Mama yangu anachat na kuwatumia picha zangu watu nisiowajua

[mama chanja]

Habari zenu,

I hope nyote mu wazima na mnaendelea vizuri na majukumu.

I have a huge problem, actually nina matatizo mengi kifamilia ila naomba niwaeleze hili ambalo limenishangaza sana sana and I don't know what to think anymore. Nina mama yangu ambae sio mtu mzima sana alinizaa kipindi yupo mdogo akiwa na miaka 18 tu this ye year she will be 42.

Kama miezi mitatu iliyoisha alinunua smartphone akadownload application mbali mbali kama Facebook, instagram, whatsapp na nyingine tofauti. Mimi nilikuwa chuo kwahiyo alinambia tu kwamba alinunua simu mimi sikuiona.

Bahati mbaya zaidi simu yake anaitumia vibaya, huko Facebook anakutana na wakaka wanabadilishana namba za simu wanaanza kuchat watsap, hao vijana wanamuomba awatumie picha anawatumia picha zangu akijifanya yeye ndio mimi na anawadanganya mambo mengine mengi tu.

Hizi habari nilikuja kuambiwa na binamu yangu niliporudi likizo juzi ambae aliniambia inabidi tu aniambie kwasababu alipoona hakupenda kwahiyo aliona ni vyema anambie ili pengine utakuta ni watu ambao naheshimiana nao au vyovyote, nilistuka sana nikamuuliza alijuaje akanambia kuna siku mama yangu alimuomba amsaidie kufuta chat za msg za watsap ndio akaona maongezi pamoja na picha zangu.

Niliumia sana nikaamua nifatilie mwenyewe ndio nikaona kweli anatumia picha zangu hao vijana, nikajaribu kuangalia na huko Facebook nikaona majina yao na jinsi wanavochat. Mara nyingi kila akinitext watsap huniomba sana nimtumie picha zangu na mara nyingine hunilazimisha kabisa nipige nimtumie nilikua sielewi kwanini ila baada ya kuona hayo ndio nikaelewa kwamba anataka awatumie hao watu.

Nashindwa kumuuliza, sijamuuliza na sijui kama nmuulize au vipi.. I don't know what to do, hajui kama najua maana sijamuonesha reaction yoyote, please advise me what do I do about this?

I don't prefer matusi na lugha chafu, kashfa au dhihaka ukiona huna cha kusema tafadhali nyamaza.

 

[msanawa]

Habari zenu,. I hope nyote mu wazima na mnaendelea vzr na majukumu.

I have a huge problem, actually nina mattz mengi kifamilia ila naomba niwaeleze hili ambalo limenishangaza sana sana and I don't know what to think anymore. Nina mama yangu ambae sio mtu mzima sana alinizaa kipindi yupo mdogo akiwa na miaka 18 tu this ye year she will be 42.

Kama miezi mitatu iliyoisha alinunua smartphone akadownload application mbali mbali kama Facebook, instagram, whatsapp na nyingine tofauti. Mimi nilikua chuo kwhyo alnambia tu kwamba alinunua simu mm sikuiona. Bahati mbaya zaidi cmu yake anaitumia vbya, huko Facebook anakutana na wakaka wanabadilishana namba za simu wanaanza kuchat watsap, hao vijana wanamuomba awatumie picha anawatumia picha zangu akijifanya yeye ndio mimi na anawadanganya mambo mengne mengi tu...

Hizi habari nlikuja kuambiwa na binamu yangu niliporudi likizo juzi ambae aliniambia inabidi tu aniambie kwsbb alipoona hakupenda kwhyo aliona ni vyema anambie ili Pengine utakuta ni watu ambao naheshimiana nao au vyovyote., nilistuka sana nikamuuliza alijuaje akanambia Kuna siku mama yangu alimuomba amsaidie kufuta chat za msg za watsap ndio akaona maongezi pamoja na picha zangu.. Niliumia sana nikaamua nifatilie mwnyw ndio nikaona kwl anatumia picha zangu hao vijana, nikajaribu kuangalia na huko Facebook nikaona majina yao na jinsi wanavochat. Mara nyingi kila akinitext watsap huniomba sana nimtumie picha zangu na mara nyngn hunilazimisha kabisa nipige nimtumie nilikua sielewi kwnn ila baada ya kuona hayo ndio nikaelewa kwamba anataka awatumie hao watu.

