa tayari wazazi wake walishamwambia aende jeshini na baba yake ni major so siku anaondoka demu alilia sana.

Bwai · Jun 30, 2013

Rogie said:
Mkuu,mfano ww ndo ungekuwa rafiki wa jamaa..ukashauriana na mwenzako akakataa usiende. Ni kweli usingeenda?

Kikubwa ni kuwa tunatafuta maisha na mzazi anajua mwanaye kwa elimu aliyonayo jeshini panamfaa.

asakuta same · Jun 30, 2013

Bwai said:
Walijadiliana ila demu alimkubalia kwa shingo upande coz jamaa alikuwa tayari wazazi wake walishamwambia aende jeshini na baba yake ni major so siku anaondoka demu alilia sana.

kumbe jamaa yako anafanyiwa maamuzi na wazazi , basi inawezekana tatizo ndiyo hili la kufanyiwa maamuzi.
kama unabisha ukifika mdadisi kwa kina kuhusu hili nililokuambia hapa.

asakuta same · Jun 30, 2013

Bwai said:
Kikubwa ni kuwa tunatafuta maisha na mzazi anajua mwanaye kwa elimu aliyonayo jeshini panamfaa.

mkuu si ungesema ni wewe mwenyewe......

MankaM · Jun 30, 2013

me mwenyew nilijua hivo

Daddo · Jul 1, 2013

Kwani mwanamke ni mmoja tu hapa duniani? mshauri tu amwambie ukweli kwamba yeye kazi hawezi acha kwa ajili yake na kama hayuko tayari kuolewanaye kwa kuwa ni mwanajeshi basi ni bora atafute mwingine asije kumpotezea muda.

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