Relationship and letting go. Why I oppose this?

mult_talented_p · Nov 10, 2016

When you get a little hurt in your relationship, friends will tell you, let go.
Okay. Some will tell you to try and fix things or, try to make it up. But, you will see all sorts of prideful posts, let go, let go.I think this is ridiculous.

I believe really there are circumstances of letting go, but yours? Are they comparable to anyone else's? Hold on.

In Africa, that's how our mothers, teach us to live in marriage, holding on.
He snapped at you? Forgive him. Maybe you love him more than he does love you, if at all there is the love and you know how potential is the man that you are dating, love him! Your love is big enough.

If you break it off now and replace him, you will not be able to tolerate the next man because, you just don't love him as much. Hold on. And pray to God.It takes three to build a real relationship, God, a woman, and a man.

Thank you.

Espy_ · Nov 10, 2016

Post ya kiingereza alafu haijataja pesa!!
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The Monk · Nov 10, 2016

atoto said:
Post ya kiingereza alafu haijataja pesa!!
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Yah! aaam I don't understand everything but the point is there. I hear relationship, woman and man.
Sasa the question comes, what kind of relationship are we referring in this case, marriage?

I always insist that, sex should be avoided as much as possible before marriage, that could solve most cases.

Ni hayo tu, the idea is there but the problem is language.

Patience123 · Nov 10, 2016

Holding on kwa anayeholdika jamani..

Kuna mtu mwingine anakufanyia vitimbi maksudi ili muachane 'cause ameshakuchoka, haoni tena thamani yako, better to let go though it hurts..

benedict2 · Nov 10, 2016

Nice post
Be blessed mate

mult_talented_p · Nov 10, 2016

atoto said:
Post ya kiingereza alafu haijataja pesa!!
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Pesa ina mchango gani katika mahusiano?

Heaven on Earth · Nov 10, 2016

You have to let it go sometimes.... maana inaweza kukupa nafasi ya kukutana na mtu bora zaidi mpaka ukajiuliza ulikua wapi siku zote...

callmeGhost · Nov 10, 2016

mult_talented_p said:
When you get a little hurt in your relationship, friends will tell you, let go.
Okay. Some will tell you to try and fix things or, try to make it up.
But, you will see all sorts of prideful posts, let go, let go.
I think this is ridiculous.
I believe really there are circumstances of letting go, but yours? Are they comparable to anyone else's?
Hold on.
In Africa, that's how our mothers, teach us to live in marriage, holding on.
He snapped at you? Forgive him. Maybe you love him more than he does love you, if at all there is the love and you know how potential is the man that you are dating, love him! Your love is big enough.
If you break it off now and replace him, you will not be able to tolerate the next man because, you just don't love him as much.
Hold on.
And pray to God.
It takes three to build a real relationship, God, a woman, and a man.

Thank you.

I don't know why your post doesn't have replies yet. Because it is on point. Wenda kwa sababu generation hii wengi hatukubaliani na hayo [emoji115] [emoji115] .

Asante kwa ushauri. Nimejifunza.

-callmeGhost

Patience123 · Nov 10, 2016

Heaven on Earth said:
You have to let it go sometimes.... maana inaweza kukupa nafasi ya kukutana na mtu bora zaidi mpaka ukajiuliza ulikua wapi siku zote...

Umeonaee eeh...unaishi under stress na mtu asiyekujali, saa nyingine anakuambia kabisa kuwa hakutaki so Usimng'ang'anie, to hold on kwa mtu kama huyu ni kujipa maradhi ya moyo... Sometimes let it go, the right one will stay.

Namge · Nov 10, 2016

I agree with you asee.. Put God in the equation.. And everything becomes possible.. Holding on is the result of faith, hope and love.. The greatest is love and love is God.

Espy_ · Nov 10, 2016

Samaritan said:
Yah! aaam I don't understand everything but the point is there. I hear relationship, woman and man.
Sasa the question comes, what kind of relationship are we referring in this case, marriage?

I always insist that, sex should be avoided as much as possible before marriage, that could solve most cases.

Ni hayo tu, the idea is there but the problem is language.

Ujue haujanisomesha!!

Espy_ · Nov 10, 2016

mult_talented_p said:
Pesa ina mchango gani katika mahusiano?

Kubwa zaidi ya sana.

be unique · Nov 10, 2016

mult_talented_p said:
When you get a little hurt in your relationship, friends will tell you, let go.
Okay. Some will tell you to try and fix things or, try to make it up.
But, you will see all sorts of prideful posts, let go, let go.
I think this is ridiculous.
I believe really there are circumstances of letting go, but yours? Are they comparable to anyone else's?
Hold on.
In Africa, that's how our mothers, teach us to live in marriage, holding on.
He snapped at you? Forgive him. Maybe you love him more than he does love you, if at all there is the love and you know how potential is the man that you are dating, love him! Your love is big enough.
If you break it off now and replace him, you will not be able to tolerate the next man because, you just don't love him as much.
Hold on.
And pray to God.
It takes three to build a real relationship, God, a woman, and a man.

Thank you.

Watanzania tunapenda lugha yetu,hiyo lugha yako inatia njaa hata kusoma,weka kwa kiswahili tutachangia.

The Monk · Nov 10, 2016

atoto said:
Ujue haujanisomesha!!

Hata mimi sijapanda school bus...si ndio maana najitutumua kupata experience? ukitaka kujifunza kitu weka uoga pembeni kama Trump, watu wanakuona mwendawazimu ila unachanja mbuga...

Honey Faith · Nov 10, 2016

Kwenye mapenzi yangu na mtu sitakagi ushauri wowote kutoka kwa mtu yoyote.Nikiamua kulet it go naamua kweli na nikisema let me try and see kama kitaeleweka mbeleni kiukweli natry haswaaaa

h120 · Nov 10, 2016

Samaritan said:
Yah! aaam I don't understand everything but the point is there. I hear relationship, woman and man.
Sasa the question comes, what kind of relationship are we referring in this case, marriage?

I always insist that, sex should be avoided as much as possible before marriage, that could solve most cases.

Ni hayo tu, the idea is there but the problem is language.

Labda arranged marriages zirejeshwe.

Heaven Sent · Nov 10, 2016

"A little hurt" ndo ikoje hiyo? Unaipimaje?

Unfortunately hizo relationship za kumweka Mungu kwenye equation ni chache mnooo. Tunajiendeaga tu

The Monk · Nov 10, 2016

h120 said:
Labda arranged marriages zirejeshwe.

Kwa vyovyote vile mkuu, kama itawezekana kufanikisha hilo, tutapunguza matatizo mengi sana.
Mambo ya letting go yataisha kama sio kupungua kwa kiasi kikubwa sana.

Heaven Sent · Nov 10, 2016

Honey Faith said:
Kwenye mapenzi yangu na mtu sitakagi ushauri wowote kutoka kwa mtu yoyote.Nikiamua kulet it go naamua kweli na nikisema let me try and see kama kitaeleweka mbeleni kiukweli natry haswaaaa

Hivi unadhani unaweza kumshauri mtu aachane na akaachana kweli na mtu wake, while hana nia ya kuachana? Utashangaa na roho yako mbona. Ikifika stage mtu anataka kuachana, hatokumbuka hata kuomba ushauri kwa mtu, atajisepea zake kimya kimya.

kijani11 · Nov 10, 2016

There are things/relationships the best thing you can do is to let go.

Why hold on to someone who disrespects and doesnt value a thing you do?!...

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