Tofauti kati ya Infatuation na Love

[Extrovert]

Infatuation versus Love
Sometimes it is hard to tell if you are infatuated with someone or in love with him or her. People of all ages can get mixed up between infatuation and love, and in the excitement of a relationship it can be hard to tell the difference.
Love grows as the relationship develops. It doesn't happen immediately - it develops slowly, naturally and sincerely. Below is some information to help you decide if you are in love or infatuated with your partner.

• What is infatuation?
• How do I know if what I am feeling is love?

What is infatuation?
Infatuation may have some of the following characteristics:

• Jealousy and distrust – jealousy of friends or activities.
• One person hangs on to the other.
• Partners have an idealized image of each other.
• There is a high level of fear of losing the other.
• The relationship is built on physical attraction.
• One person is always giving more than the other.
• The relationship is the most important thing in your life and you depend upon it to make you feel important.
• There may be violence in the relationship.
• One person frequently makes promises that aren't kept.
• The relationship may cause you to function less well than usual at school, work, or home and you find yourself spending all of your time together.

How do I know if what I am feeling is love?
Love has the following qualities:

• Honesty, respect and trust
• Mutual giving and receiving
• Each partner feels a commitment to the other
• Partners have a balanced interest in other areas of life besides the relationship
• Both people can handle highs and lows in the relationship
• Both people are allowed to be themselves and feel at ease with the other
• You both enjoy your time together
• You feel as though the two of you are close friends; the physical attraction is only one aspect of the feelings you share.

Jiongeze,,,,, Je wewe upo kundi gani???

 

[Mgegedo]

Siti ya mbele kabisa na kishoka nimeweka.

 

[mapipando]

Aisee sifa zote za infatuation zinatuhusu watanzania kama sio waafrika karibu wote wa kizazi hiki.

Usanii mtupu shubaaaamit.

Let me conclude,
Love is for whites while
Infatuation is for Africans/blacks

 

[Ty_Vigilante]

Total "INFATUATION"

 

[Mother Confessor]

Hahahah wabongo wengi wako kwa "temporary love of an adolescent" ndio hiyo infatuation...lol unalikuta jitu zima zee kabisa eti hayuko kwa love bado ana hangaika na u-adolescence lakini yeye hiyo ndio anaaita love..waafrika wachache sana tunaojua what is love bhana😊😊waliobaki wote ni "infatuation of infallible"

 

[Mzigua90]

Sawa sawa mama Terry

Hahahah wabongo wengi wako kwa "temporary love of an adolescent" ndio hiyo infatuation...lol unalikuta jitu zima zee kabisa eti hayuko kwa love bado ana hangaika na u-adolescence lakini yeye hiyo ndio anaaita love..waafrika wachache sana tunaojua what is love bhanawaliobaki wote ni "infatuation of infallible"

 

[Mzigua90]

hapo sijioni kundi hata moja

 

[Kingsmann]

Nilibahatika kuwa na infatuator lady mmoja, i swear nilipata tabu san san, hasa baad ya kuwa na fear ya kuniloose, usiombe hiyo kitu ikutokee kabisa.

 

[Mother Confessor]

Sawa sawa mama Terry

😂😂😂😂😂

 

[Rubuye123]

While I second the idea of “trust” to someone one claim to love...wengi sana wamechapiwa wapenzi wao under their nose tena for years simply by overlooking some little significant things kwa wapenzi wao wakiamini eti they are trusting them!!

 

[Wangari Maathai]

😣mie nipo.kote kote..

 

[Snipes]

nisiwe mnafki nipo makundi yote hayo

 

[kibambrasi]

For me love is more of charisma.

 

[sandraeli]

Mtu anitafsirie

 

[Kaguo Willy]

For me nipo kund la infatuation kwa sababu kadhaa yaan baada ya yule niliyempenda kunipa mkono wa kwaher nimekuwa in love temporarily not permanent

 

[Lyamber]

There is no love in Africa