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- Mar 2, 2015
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I am very stressed about and suspicious of my wife with her gym trainer mara sijui mwalimu. I have no other place to turn for advice. I appreciate that what im about to say could be construed as a typically male response to what others might feel is really nothing.
They obviously get on very well, they keep texting each other mara sijui ukiamka ruka kamba saa 12 asubuhi wtf. I found out by chance and it took a lot of courage to confront her, not wanting to be seen as unreasonable and jealous kwa kuwa nampenda na kumuamini sana.
She denied there was anything going on between them. Her explanation was that they do training together and nothing else.
The texting was just banter between friends, she said, even though he was telling her lots of personal things which one would only share with very close friends.
However, she agreed the texting was at times too personal and it would stop.
My wife was frank with me for a while but I sense that they have started contacting each other again or has it ever stopped?
I have tried to see things her way but it is not easy
Can a man have an innocent friendship with a beautiful married woman?
And as a person, does not care about any consequences?
I will have to tell him to keep out of my wife, vinginevyo nitaamfanya kitu kibaya sana.
They obviously get on very well, they keep texting each other mara sijui ukiamka ruka kamba saa 12 asubuhi wtf. I found out by chance and it took a lot of courage to confront her, not wanting to be seen as unreasonable and jealous kwa kuwa nampenda na kumuamini sana.
She denied there was anything going on between them. Her explanation was that they do training together and nothing else.
The texting was just banter between friends, she said, even though he was telling her lots of personal things which one would only share with very close friends.
However, she agreed the texting was at times too personal and it would stop.
My wife was frank with me for a while but I sense that they have started contacting each other again or has it ever stopped?
I have tried to see things her way but it is not easy
Can a man have an innocent friendship with a beautiful married woman?
And as a person, does not care about any consequences?
I will have to tell him to keep out of my wife, vinginevyo nitaamfanya kitu kibaya sana.