Msaada: I am a sex addict

A towner

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Hi guys.

I come to you cos I don't know where else to seek help kwa sasa. Ni hivi, nimezaliwa na kukulia Arusha about a score and a couple of years ago. Nimekulia katika maadili na nimepiga sana sunday schools so I strongly believe in God man.

Nilisoma boarding schools toka form 1 mpk 6. Nikiwa huko I learnt to slap my salami (Masturbate) and I OD'ed imekuwa addiction cos ilifika mahali najinyonga mpaka mara 7/8 kwa siku kila siku, na bado sijaacha. Moja ya madhara mengi niliyopata ni my nut game ni dhaifu naweza burst a couple within 30 minutes.

Faraja pekee ni kuwa I can keep my little man up and running for hours.Shida ingine kubwa zaid ni for the past 2/3 years nilikuja nchi moja hapa hapa within the region kusoma + my Pop anapiga mzigo huku. katika kipindi icho nimefanya uchafu wa hali ya juu, from ladies, to ratchets (the cheaper and easier, the better), to wanaojiuza man, I've lost my exact body count.

I just cant control my sexual desires man, my friends nikiwaambia wanasema ni kawaida but I real feel terrible (only God knows). Juzi I had a Bermuda with somebody's wife man, she suggested that to my boy and I and as weak and stupid as I am tukaenda bana, tena kwake.

I really want to be a better person, I used to be a gentleman turning down hot mamis other students wanawatolea mate back in high school cos I had my eyes set on one fine innocent mami that I dated later. Nimechoka na haya maisha ila sina ujasiri wa kuacha cause siku hizi wananichokoza wenyewe.

I can really use your help, thanx.
 
Piga tu mwana...ila ethically,don cross other people's wives au isiingilie kazi zako au za wengine
 
Ngoja waje kwasasa acha nipige kimya :tape2:
 
basi kama una ujasiri wa kuacha, sasa hapa umeandika ya nini, hata ukishauriwa sijui kama hutaacha, sasa we mtoto wa maadili wa sunday school, unamuamini Mungu, ila huna fear of God!

basi we endelea na hayo mambo yako tu, ila ukifika upande wa pili pia uje utuandikie hapa
 
I hear u man, ila the guilty after doing it inanitafuna kinoma. Kifupi sina raha kabisa na hii lifestyle ndo maana nataka kuacha kwa nguvu zote
 
Ukifanya dhambi unakufa, sisemi wewe ni mdhambi mimi pia ni mdhambi tena sana, lakini cha pekee ndugu yangu, fanya majuto ya kweli na ukaungame dhambi zako ukiwa na NIA ya dhati ya kukusudia kuziachaza na Mungu atakurehemu.

Hujachelewa, ni juzi tu tumeanza kwaredma, ukiweza kujikatalia kwa siku hizi arobaini nikipimo tosha hutarudia tena na utachukia kufanya huo uchafu.

cc; Mzizi Mkavu

Nilisoma moja ya post zake kuhusu punyeto, akasema usipofanya kwa siku 40 hutafanya tena na utalichukia tendo hilo.Principle is very helpful mkuu, try it Mungu akusaidie ili mwisho wote tufike mbinguni.

Nakutakia kwaresma njema.
 
Hahaha smh, nilijua mtakuwepo pia wa namna yako. Thanx tho
 
Good at story telling, I give you that!

You work? Got something to do apart from thinking and wishing for the next squeeze? From your narration I find you ain't doing anything, as such kuacha itakuwa ngumu. Get something to do, keep your thoughts somewhere else apart from Pussyside.
 

Anahitaji msaada wa kitabibu, keshasema mwenyewe hawezi kuacha...!

Haya mambo kwa wengine ni magumu wakishaanza wanakuwa na ka addiction hivi na hawawezi kuacha, wanahitaji msaada wa wataalamu wa saikolojia..
 
A towner
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Gurta
I go to school man
 
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A towner nimetuma link hapo juu ya video, mwishoni kabisa utaona kaelezea how to overcome (iko kwa maandishi). Mungu na akusikie kilio chako na akupe haja ya moyo wako. Hakuna mtu ambaye hajawahi kumasturbate ila ni viwango tu ndio vimepishana na wengine ilikuwa unplanned na hawakuiendekeza hiyo tabia. Don't feel so bad.

As long as you want to change and you are determined, you can change.
 
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NIV:but each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed.
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NIV:Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death. This is The Book of JAMES 1:14-15
 
I feel yah young blood. Its a tough fight aisee. And I know exactly how you feel, back in the days I was kind of a nympho and very "Religious" as well.

Yani shit was so conflicting with my beliefs I would feel bad everytime after I screw but do it again in 8 hours. Only God Knows how I came out safe and I thank him.

Sasa, if you are in a 1st world country yhere are counsellors (sp) for this stuff ila kibongo bongo you need to do thefollowing.

1. Get a girlfriend whom you love not by her looks or bed performance but u should love her because of her character and how she makws u feel when you are together.

2. Get a hobby or sport and aim to be the best in it. Your gf participation in this the better

3. Change the people you hang out with or reduce significantly the time you spend wih them. I found out my friends had a major part to play in my addiction but now that I am not close to them it is a biiiigg advantage.

4. If you are an alcohol drinket stop or signigocantly reduce. Alcohol is such a convincer of sex

5. Realise you are growing up and before you know it you will be on ur own without daddys help so get your priorities straight and work on them.
 
unajua we ni mjinga,unaleta apa mada ndo kuna wataalamu wa saikolojia?control urself.
 
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