Hi MMU members Misunderstanding comes about when we confuse sex with love. Sex is part of love but it is not love. Sex is a temporary desire. You can probably have sex for 15 minutes or 30 minutes at most but real love is for a long time (months or years) and is showcased in acts and behaviour. If a person doesn't give you sex, it doesn't mean she or he hates you!..Sometimes a person may not be ready for sex due to unavoidable circumstances and yet still loves you! beware? Understanding this difference is the aspirin to misunderstanding!..But to what extent should sex become a stumbling block or a corner stone to love??..lets us discuss!!!