Nashindwa kumuuliza, sijamuuliza na sijui kama nmuulize au vipi.. I don't know what to do,. Hajui kama najua maana sjamuonesha reaction yyte, please advise me what do I do about this?

I don't prefer matusi na lugha chafu, kashfa au dhihaka.. Ukiona huna cha kusema tafadhali nyamaza.

Amekosea lakini ni mama, kaa nae umwambie na kumuelekeza kwa upole na upendo na bila kumkoseea heshima, asipokuelewa, mshirkishe ndugu lakini awe ni mtu mzima mwenzake, si kwa kumshitaki bali kwa kumuelewesha matumizi sahihi ya simu yake na mitandao ya kijamii.... wengine wataongezea

 

[Kakole]

Pole sana, kaa na mother jaribu kumueleza namna ya kutumia vzr mitandao ya kijamii, tafuta siku wote mkiwa kwenye mood nzuri hlf mueleze kila kitu.

 

[Myangu]

Dunia haishi maajabu, pole jamani.

 

[Evelyn Salt]

Wamama wa dot com nao mweh!!!

 

[Drama queen]

Mama Chanja..muanzie mama mbali mdanganye kuna mtu umekutana nae smwea akasema anakufahamu ww ukawa unamkatalia akakuonyesha hadi chatings mnazo chat ndo ukagundua ni # ya mama ako..
Muulize tu kwa upole km huwa mnapigaga story km marafik "like" hheee mama ndo nini kuwadanganya watu ww ndio mimi mwenzangu nimekutana na mtu kaning'ang'ania hatari

 

[MjuviKitambo]

Anaishi na baba ama? Nikijua hilo nitakuambia kitu

 

[Smart911]

Kama yeye.. na wewe fungua... chat na hao hao watu wake.. ukiwatumia picha zake...

 

[damtanzania]

Mama yako bado anapenda ujana kwa kweli lol, mwenyewe anajisikia rahaa kutongozwa eeh , ama kweli ng'ombe hazeeki maini. Pole dada yangu kwa maswahiba hayo, sipati picha how embarassed it feels.

 

[KIKAZI]

Kama yeye.. na wewe fungua... chat na hao hao watu wake.. ukiwatumia picha zake...

hahaha mdau umemaliza kila kitu aise

 

[Mjanga]

muibie hiyo simu, na kila akinunua we iba tu ili akose pa kutuma hizo picha! Umenisikia lakini eeeeee!

 

[mama chanja]

Anaishi na baba ama? Nikijua hilo nitakuambia kit

Hapana shez a single parent

 

[Toxic Concotion]

Habari zenu,. I hope nyote mu wazima na mnaendelea vzr na majukumu.

I have a huge problem, actually nina mattz mengi kifamilia ila naomba niwaeleze hili ambalo limenishangaza sana sana and I don't know what to think anymore. Nina mama yangu ambae sio mtu mzima sana alinizaa kipindi yupo mdogo akiwa na miaka 18 tu this ye year she will be 42.

Kama miezi mitatu iliyoisha alinunua smartphone akadownload application mbali mbali kama Facebook, instagram, whatsapp na nyingine tofauti. Mimi nilikua chuo kwhyo alnambia tu kwamba alinunua simu mm sikuiona. Bahati mbaya zaidi cmu yake anaitumia vbya, huko Facebook anakutana na wakaka wanabadilishana namba za simu wanaanza kuchat watsap, hao vijana wanamuomba awatumie picha anawatumia picha zangu akijifanya yeye ndio mimi na anawadanganya mambo mengne mengi tu...

