most popular qualities thatmodern men look for in women

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Female quality 1: She has a life
of her own
Say ‘cheerio’ to the helpless
heroine from classic literature, and
‘well, hello!’ to the contemporary
independent woman. It’s important
to show that you’re self-sufficient
when you’re trying to impress a
man, and it’s equally as important
to maintain this when you’re in a
relationship. The average modern
man doesn’t want a lady to be
clinging onto him all the time – it
makes him feel suffocated. Rather
than ditching your friends and
family to spend time with a new
love interest, make sure you keep
separate plans in your diary at all
times. Never feel as though you
wouldn’t have a life if this person
wasn’t in it; get out there and show
that you have a vibrant lifestyle
aside from him. A relationship
should enhance your life, not rule
it.
Female quality 2: She is honest
and loyal
Be honest with your love interest.
If you tell them that a) you’re
married and going through a
particularly difficult divorce; b)
you have a strange obsession with
feet; or c) anything else that could
potentially make them run for the
hills, then you’ve done the right
thing. Okay, maybe hold back on
option b for now, but you see what
we’re getting at. Anything that they
may find out further down the line
and could put them off should be
made clear from the outset, or you
risk wasting the time of you both.
Don’t sugar-coat anything – if this
man likes you enough, he will want
to help you through difficult
situations rather than leaving you
to it. If either you or your love
interest can’t accept the truth
about one another’s past or present
lives, you shouldn’t think about
getting together because you won’t
be able to look to the future.
Female quality 3: She looks after
herself
This is one thing that hasn’t
changed since the days of our most
distant ancestors; men like a
woman who takes a pride in her
appearance and vice versa. We’re
not talking about being a tall, slim
supermodel – it’s not all about
looks – but a little primping and
preening here and there goes a
long way. There’s no need to dress
up in a ball gown and tiara for a
date, but do wear something that
accentuates your fantastic figure.
Wear makeup to highlight your
natural features; style your hair to
compliment your face; and spritz
on your favourite scent to boost
your confidence – hello gorgeous!
Styling yourself to make you feel
your best leads to a more
confident you and that’s another
trait that men look for in women.
Female quality 4: She is self-
confident
Gone are the days when the timid
damsel in distress attracted the
handsome, strong man; nowadays,
being needy attracts little more
than a few raised eyebrows. Despite
coming across as confident, rarely
do the celebrities you see in the
media feel as bold and confident as
they look. It’s all about faking it.
Instead of zoning in on your
weaknesses, develop and maximise
your strengths to put you in the
right frame of mind. Make sure you
use your body language to your
advantage, as this can help you to
fake confidence when really you
might prefer it if the ground were
to swallow you up. Stand tall, make
eye contact, and smile, for an
instantly more confident you.
Female quality 5: She is mature
and well-spoken
Baby talk can be cute but don’t use
it too often, sugar bunny. Your
average modern man likes his
woman to be able to hold down an
intellectual conversation as well as
having a good sense of humour,
and cutie-overload could put him
off. Talk about interesting topics
and be sure to listen to him as well
as inputting your own thoughts and
ideas into the conversation. Hold
back on slang words for your first
few dates and avoid swear words
too, as they come across as
uncouth.
It is a truth universally
acknowledged that a modern man
looks for different qualities in a
woman than he may have done in
the 1800s and – whilst no man is
ever the same and may look for
different qualities in a woman – it’s
a good idea to take these tips on
board to boost your dating
potential.