Mume wake anawamini marafiki kuliko mke wake

wakuwin · Sep 16, 2015

Wakuu,

Nahitaji ushauri ninarafiki yangu ameolewa lakini amekuwa amwelewi mume wake, yaani mme wake anaamini ndugu zake kuliko mke wake, waga akisafiri funguo za gari anamwachia ndugu yake ambaye ni mdogo wake kodi za wapangaji mdogo wake ndo anapokea.

Akimwambia kwanini anafanya hivyo anamwambia kwani alishawai kumlaza njaa!Kiukweli uyu best yangu ameniomba ushauri nimeshindwa cha kumshauri ndo mana nimeleta kwenu wakuu tushee mawazo kwa pamoja!

rubii · Sep 16, 2015

Mwambie aje atueleze Ndoa yao ina mda gani, je hapo kabla ya ndoa hali ilikuaje?
Je mahusiano yake namumewe yako katika hali gani?

Evelyn Salt · Sep 16, 2015

kuna jamaa nae akisafiri anapaki gari kwa dada ake wakati mke yupo na anajua ku drive
watu wengine ni bure kabisa hayafai kwa matumizi ya binadamu

PesaNdogo · Sep 16, 2015

Labda anamuona mpenda mali mno. ..gold digger

Kaveli · Sep 16, 2015

Kuna shida kwenye hiyo ndoa. Always it is not advisable kutoa conclusive judgement kwa kusikiliza upande mmoja tu. Ndoa ni voluntary union kati ya watu wawili. Putting into account kwamba HUMAN BEINGS (male/female) are complex animals by nature, then kuna haja ya kusikiliza na upande wa pili pia. So dada rubii's insights (above) are well hinted.

Mtoto halali na hela · Sep 16, 2015

Evelyn Salt said:
kuna jamaa nae akisafiri anapaki gari kwa dada ake wakati mke yupo na anajua ku drive watu wengine ni bure kabisa hayafai kwa matumizi ya binadamu

Mwambie simbilisi yeye.

100byte · Sep 16, 2015

Ndoaaaaaa!!!
Ni taasisi pekee inayotoa Vyeti kabla,,, ingekuwa vinatolewa baada ya kuishi hata kwa only 2yrs wengi tusinge graduate,,

Apologise lady · Sep 16, 2015

Mkira said:
Kyoma maelezo yako ni sahihi kabisa!

hili suala ni baya lakini cha ajabu watu wengine wanaonekana kuliunga mkono. Labda nao wana vyeti vya aina hiyo!

Ninakubalina na wewe kuwa hao wangeliweza tu kuchaguliwa hata bila kununa hizo elimu feki. Kama mtu anasema ana phD na wakati ni amepata cheti na elimu ya juu mtu wa aina hiyo anachaguliwa kuwa waziri na inapotokea anakwenda kwenye argument na maziri wenzanke wkenye intenationa argument, he/she will always flop.
Prof Msolla aleisema lakini kuanzia hapo yuko kimya!

kundelea kubishana na anayetetea hili suala la vyeti ni kupoteza muda kama naye ana cheti cha aina hiyo!!

Aisee!!! Umesema jambo msingi sana.

Kaveli · Sep 16, 2015

Evelyn Salt said:
kuna jamaa nae akisafiri anapaki gari kwa dada ake wakati mke yupo na anajua ku drive
watu wengine ni bure kabisa hayafai kwa matumizi ya binadamu

Don't rush into one-sided judgemental opinion kwa vile tu anaefanyiwa hivyo ni mwanamke mwenzako. Huwezi kujua ni nini/nani chanzo cha hiyo behavioural action which appears likely to be a 'mistreatment' kwa mkewe. Better you could hear the other side of the story so as to know the real shits popping-up in such marriage.

Taffman · Sep 16, 2015

Binadamu wengine ni malimbukeni sana wakipata mali au madaraka lkn all in all kuna shida hapo

BADILI TABIA · Sep 16, 2015

Mfyuuuu
Si akamuoe dada yake....

Mwanbie mke kama ana gari akisafiri hadi nguo ahamishie kwao....

