Men and sex

Kiranja Mkuu

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Men are frustrated with women
because they never want sex.
Women are frustrated with men
because they always want sex.
Women blame men they don’t
know how to love.
Men blame women that they only
talk about love but don’t want to
make it.
Whether you are a man or a
woman, reading this article can
change your life - finally, you will
be able to get rid of your
frustrations about the opposite
gender.
The reason humans want sex is
due to the hormone
testosterone, which is
predominantly male hormone. A
normal male’s body produces 20
times more of this hormone than
a female’s.
In other words, a male feels the
same way after one day without
sex as a female after 20 days
without sex. A male that has not
had sex in 20 days feels the same
way as a female after more than
a year without sex.
Knowing this simple difference,
you can already understand the
pain of the opposite gender. It’s
NOT their fault: they are made
this way! It’s in our genes! This is
the reason why men are men
and women are women.
Men and women are DIFFERENT.
Not better or worse, just
different.
A man can father a child every
time he has sex, and a woman
can only mother a child every
two years or so. This means, a
woman HAS TO be picky about
who she allows to have sex with
her.
For generations women were
paying too high a price for
making a wrong choice. Women
that have chosen men with bad
genes had a weaker offspring
and their children struggled to
survive. Women that have chosen
men with good genes had a
stronger offspring and their
children survived
disproportionally. Those children
were carrying their picky
mother’s genes and this is why
those female genes were passed
to us.
On the other hand, men never
had adverse consequences of
making a wrong choice. The
more children they produced, the
higher was their chance to pass
their genes to future
generations, as some of them
would certainly survive. While
men were determined to seek
better genes too, they had to
grab all chances to procreate
coming their way to ensure their
genes would be passed forward.
The men that ONLY stuck with
one woman (even a high quality
woman) were losing genetically
to the men that used all of their
opportunities and had many
more children that survived.
Those children were carrying
their father’s promiscuous genes,
and this is why those male genes
were passed to us.
By Nature men are made to seek
as much sex as they can get, so
they can spread their seed wider.
By Nature women are made to
seek as many admirers as they
can get, so they can make a
better choice and get the best
seed.
Men seek quantity - women seek
quality.
This is why men seek sex and
women seek love.
Love is the proof that a woman
needs to have some assurance
that the man will stick around
and help her with the upbringing
of the offspring. For a woman,
sex is the culmination of her
emotional commitment to a man.
For a man, sex is a physical act
that eases the testosterone
pressure he experiences
constantly. Only after this tension
has gone, can a man feel love
towards a woman. This is why it
often happens that men
disappear after they got what
they wanted: it wasn’t love; it
was the testosterone pressure.
Sex for men is the reality check of
their passion.
This is why having sex early in
the relationship is hazardous for
women: the man has not had the
time to develop any romantic
feelings for her. He needs time to
develop those feelings, and the
only way to do it is through
keeping the sexual tension going
for as long as practicable. Sex
must be attainable, nearly
possible - but not quite. When
the sexual tension is at its peak,
its release is mind-blowing - and
once is never enough, which lays
a proper foundation for a future
relationship – and love.
Men fall in love through sex;
women fall in sex through love.
All of this happens on the
unconscious level - we do NOT
realize what’s going on.
But the reason why you are here
today and alive is because each
and every of your ancestors, men
and women, acted true to their
instincts and managed to attract
at least one sexual partner and
produce an offspring.
So, there is no need to be bitter
about men wanting sex and
women wanting love. Those two
are the necessary pieces of the
puzzle called Survival Of The
Species.
And you’ll be better off
understanding what the other
gender is going through and
giving them exactly what they
want: a mind-blowing sex or
exhilarating love.
Go get ‘em! :)
 
Kiranja,

Good materials... well written, educative.... but....... could not finish it with this mgao...
 
