Vipi kama unafanyaga mazoezi unapendaga kuwa peke yako? Kwa mfano ukiwa gym au kwenye michezo unaonaga kama vile watu wote wanakuangalia wewe?100% yaani siwezi ku-interact na jamii kabisa! Mara nyingi nakua peke yangu nacheki movies tu za Akina 007 and the like!
Mimi na-interact kidogo ila napenda kukaa peke yangu....Sijui kwanini....100% yaani siwezi ku-interact na jamii kabisa! Mara nyingi nakua peke yangu nacheki movies tu za Akina 007 and the like!
Being an HSP (Highly Sensitive Person) has taken a toll on me.
People don't understand us. We connect with animals, music, nature, than anything else...we prefer a solitary life so that we can digest everything around us. We have a lot to process.
Social interactions and gatherings are overwhelming to us, they are simply irritating. We get to understand people's emotions at a deeper level than an average person.
We look too much into people and things. We are highly intuitive. We see details that others don't. We are about 15-20% of the world population.
We cry over anything, from watching a sad cartoon movie to seeing an animal getting hurt...it just becomes too much to take in. Horror movies, anything scary is unbearable.
My family and people around tell me to toughen up, they think am weak, too emotional, a crying baby, but that's who I am (an HSP), it's genetic. It's not a disease. They just need to take it easy with me.
Relationships are usually tough on us because we don't connect with people easily (not even to our partners). And the fact that we are highly sensitive to our surroundings ie. Noise, smell, weather, fabrics, skin, makes matters worse.
I love my Personality.
Does anyone connect?
Kumbe!!! sikujua hilo....I understand that, but am talking about HSPs here and not introverts. There is a difference between these two.
Autism? No way.Is this other name for autism? Its diagnosed condition
Hujaelewa?JF is so interesting, unaweza kushtukia uko kwenye uzi ambao huuelewi na kuondoka hutaki.
Noma sana.
How so?Absolutely me
Before nilikua nakwenda gym but nikashindwa nikanunua vifaa now mafanya mwenyewe home! Kazini ndio napata wa kati mgumu! Mpaka nafikir ni quit job! Naonaga Hawa coworkers hawafit kufanya pamoja na mm! Unajikuta utaona mengi Katika kaziVipi kama unafanyaga mazoezi unapendaga kuwa peke yako? Kwa mfano ukiwa gym au kwenye michezo unaonaga kama vile watu wote wanakuangalia wewe?
Je kazini huwa unatamani ungepewa kiofisi cha kwako tu na usiwe kwenye ofisi ya watu wengi?
Previously nilikua nakaa na washkaji but nikawa nikotofauti sana even kwenye maongezi nikagundua naishi ulimwengu tofauti kabisa na wao! Then nikaona kama nakwazika flan hv, then nikafuata my passionMimi na-interact kidogo ila napenda kukaa peke yangu....Sijui kwanini....
Yani mara nyingi napenda kukaa peke yangu mpaka ofisini wananiambia ninaringa lakini sio kweli, nikifika kazini asubuhi nikishasalimiana na niliowakuta kunyanyuka ni muda wa lunch, over weekend mimi ndani najifungia kitandani na kuchart, sometimes mpaka nakosana na friends zangu maana unakuta tumepanga tutoke ikifika ule muda wa kutoka nagairisha mpaka siku hizi hawanialiki tena, but i feel more comfotable when i'm alone.How so?
Watu kama nyie hata kuwa mwanamichezo ni ngumu (of course sio kwamba haiwezekani) maana unaona kama vile watu wanakuangalia sana (watching your every move) na inakupa shida sana.Before nilikua nakwenda gym but nikashindwa nikanunua vifaa now mafanya mwenyewe home! Kazini ndio napata wa kati mgumu! Mpaka nafikir ni quit job! Naonaga Hawa coworkers hawafit kufanya pamoja na mm! Unajikuta utaona mengi Katika kazi
Nakua emotional pale mtu anaponidanganya but the rest na ignore to! Kuwa mwanamichezo nimeshindwa kabisa! Hata kuangalia Mpira kwenye kadamnasi pia siwezi kwa kweli zaidi ya movies, music na vitabu and the like!Watu kama nyie hata kuwa mwanamichezo ni ngumu (of course sio kwamba haiwezekani) maana unaona kama vile watu wanakuangalia sana (watching your every move) na inakupa shida sana.
Huko ofisini jitahidi tu au kama vipi omba uwe na ofisi ya peke yako.
Vipi unakuwa emotional hata kwa vitu vidogo?
Hahaha nakuelewa sana.Yani mara nyingi napenda kukaa peke yangu mpaka ofisini wananiambia ninaringa lakini sio kweli, nikifika kazini asubuhi nikishasalimiana na niliowakuta kunyanyuka ni muda wa lunch, over weekend mimi ndani najifungia kitandani na kuchart, sometimes mpaka nakosana na friends zangu maana unakuta tumepanga tutoke ikifika ule muda wa kutoka nagairisha mpaka siku hizi hawanialiki tena, but i feel more comfotable when i'm alone.
Hujaelewa?
Hii hali haina ukishua wala nini na sijui kwa sababu gani unasema hivyo.nlichogundua HSP wote mna kaukishua flani hivi,kama huna pesa wala kazi rasmi hiyo mnaita HSP itatoka tu,kilichonifurahisha wote mnajua kingereza.
hivi kwa wale tulio na marafiki wengi,yan hupati muda wa kukaa peke yako labda muda wa kulala,yani ukiingia ndani tu mgeni huyu hapa,mnataka kukaa tu wengine hao na simu za kukutaka uende hazikatiki,ikitokea uko peke yako siku haiendi kabisa unaona bora hata uende barabaran unyooshe miguu tu,.muda na movie huna na ikitokea ukaangalia basi unataka za mazombie,kivita,mapanga.vip na sisi tunaitwaje
Tunaongelea kitu kizuri ambacho watu wengi hudhani ni kasoro lakini sio.Nimetoka mweupe, ila nimefurahi watu wanavyochangia kwa kuelewana vizuri, inaonekana ni kitu kizuri mnaongelea.