Men should prepare themselves to handle women who are over 40

[Abrianna]

Is sex food? Siyo aged women tu hata tuyoung tunaulizaga ivoivo tukichoka na dudu ya mume

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[Detective J]

What if you are not alone as well? Have you ever thought of it? Ukimuheshimu nae atakuheshimu, love is two way direction, not one way

Do have problem with that. my point is here if mwanaume akikuheshim for all those years.. the you sudden change.. things will fall apart.
there must be a balance

 

[Abrianna]

This is discussion forum you can not dictate what we should discuss... if it against forum rule just report to moderator

Lets keep on the discussion

 

[Baba Swalehe]

😂😂😂

 

[ERoni]

The someone out there will keep close to her as you keep distance

Seriously?
Don't you think I'll be relieved? If at all that's what I'll be coming across at her 40-50's then let 'someone else' keep close to her. I'll be relieved!

 

[Abrianna]

Do have problem with that. my point is here if mwanaume akikuheshim for all those years.. the you sudden change.. things will fall apart.
there must be a balance

Alichosema mleta mada is just an assumpition there is no truth in it, it makes no sense for a woman to change all of sudden simply because she turned 40, at the age of 40 and above we do think of raising our families and hope to see what life will bring our children and grand children to, its not easy to destroy our homes for no reason

 

[Abrianna]

Seriously?
Don't you think I'll be relieved? If at all that's what I'll be coming across at her 40-50's then let 'someone else' keep close to her. I'll be relieved!

What a man?

 

[ni ngumu]

When some Women turn 40 or 50 years, something major shifts in their personality .

They become bolder, more rebellious , more religious, more focused , more opinionated and more emphatic about what they want.

Don’t be surprised when a previously obedient and submissive Woman on turning 40/50 changes completely.

Most especially when she had given birth to Children.

At this age, she may not go with the flow anymore, she may begin to ask some questions :
- Is sex food?

• Query some of your instructions
• Even the way you behave.

She will also become more outspoken and will not be afraid to speak her mind.

If care is not taken, you may have to do for yourself :

• Dry cleaning
• Preparing food to eat

Because it might take her more time before she responds to your request.

There is something definitely special about turning 40/50 for Women.

If she has never challenged or questioned your instructions, get ready to be shocked by her boldness and confrontational attitude.

The only way to avoid total breakdown of Peace and Harmony in the home is for Men to become fair , objective and reasonable in their approaches to issues at home and/or at work.

Men should bear in mind that at this age, Women also harbour lots of regrets about the decisions they have made in life so far ...
Their Husbands may be one of them!

A woman at this age is a better Judge of character and will evaluate a Man using very different & weird parameters.

Men must start on time to prepare for this phase in the lives of their Wives/Partners/Bosses/Subordinates.

What you put in is what you get!

If you have treated her fairly, then you don’t have anything to worry about.
She will begin to appreciate you better if for any reason she didn’t do so in the past.

On the contrary if you haven’t been nice to her, fasten your seatbelt, the ride is about to get pretty bumpy.

A Woman doesn’t forget those who hurt her , and by her actions and utterances you will know that she is out to show you that she is no longer that little girl you married .

It might help to learn these early especially with the added Corona stress .[emoji23][emoji23][emoji2953][emoji2953]

Welcome for comments, advice and more about Women who are over 40 aged.

Tuambie tu wakifika49/50,tuhakikishe tuna hela ya kutumia na vibinti vigoli vya miaka 20-25 bila tatizo maana hawa wenzEtu wataongeza kero zaidi hivyo tusipokuwa makini tutakufa na depression...

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[ERoni]

What a man?

All I know is that ladies in their late 30s are "yummy", they're sweet and know what they want. Mkileta hizi mambo ninazosoma hapa siwaelewi ujuwe.

I pray that my journey of 40s(which I just started) doesn't come across a stubborn wife.

 

[Abrianna]

All I know is that ladies in their late 30s are "yummy", they're sweet and know what they want. Mkileta hizi mambo ninazosoma hapa siwaelewi ujuwe.

I pray that my journey of 40s(which I just started) doesn't come across a stubborn wife.

Its just an assumption, at the age of 40, a woman is more matured and thoughtful especially when you have children, no woman will dare to deatroy her home in the name of age. A woma with children will do whatever it costs to protect her home even when she is facing thunders and storms, she will never give up, tofauti na nyie wanaume, mke alikukosea kidogo unaanza kuwaza vibinti vya miaka 30, to us its different especially familia inapokua na watoto

 

[ERoni]

Its just an assumption, at the age of 40, a woman is more matured and thoughtful especially when you have children, no woman will dare to deatroy her home in the name of age. A woma with children will do whatever it costs to protect her home even when she is facing thunders and storms, she will never give up, tofauti na nyie wanaume, mke alikukosea kidogo unaanza kuwaza vibinti vya miaka 30, to us its different especially familia inapokua na watoto

I understand you Abrianna, that is why I did not want to agree 100% with mleta mada, nikaamua kuwa vocal kwake kwamba ikitokea hivyo nitamind sana. At the age of 35 actually women are more matured and want to keep their families intact at all costs.

 

[Abrianna]

I understand you Abrianna, that is why I did not want to agree 100% with mleta mada, nikaamua kuwa vocal kwake kwamba ikitokea hivyo nitamind sana. At the age of 35 actually women are more matured and want to keep their families intact at all costs.

Absolutely

 

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[Baba jayaron]

Likewise to me mkuu

Let's cerebrate life mkuu!!!

 

[Baba jayaron]

Try double check yourself first

I have certificate already to prove me

 

[Baba jayaron]

There’s no such thing as 'your woman', got to shake your head to check that your brain is intact.

Your right na me namkomesha lakini

 

[BarajaMkush]

Watu wanakicharaza Kikoloni hatari.

 

[Ncha Kali]

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