This lady, I need your advise

LangatKipro

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There is this lady I have been pursuing and i want to make it serious (marriage). I once asked her whether she has a guy and she said yes. Later she started showing interest. So i decided to pursue her yet again and I did let her know how i am serious about her and everything. She has been responding quite positively and we were planning to meet next coming week. It was only yesterday night that i saw that she had put a profile picture of a certain guy she was referring to her as Beib and wishing her good health because he was sick. So i was quite surprised because she has never raised the issue of boyfriend or so in our recent conversations. So i decided to comment on her status and asked her who the guy was. she read my message and did not respond to it. In addition she quickly deleted that whatsapp status of the guy she had put. I have not talked to her again by phone. So i am thinking whether I should just leave this thing and let the lady go or either way because I really like the lady and I came into equation late, I should continue pursuing her and force/pressure her make a decision on which side she is.

 

Castle_Lite

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Give it some time,.. Study her More

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Kasiano Muyenzi

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Ras simba where are you papaa?

Hili jukwaa sio la un'gen'ge wapendwa

 

Smart911

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Simple... she is not ready for you... she ain't have any respect to you... she has unfinished business to deal with...

Let her go... while you still can...


Cc: mahondaw

 

Uncle Yoso

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Tuliokimbia shule sasa... Ok let me try to speak ung'eng'e The girl like this is not interesting to you please my friend let her go and do your own vision not think more about realationship you will pain

Ung'eng'e umekuja kwa wakati...😜😜

 

amu

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Taken, no room for you unless udangiwe.

 

- kANA -

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Pursuing her doesn't mean she shouldn't date other guys.

You're just in the pursuit and not her man yet!

Asking who the guy is was a silly move for someone of your position.

Talk to her and show her how serious you are, the rest will fall into place!

- KANA -

 

Mother Confessor

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Siku hizi kiingereza sikielewi kabisaaa😩😩

 

Zeus1

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SHe don't love you,she loves the guy..

If you real love her,make her love you,show her that she is everything to you..

 

Rylee

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Jaribu kunywa maji kwanza dada ..

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Daby

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She is trying to play duck goose game. she has a guy at the same time she wants to play you.

Take your time.

 

Rylee

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Maybe you should let her go, she seems uninterested

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Daby

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vio_vio said:

Maybe you should let her go, she seems uninterested

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But she deleted her bf status!

Wht was the point?

 

Mother Confessor

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vio_vio said:

Jaribu kunywa maji kwanza dada ..

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Samahani..sijui unafahamu kama nimekumiss mm???

 

Daby

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Mother Confessor said:

Samahani..sijui unafahamu kama nimekumiss mm???

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Mnajuana kumbe.

Huwa anakataa sio kazuri! Nimegee siri basi. Nijibu kwa kizungu.

 

- kANA -

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Daby said:

She is trying to play duck goose game. she has a guy at the same time she wants to play you.

Take your time.

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He's not dating her, he's still on the pursuit. This guy needs to know his zones first before trying anything silly!

- KANA -

 

Lupamba's grandson

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Ngoja na mm nijaribu

Mhhhhhh ok
ze thing is she is not ready to leave that guy becous she want to eat all side.


Dah nimejitahidi

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Espy_

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Mke mwema hutoka kwa bwana.
Kwahiyo kazana hapohapo.

 

Joanah

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Mother Confessor said:

Siku hizi kiingereza sikielewi kabisaaa😩😩

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Hata mimi sijui kwanini

 

Mother Confessor

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Daby said:

Mnajuana kumbe.

Huwa anakataa sio kazuri! Nimegee siri basi. Nijibu kwa kizungu.

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Hahahah Diiiii...ngoja basi ninywe maji kama alivyonishauri vio_vio ndio nikujibu kidhungu😎