Mijanaume anbayo haijakomaa akili sijui kwa nini inaoa

Evelyn Salt said:
kuna jamaa nae akisafiri anapaki gari kwa dada ake wakati mke yupo na anajua ku drive
watu wengine ni bure kabisa hayafai kwa matumizi ya binadamu

KAMANDA MKUBWA · Sep 16, 2015

Aendelee kumwonesha uaminifu na upendo, atabadulika taratibu, kuna wanaume wengine wamejazwa ujinga kuwa usimwamini mke, nao wanakubali bila kujua kuwa ndiye pekee mwenye uchungu na watoto wake, utakuta hata mali nyingine wanaandika ndugu, wakifa watoto wanapata shida, kuondoa mawazo hayo hakuhitaji haraka, aende taratibu

Mouse3 · Sep 16, 2015

wakuwin said:
Wakuu nahitaji ushauri ninarafiki yangu ameolewa lakini amekuwa amwelewi mume wake, yaani Mme wake anaamini ndugu zake kuliko mke wake, waga akisafiri funguo za gari anamwachia ndugu yake ambaye ni mdogo wake kodi za wapangaji mdogo wake ndo anapokea, akimwambia kwanini anafanya Ivyo anamwambia kwani alishawai kumlaza njaa!! Kiukweli uyu best yangu ameniomba ushauri nimeshindwa cha kumshauri ndo mana nimeleta kwenu wakuu tushee mawazo kwa pamoja!!

Kwani alienda kuolewa au kushika funguo za gari na kupokea kodi za nyumba!!??

kampelewele · Sep 16, 2015

PesaNdogo said:
Labda anamuona mpenda mali mno. ..gold digger

Hilo neno. Naamini kwa mwanaume anayefanya vile jua mke wake anafuja mali au ana mtindo wa kupeleka fedha au mali nyingine kwa ndugu zake kwa kificho. Ili kuepusha mtikisiko katika familia, ni bora ukamwachia mapato mtu baki.

inspector shamba · Sep 17, 2015

Tabia zingine ni ubinafsi sana. Kweli mwenza wako unaweza mfanyia vitu kama hivyo?
Hata kama anamapungufu flani lakini sio kufikia hatua ya kumuweka chini ya ndugu zako au mtu mwingine baki.
Ndoa zetu huwa tuna zialibu sisi wenyewe kabla ya majirani.

mankachara · Sep 17, 2015

ameshaujua udhaifu wa mkewe ndio maana akafanya ivo. hebu mhoji vizuri uyo rafiki yako

Erickjr · Sep 17, 2015

Kaveli said:
Kuna shida kwenye hiyo ndoa. Always it is not advisable kutoa conclusive judgement kwa kusikiliza upande mmoja tu. Ndoa ni voluntary union kati ya watu wawili. Putting into account kwamba HUMAN BEINGS (male/female) are complex animals by nature, then kuna haja ya kusikiliza na upande wa pili pia. So dada rubii's insights (above) are well hinted.

Yah!! Wakujage Tuu Wote Hapa Ndio Tujue Shida Iko Wapi.

wakuwin · Sep 17, 2015

Kaveli said:
Don't rush into one-sided judgemental opinion kwa vile tu anaefanyiwa hivyo ni mwanamke mwenzako. Huwezi kujua ni nini/nani chanzo cha hiyo behavioural action which appears likely to be a 'mistreatment' kwa mkewe. Better you could hear the other side of the story so as to know the real shits popping-up in such marriage.

rubii said:
Mwambie aje atueleze Ndoa yao ina mda gani, je hapo kabla ya ndoa hali ilikuaje?
Je mahusiano yake namumewe yako katika hali gani?

Ndoa yao inamiaka nane na wana watoto watatu

BADILI TABIA · Sep 17, 2015

wakuwin said:
Ndoa yao inamiaka nane na wana watoto watatu

Mmmmmmmmmmh........umesema Miaka 8???

Sasa kama aliweza kuvumilia yote hayo miaka 8 kinachomfanya ashindwe kuvumilia sasa ni niji???

mtoto mpole · Sep 17, 2015

Evelyn Salt said:
kuna jamaa nae akisafiri anapaki gari kwa dada ake wakati mke yupo na anajua ku drive
watu wengine ni bure kabisa hayafai kwa matumizi ya binadamu[/QUOTE
Duuh hiyo kali hapo unatafuta hela hata za kuhongwa unanunua la kwako..

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