"Secrets and secrecy are social acts, constantly aware of audiences and publics and how to keep them from learning a specific version of events.
When we realize how poorly secrets are kept, how selective and managed tellings leak information to a wide variety of audiences, it seems clear that secrets ironically are ways of making information known.
Secrets give a charged status to information. The entire negotiated nature of secrets makes them a rich lens into daily life; they reveal a shifting terrain of ideas about danger, about risk, about importance, and about the public meaning of those conditions.
Lies on the other hand are more private, and reveal individual participation in social worlds as people appropriate circulating stories and commonplace vocabularies to complicate a narrative account of their lives" - Luis White (Ibid.)