Men are frustrated with women
because they never want sex.
Women are frustrated with men
because they always want sex.
Women blame men they don't
know how to love.
Men blame women that they only
talk about love but don't want to
make it.
Whether you are a man or a
woman, reading this article can
change your life - finally, you will
be able to get rid of your
frustrations about the opposite
gender.
The reason humans want sex is
due to the hormone
testosterone, which is
predominantly male hormone. A
normal male's body produces 20
times more of this hormone than
a female's.
In other words, a male feels the
same way after one day without
sex as a female after 20 days
without sex. A male that has not
had sex in 20 days feels the same
way as a female after more than
a year without sex.
Knowing this simple difference,
you can already understand the
pain of the opposite gender. It's
NOT their fault: they are made
this way! It's in our genes! This is
the reason why men are men
and women are women.
Men and women are DIFFERENT.
Not better or worse, just
different.
A man can father a child every
time he has sex, and a woman
can only mother a child every
two years or so. This means, a
woman HAS TO be picky about
who she allows to have sex with
her.
For generations women were
paying too high a price for
making a wrong choice. Women
that have chosen men with bad
genes had a weaker offspring
and their children struggled to
survive. Women that have chosen
men with good genes had a
stronger offspring and their
children survived
disproportionally. Those children
were carrying their picky
mother's genes and this is why
those female genes were passed
to us.
On the other hand, men never
had adverse consequences of
making a wrong choice. The
more children they produced, the
higher was their chance to pass
their genes to future
generations, as some of them
would certainly survive. While
men were determined to seek
better genes too, they had to
grab all chances to procreate
coming their way to ensure their
genes would be passed forward.
The men that ONLY stuck with
one woman (even a high quality
woman) were losing genetically
to the men that used all of their
opportunities and had many
more children that survived.
Those children were carrying
their father's promiscuous genes,
and this is why those male genes
were passed to us.
By Nature men are made to seek
as much sex as they can get, so
they can spread their seed wider.
By Nature women are made to
seek as many admirers as they
can get, so they can make a
better choice and get the best
seed.
Men seek quantity - women seek
quality.
This is why men seek sex and
women seek love.
Love is the proof that a woman
needs to have some assurance
that the man will stick around
and help her with the upbringing
of the offspring. For a woman,
sex is the culmination of her
emotional commitment to a man.
For a man, sex is a physical act
that eases the testosterone
pressure he experiences
constantly. Only after this tension
has gone, can a man feel love
towards a woman. This is why it
often happens that men
disappear after they got what
they wanted: it wasn't love; it
was the testosterone pressure.
Sex for men is the reality check of
their passion.
This is why having sex early in
the relationship is hazardous for
women: the man has not had the
time to develop any romantic
feelings for her. He needs time to
develop those feelings, and the
only way to do it is through
keeping the sexual tension going
for as long as practicable. Sex
must be attainable, nearly
possible - but not quite. When
the sexual tension is at its peak,
its release is mind-blowing - and
once is never enough, which lays
a proper foundation for a future
relationship – and love.
Men fall in love through sex;
women fall in sex through love.
All of this happens on the
unconscious level - we do NOT
realize what's going on.
But the reason why you are here
today and alive is because each
and every of your ancestors, men
and women, acted true to their
instincts and managed to attract
at least one sexual partner and
produce an offspring.
So, there is no need to be bitter
about men wanting sex and
women wanting love. Those two
are the necessary pieces of the
puzzle called Survival Of The
Species.
And you'll be better off
understanding what the other
gender is going through and
giving them exactly what they
want: a mind-blowing sex or
exhilarating love.
Go get ‘em! :)

What about those married ladies who are loved of course, but still don't feel like doing sex regularly?
 
What about those married ladies who are loved of course, but still don't feel like doing sex regularly?

Read one more time ..... the testestorone factor

"The reason humans want sex is
due to the hormone
testosterone, which is
predominantly male hormone. A
normal male's body produces 20
times more of this hormone than
a female's.
In other words, a male feels the
same way after one day without
sex as a female after 20 days
without sex. A male that has not
had sex in 20 days feels the same
way as a female after more than
a year without sex."
 
Read one more time ..... the testestorone factor

"The reason humans want sex is
due to the hormone
testosterone, which is
predominantly male hormone. A
normal male's body produces 20
times more of this hormone than
a female's.
In other words, a male feels the
same way after one day without
sex as a female after 20 days
without sex. A male that has not
had sex in 20 days feels the same
way as a female after more than
a year without sex."


Ila kuna wanawake wahanga sana!
 
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