Ila wanaume wenzangu mnanishangaza. Pado mnatumia hizi fomula "zilipendwa". In short mwanamke akishakuona kama rafiki, imekula kwako na kutoka kwenye friendzone ni sawa na ujitose kuandamana. Friend zone is hell of a place. Ulitakiwa by day 3 uwe umeua.
Usihofu, Ghost nipo. I am your Wingline man.
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By now alishakuona friend, process ya kwanza ni kuondoa hilo wazo la kua kaka yake. Kwanza kata zawadi, ucheshi nae punguza kwa pattern sijui Kama unanisoma. Leo mchekee kesho umkaushie, mind your own business. As days go on, increase ratio ya kucheka:mindYourOwnBusiness.
Hii italeta effect gani? Ataona kuwa wewe humtegemei na hii itaongeza mvuto. Akikuona hauko available ndio unajitoa kwenye ukaka na dada, friend whatever you call it.
Pili, inaonekana muoga kutongoza, seriously Kaka Yani umesubiri mpaka dinner ndio uanze kupiga sound?![emoji15] this goes to all men out there, piga sound the first day hapa unajihakikishia hatakuona Kama Kaka wala rafiki, atakuona mwindaji unaetaka kuteka moyo wake. Which is a plus. Siku zote usikosee kuingia na gear ya kirafiki, kutoka ngumu. Ingia na gear ya kuwa unamtaka early on! Full stop. Okay so since ulishamess up, Ghost nipo kuclean up your mess.
Nini ufanye; kwenye hizo sessions unazomchekea, usimchekee Kama dada. Kwanza anza kumuita beautiful, or whatever sweet name you can think of ila isiwe sexy a*s and the like, you get me. Fanya hivi in a fun way. Muda mwingine muite mama watoto, siku nyingine sema mke wangu, kwanini? Hii itamuingia kichwani na yeye ataanza kukuona tofauti, more like a potential boyfriend/husband. Kumbuka usioverdo. Mfanye amiss kuitwa hivi.
Tatu, GET PHYSICAL!!!! Man Sasa hapa ndio kwenyewe. Ukimaliza hizo steps za juu ukaingia hii, itakuwa step rahisi kwako na utapata good results 98% of the time. Hio 2% ni natural disaster tu zinaweza tokea 🤣🤣[emoji23]. Anyway ukiskip hizo steps mbili juu ukaenda straight hapa, 50/50. Sijajua uhusiano wenu vizuri. Unaweza kifunguliwa mshtaka umebaka or unaweza kujipatia jiko. Seriously sijawahi kuona wanaofunguliwa mashtaka wengi huzingua mwanzo ila later unakuta ni couple. But kiukweli sishauri. Okay okay, lemme cut the talk. Step no 3[emoji23] [emoji23] [emoji23] ; ukimsalimia jenge tabia ya kumshika mikono. Then later uongeze uanze kumkumbatia ukiondoka. Ukipiga nae story mchekeshe, the during the process mshike mkono au kiunoni. Believe me it works [emoji847][emoji847][emoji847] I am the evil guy here, najua it works cause sijawahi pata negative response.
Nne and final[emoji113]
Baada ya kumaliza steps zote tatu hapo juu now nina imani itakuwa imepita Kama wiki hivi au mbili. Seriously usibadili haraka. Sasa tunafire our final missile. Hapa ni choice yako wewe more. But wacha nikupe my advice. Make a special day, mtoe out sio mbali na Nyumbani or Kama mbali, hakikisha unaenda sehemu karibu na hotel, lounge whatever. Make it short, plus usimleweshe, hii game ya watu wenye low game[emoji12] . Nilishawahi kumtoa dada mmoja kunywa coffee na joto la Dar after that kiliwaka! Date mtreat kama mtu wako tayari, be romantic, hakikisha mtu asiewajua ajue nyie wapenzi. Seriously hapa hamnaga mwanamke atakae kataa kutreatiwa hivyo. Believe me. During the date be funny. Kuna post zangu za muda humu, zicheki, utajifunza vitu viwili vitatu jinsi ya kuwa siku hii. All in all make it short nusu saa au lisaa. Then toka nae, nunu kitu CHAKO then mwambie mwende nyumbani (hapa imagination yako, ila Mimi natumia hii), mwambie unapeleka mara moja then you leave. Akiingia bhasi hapa ukitoka bila lipstick kuchafua nguo yako umeshindikana kwenye karne hii. Either way akiingia get back to step three, now sio umshike mkono tuu, Shika paja!!!! Okay acha niache kuongea you get it, make smart but big moves. Believe me hapa umepata tayari. [emoji2]
TL;DR stop being her friend, be unavailable, be more romantic, sleep with her.
-callmeGhost
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