Masculinity is something worthy having besides having money

Masculinity is something worthy having besides having money

Aah kweli inategemea unapotokea............huku pande zetu kidume ukishaanza viingereza vingi marks zinapungua
 
Chrismoris said:
Unamaanisha nini, wew jamaa ?
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Kiingereza cha mchongo hicho
DiasporaUSA said:
Actually , sija understand what you just commented, but

Women are drawn to confidence and disagreeableness, humour and high energy in men.

High T/high status traits.

If you have those things you can always get women no matter your position in life.

Money is for building yourself, and for building a family. Not for attracting women.
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DiasporaUSA said:
One of the factors that affects hypergamy is geographical location, women in poor environments look up to status and money, women in wealthy environments look up to masculinity.
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J-Lo is a rich woman. She has been in and out of marriages many times. she found that masculinity quality in her husbands but she still felt like she needed more than that.. There has to be a combination of several things in order to find balance in a relationship.

One quality cannot keep a relationship alive.
 
DiasporaUSA said:
People always going on about how women are hypergamous and expect a super high income bla bla bla - only true if you live in a third world country. You know what's rarer than money in the west? Masculinity. Women here would rather marry a broke ruthless guy than a soft rich one.

You won't believe this if you've never experienced a woman's genuine desire. You will think male-female relationships are based on money/status. So I understand if you disagree. Just means a woman's never liked you enough to not give a shit about your income. Kind of a self-own.

If a woman isn't obsessed with you, she will only care about money/status. If a woman is in survival mode, she will use a man to survive. Yes women are drawn to wealth and status. All this is true. Also true that women break all the rules for a man they're obsessed with.

Not all obsession is love, but all love's obsessive. If a woman does not obsess over u, she does not love u. You're just an option she's utilising. A literal option. A contract. A pragmatic choice. Do not believe otherwise. That's what you are. And that's why you see it like this

If you couldn't get her when you were broke, she's not worth being with when you're loaded.

Again, I don't expect third world guys to agree with this. Different world there. People struggling to eat. Much more transactional. But this definitely applies to any developed country.

There was a chick, daughter of some billionaire guy, ended up marrying a penniless convict.

An extreme example, but it demonstrates my point well.

Think she married him for money and status, or because she became obsessed because his ruthlessness made her wet?

Lol ok I'm done.

Cc my shem Shunie , my best friend financial services , my G Xtrovert and my one and only Mzigua90

My people of Dsm can come and grab some few stuff from abroad. I will be at Kijichi from today till Tuesday evening.
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kuna masculinity na toxic masculinity mimi ninazo type zote mbili
 
DiasporaUSA said:
If i am to marry you, how much worthy should i be ?
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if she replies her price, then she is a bitch just like a bunch of her fellows out there, if she shuts up then she is a stupid talker anaeiga iga misemo na mabiti wengi wako na upuuzi huo.
 
DiasporaUSA said:
Doesn't work this way in the western world, because everyone has their basic needs taken care of already. Money is less important in rich countries.
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Na ndiyo maana huko nchi za magharibi ndoa zilishakataliwa kitambo
 
APEFACE said:
Hali ya kuwa kiume zaidi,

kimuonekano na kitabia ,

kutokuwa submissive kwa mwanamke

No kum"please" mwanamke,

Penye "No" sema "No" penye "yes" sema "yes"
Na kumfikisha climax just to mention a few
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Nimekupata mkuu
 
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