Hizi habari nlikuja kuambiwa na binamu yangu niliporudi likizo juzi ambae aliniambia inabidi tu aniambie kwsbb alipoona hakupenda kwhyo aliona ni vyema anambie ili Pengine utakuta ni watu ambao naheshimiana nao au vyovyote., nilistuka sana nikamuuliza alijuaje akanambia Kuna siku mama yangu alimuomba amsaidie kufuta chat za msg za watsap ndio akaona maongezi pamoja na picha zangu.. Niliumia sana nikaamua nifatilie mwnyw ndio nikaona kwl anatumia picha zangu hao vijana, nikajaribu kuangalia na huko Facebook nikaona majina yao na jinsi wanavochat. Mara nyingi kila akinitext watsap huniomba sana nimtumie picha zangu na mara nyngn hunilazimisha kabisa nipige nimtumie nilikua sielewi kwnn ila baada ya kuona hayo ndio nikaelewa kwamba anataka awatumie hao watu.

Nashindwa kumuuliza, sijamuuliza na sijui kama nmuulize au vipi.. I don't know what to do,. Hajui kama najua maana sjamuonesha reaction yyte, please advise me what do I do about this?

I don't prefer matusi na lugha chafu, kashfa au dhihaka.. Ukiona huna cha kusema tafadhali nyamaza.

Kukaa kimya kutamaanisha kuendelea kutumika kwako. She has lost all the rights to be a mother, since she is not playing her role then it's high time u switch roles now by sitting her down and tell her all that u know and your disapproval of it. If at all u feel you dont have the courage of facing her then consult an elder in your family like an uncle or aunt.

Pole dada and hope you get through this.

 

[chingyeddy]

Wala usijari na kukwazika. Hapa mtaan kulikua na mama wa jamaa flan
Alikua anamchukua mjukuu wake wanaenda kuwanga usiku. Na kula nyama za Watu, so nilishauri
Wamwombe Mungu atawaonesha njia, na aliwaonesha.
So wala we kaa kimya, ongea na Mungu wako basi.
Ni majaribu tu ya kawaida mama

 

[Me too]

wamama wa dar hao huez jua kwa njia hiyo ndo anapata hela ya kukusomesha na kukutunza so ushimchukie relax kwanza ndo uje umueleze kistaarabu,.

 

[mama chanja]

Kukaa kimya kutamaanisha kuendelea kutumika kwako. She has lost all the rights to be a mother, since she is not playing her role then it's high time u switch roles now by sitting her down and tell her all that u know and your disapproval of it. If at all u feel you dont have the courage of facing her then consult an elder in your family like an uncle or aunt.

Pole dada and hope you get through this.

Thanks a lot

 

[Me too]

wamama wa dar hao huez jua kwa njia hiyo ndo anapata hela ya kukusomesha na kukutunza so ushimchukie relax kwanza ndo uje umueleze kistaarabu,.

 

[real G]

aisee huyo mpe tu makavu live, usimuonee aibu kwa kuwa hata yeye hana aibu,
tuliza kichwa chako fresh kisha nenda umwambie, akibisha mkomalie na umkataze katakata kurudia

 

[missyrose]

Ungetuambia angalau kwa uchache matatizo ya kifamilia uliyonayo nadhan watu wangeweza kutoa ushauri kwa mapana..mfano unaweza kuambiwa kaa na mama ongea nae kumbe maskini hamuongei vizuri, labda fanya hiki kumbe hakiwezekaniki kama matokeo ya hayo matatizo.

Labda mimi ningekuwa wewe, ningeiba hiyo simu, ningefuta picha zote,ningeblock hao vijana anaochat nao halafu ningetulia(mwisho wa siku angenipa nimtengenezee na hapo ningetoa kisingizo chochote)..akiomba picha situmi. Kiroho safi..

 

[mama chanja]

wamama wa dar hao huez jua kwa njia hiyo ndo anapata hela ya kukusomesha na kukutunza so ushimchukie relax kwanza ndo uje umueleze kistaarabu,.

Lol bahati mbaya najisomesha mwenyewe..