Najikuta namchukia niliyezaa naye

Najikuta namchukia niliyezaa naye

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Mwanamke wa kichaga,kwa mwonekano mzuri sana,ila kilichotokea kwasasa hajui timing,yaan nikiwa na mawazo badala ya kunicomfort yeye ndio ananikandamiza,sina uhakika kama anaelewa au haelewi,sasa yupo chuoni huko mbaaaaali kabisa,akijisikia anakuja kufuata vya utamu,lakini nakuta marafiki ndio wananifanya nifurahi kushinda yeye,tukiwa tunaongea na simu haipiti dk 5 hatujagombana,sio tabia mpya...ni baada tu ya kuzaa naye,na nina mtoto wa miaka miwili kasoro pata picha nimevumilia muda gani hajabadirika kwa mtakaosema nivumilie....je kipi ni sahihi kukifanya!
 
Mkuu kwani kuzaa na mtu ndio lazima umuoe na kuishi naye? Am trying to think rationally.... Kwa nini hizo tabia zije baada ya kuzaa? Was she pretending before ili ndege unaswe tunduni? For Heaven sake! Everyone is entitled to some happiness.... Sasa Kama mkiongea
Kwa simu ( if what you are telling is true) mnagombana in 5 minutes je mkiwa mnaishi wote? Marriage is a commitment don't rush to it, na Kama ndo zile until death do us apart... Think wisely ufanye maamuzi sahihi
 
Pengine ni stress za shule jaribu kimvumilia amalize chuo pia usione soo sema nae
 
Mkuu kwani kuzaa na mtu ndio lazima umuoe na kuishi naye? Am trying to think rationally.... Kwa nini hizo tabia zije baada ya kuzaa? Was she pretending before ili ndege unaswe tunduni? For Heaven sake! Everyone is entitled to some happiness.... Sasa Kama mkiongea
Kwa simu ( if what you are telling is true) mnagombana in 5 minutes je mkiwa mnaishi wote? Marriage is a commitment don't rush to it, na Kama ndo zile until death do us apart... Think wisely ufanye maamuzi sahihi

Yaan hilo la simu nimezungumzia now coz yupo mbali.,nimekaa naye 5yrs now na shida ndio hiyo hata tukiwa pamoja...i dont where tunapishana,maana ur tryin to do all the best for her,u can do it by hearin it from mwenyewe akisema anavyovipenda....love is in one 5mins za mwanzo zingine zilizobaki ni lawama na mengine mengi ya kukera
 
Pengine ni stress za shule jaribu kimvumilia amalize chuo pia usione soo sema nae

Mbona na mimi nimesoma tena kushinda hiyo degree anayochukua,electronics ina confussion kibao...but i was tryin holdin them apart napokuwa naye...
 
Mbona na mimi nimesoma tena kushinda hiyo degree anayochukua,electronics ina confussion kibao...but i was tryin holdin them apart napokuwa naye...

Mkuu tunatofautiana jinsi ya kuhendo stress.....wengine wana nguvu za kukabiliana nazo wengine ni dhaifu. Ivo yan
 
Mkuu tunatofautiana jinsi ya kuhendo stress.....wengine wana nguvu za kukabiliana nazo wengine ni dhaifu. Ivo yan

Sometimes u may think its ur detiny,kumbe u got a long way to go.....Mungu alituficha sana kwenye kuijua kesho,na ndio maana kesho haziishi...
 
Sometimes u may think its ur detiny,kumbe u got a long way to go.....Mungu alituficha sana kwenye kuijua kesho,na ndio maana kesho haziishi...

Ni kosa la jinai kumuacha mtu bila kuongea nae akajua makosa yake.... Kama utaongea nae akagoma kubadilika then huna haja ya kujifunga kitanzi cha maisha
 
Ni kosa la jinai kumuacha mtu bila kuongea nae akajua makosa yake.... Kama utaongea nae akagoma kubadilika then huna haja ya kujifunga kitanzi cha maisha

Ni kweli aisee,sijaplan kumuacha ila natafuta what to do so that i can handle her
 
Usikukize moyo wako, jee uko tayari kuendeleaa kutesekaa? Jee mateso yake ya miaka mi5 bado unaweza kuvumiliaa zaidi? Unahakikaa Kama anakupenda kweli? Sababu anae kupenda atakua na wewe kwenye dhiki na raha sasa Kama mnagombana kila Mara something is wrong.....
 

una uwezo wa kumbadilisha
labda kama unatafuta sababu ya kummwaga!!
 
Baada ya kuzaa amejihakikishia kwamba yeye ndo kila kitu...baada ya ndoa si itakuwa balaaa....ningekuwa Mimi ningejiweka pembeni...maana baada ya ndoa hali inaweza kuwa mbaya zaidi
 
Mkuu kwani kuzaa na mtu ndio lazima umuoe na kuishi naye? Am trying to think rationally.... Kwa nini hizo tabia zije baada ya kuzaa? Was she pretending before ili ndege unaswe tunduni? For Heaven sake! Everyone is entitled to some happiness.... Sasa Kama mkiongea
Kwa simu ( if what you are telling is true) mnagombana in 5 minutes je mkiwa mnaishi wote? Marriage is a commitment don't rush to it, na Kama ndo zile until death do us apart... Think wisely ufanye maamuzi sahihi

I firmly second this.
 
Issue ni compatibility,hamuendani kila mtu ale kona,hamna anayemeet expectations za mwenzake ndio maana kunakuwa na frictions!
 
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