My wife shows no affection

BabM · Feb 5, 2015

Tuoeni ushauri hapa.

I am a 39 year old man in pretty good shape, 6'2" and fairly good looking. I am a very affectionate and loving person, but my wife is not. I am always the one to initiate sex, hugs, kisses, or any type of physical contact.

I don't understand why she's so cold to me. I love her with all my heart, but she is breaking me down. I have tried doing more of the housework, working out 5 days a week, anything I could think of to get her more interested in me but nothing works.

She tells me that she loves me, but she doesn't make me feel loved at all. I want her to want to be with me without me asking her too. We have 2 kids that I am committed to being here for, so I am at a loss as to what I should do. Sorry for rambling.

and 998 others · Feb 6, 2015

Bila shaka mkeo ni mchaga maana wachaga ndo wapo COLD kupitiliza yaan kwao mapenzi sijui mpaka umpe nini! kama vp nenda AMBIANCE kamata tinginya kwa 10,000.

mayoscissors · Feb 6, 2015

Have children time will tell.

Watu8 · Feb 6, 2015

Sasa hii habari ya kunakili kutoka mtandao sijui wa wapi huko tena ya mwaka 2009 unatuletea sisi...kama sio kupotezeana muda ni nini hiki???

Sosi: http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Am-Married-But-Lonely/790549

Queen Kan · Feb 6, 2015

Watu8 said:
Sasa hii habari ya kunakili kutoka mtandao sijui wa wapi huko tena ya mwaka 2009 unatuletea sisi...kama sio kupotezeana muda ni nini hiki???

Sosi: My Wife Shows No Affection : I Am Married But Lonely Story & Experience

Haha anataka tushindwe kulala.

Pdidy · Feb 6, 2015

BabM
Same to you

shalet · Feb 6, 2015

ume copy habari ungeleta na comments zake umalize mchezo.

Watu8 · Feb 6, 2015

Queen Kan said:
Haha anataka tushindwe kulala.

na vile imeandikwa kwa kikristo ndio hadi tupekue madikshenari...

Kichwa Ndio Mtu · Feb 6, 2015

Watu8 said:
Sasa hii habari ya kunakili kutoka mtandao sijui wa wapi huko tena ya mwaka 2009 unatuletea sisi...kama sio kupotezeana muda ni nini hiki???

Sosi: My Wife Shows No Affection : I Am Married But Lonely Story & Experience

Asante kwa kuturahisishia mambo. Binafsi nilivyosoma hiyo habari na kingereza chake nikajua tu itakua imepakuliwa mahali,gafla naona umeweka wazi hapa.

Huyu kilaza angewapa watu kazi ya kufikiri na kuja kumpa ushauri kumbe habari yenyewe ya miaka kadhaa iliyopita na haimuhusu.

Kazi njema mkuu.

BabM · Feb 6, 2015

The question is old but the problem is living. when your marriage becomes cold you have to find a way to break the dormancy. We need to learn from others and twist to fit our situation.

Watu8 · Feb 6, 2015

BabM said:
The question is old but the problem is living. when your marriage becomes cold you have to find a way to break the dormancy. We need to learn from others and twist to fit our situation.

Hao watakaopata tatizo kama hili watakuja hapa kuandika ya kwao na tutawashauri kadiri tuwezavyo...

Elizabeth Dominic · Feb 6, 2015

Watu8 said:
Hao watakaopata tatizo kama hili watakuja hapa kuandika ya kwao na tutawashauri kadiri tuwezavyo...

Kaka mkamiaji.....teh

Watu8 · Feb 6, 2015

Elizabeth Dominic said:
Kaka mkamiaji.....teh

teh teh...jambo wewe

BabM · Feb 6, 2015

Nilitegemea kwa kuwa mko watu8 mtakuwa mna uelewa wa haraka zaidi kuliko mtu mmoja. Mtu mzima sio mpaka kila kitu kifafanulie mandhali u mswahili wa pemba ukiona kilemba tu wajua. au ndio wataka zile post ambazo wakuu wanataja motars na pestles, !! By the way imepita tena hii. see u next time

Watu8 said:
Hao watakaopata tatizo kama hili watakuja hapa kuandika ya kwao na tutawashauri kadiri tuwezavyo...

Werrason · Feb 6, 2015

BabM said:
The question is old but the problem is living. when your marriage becomes cold you have to find a way to break the dormancy. We need to learn from others and twist to fit our situation.

True Baby M :thumbup::thumbup::thumbup:

Tyta · Feb 6, 2015

BabM said:
The question is old but the problem is living. when your marriage becomes cold you have to find a way to break the dormancy. We need to learn from others and twist to fit our situation.

the issue is living the character advocates outbreak of made up tales.It were better off to be honest(reveal the source).Never reward yourself a ''starring role'' to a ''copy and pasted'' scenario.You will just end up a ''bad guy''.

MERCIFUL · Feb 6, 2015

Tyta said:
the issue is living the character advocates outbreak of made up tales.It were better off to be honest(reveal the source).Never reward yourself a ''starring role'' to a ''copy and pasted'' scenario.You will just end up a ''bad guy''.

I fully agree with you; maana nilivyoanza kusoma nikasema maskini kaka wa watu yamemsibu hadi kaona aweke msisitizo kwa "kimombo" But again, hii kitu jamani haina formula, mke wa Ngosha atatibiwa kwa Panadol wakati mke wa Beka atatibiwa kwa Aspirin. Its all about chanzo cha tatizo na aina ya mke ulienae.

Fixed Point · Feb 6, 2015

Watu8 said:
Sasa hii habari ya kunakili kutoka mtandao sijui wa wapi huko tena ya mwaka 2009 unatuletea sisi...kama sio kupotezeana muda ni nini hiki???

Sosi: My Wife Shows No Affection : I Am Married But Lonely Story & Experience

hahaaaa, haya mambo bado yanaendelea mtani?
nilidhani nitakuta yameshaisha

Watu8 · Feb 6, 2015

Fixed Point said:
hahaaaa, haya mambo bado yanaendelea mtani?
nilidhani nitakuta yameshaisha

Heri ya mwaka mpya jirani...umepotea sana mtani

jerrytz · Feb 6, 2015

''She tells me that she loves me, but she doesn't make me feel loved at all.''

you are the problem......

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