Kama ni adhabu stahiki sawaJibu:Swali:
Jee wewe utakubali uchapwe pale unapokosea?
HapanaAu wewe haukosei?
Kuna kanuni za kimaumbile kijanaAu huu mtazamo hautumiki kutoka kwa Mke kwenda kwa Mume??
ni ukweli usiopingika kwamba
wanawake wakati mwingine hatupishani na punda yaani bila mijeledi
hatwendi mbele,hivyo busara inahitajhika zaidi ikiwezekana kipondo
kinahusika pia,,,,,,,,,,,mafeminist nawasubiria hapa.
Tatizo ni nini?hey
mtoto achapwe na mtu mzima pia?
Kuna makosa ya kufikishana huku na kuna makosa ya kipigo!ukiona mtu hakuelewi achana nae
Ukijisahau ukamchamba kama unamchamba shost akikunasa kofi moja ili akili irudi mahala pake sawa,ila kipigo cha mbwa mwizi hutoki ndani wiki unauguza majeraha HAKIKUBALIKI!!
Tatizo ni nini?
Kuna makosa ya kufikishana huku na kuna makosa ya kipigo!
Hizo kanuni na malezi yasiyoruhusu mke kumuadhibu mume hazijakaa sawa.Kama ni adhabu stahiki sawa
Hapana
Sijasema hivyo!
Kuna kanuni za kimaumbile kijana
Kanuni na malezi hayaruhusu mke kumuadhibu mume!
Mwanamke ni kama mtoto tu bila kipigo na matusi hakuheshimu.Amaaa,kama unaweza kumpiga mkeo kwa kosa lolote lile (ukidhani una mfunza),
una mtofautishaje MKEO na MTOTO wako?
Halafu muda mwingine huwa nawashangaa sana ukiwa mpole ukijaribu kuongea nae kwa upole anakuona ----- ila uki mtreat harshly ndo akili zinakuwa zinamkaa sawasawa .
Haipo hata moja itakayo fanya nimpige/nipigane na mke wangu.
Ila zipo nyingi zitakazo fanya niachane nae:
1. Kumtukana au kumdharau mamangu kwa sababu yoyote iwayo.
2. Kwenda kinyume na imani yangu.
3. Kutoka nje ya ndoa kwa sababu yoyote iwayo.
Mengineyo yote,yana vumilika.
Note: Siwezi kumpiga mwanamke na ukurya wangu wote. Believe it,or leave it.
Mwanamke ni kama mtoto tu bila kipigo na matusi hakuheshimu.
Mwanamke ni kama mtoto tu bila kipigo na matusi hakuheshimu.
Kama ni adhabu stahiki sawa
Hapana
Sijasema hivyo!
Kuna kanuni za kimaumbile kijana
Kanuni na malezi hayaruhusu mke kumuadhibu mume!
Na kuna makosa yanastahili kipigo
Sio sahihi kuzuia kipigo "at any coast"
Kipigo ni fundisho!!
Je ni kauli gani inayoweza kukufanya wewe kama mwanaume ambaye mstarabu umpige mpenzi/mke wako. You gotta know that this doesn't relate to me at all. Please understand me here I'm not saying kupiga ni acceptable it should be avoided at all cost, whether umemfumania au umekasirishwa kwa lolote lile. All I'm trying to find out is what makes you EXPLODE. I hope you get ma drift. Kauli gani inaweza kukutia hasira hadi ukauweka ustarabu wako pembeni?
Kauli zinazokufanya UmButue Mke/Mpenzi wako
Please don't comment things like ohh I'm an angle and I can't raise my hand to beat a woman, there is a line that just can't be corssed for everyone. Like they say Life isn't fair and you can't expect a raging bull not to charge just because you are a vegetarian. You may be cool but what abt the person you are with??????
This is what made me think about this, Jana baada ya long day at work nikiwa close to home nika drop kwenye supermarket moja kuchukua japo ka milk. Unfortunately nika bump into a smart dressed man akageuka na kusema sorry siko vizuri siku ya leo then suddenly akatokea mwanamke huko alikotoka bila salamu au nini na kumwambia mshkaji muone kwanza " ! Mwanaume Utakuwa Wewe !!!!!!!!!!! " Puuuuuu alafu akamtemea mate usoni na kusepa. Not to mention baadhi ya cheche zilinirukia. Trust me I'm a very friendly man but if I was that dude at that time in public, Yule Mwanamke ningemtandika Makonzi mazito kishenzi palepale.
Je,alistahili adhabu gani Doctor?
ni ukweli usiopingika kwamba wanawake wakati mwingine hatupishani na punda yaani bila mijeledi hatwendi mbele,hivyo busara inahitajhika zaidi ikiwezekana kipondo kinahusika pia,,,,,,,,,,,mafeminist nawasubiria hapa.