1. She needs your attention! Iwepo tofauti kati yake na other staffs eg mpira, gari, gazeti, net, tv etc
2. She needs your recognition. Proper one! Unamtambulishaje kwa ndugu na marafiki? How do u treat her in public?
3. She needs to be listened! Unamskiliza? Anaweza akawa na kastori kake ka kimbea, unapompotezea amwambie nani?
4. She needs assurance of your protection. Financially and physically.
5. Suprises and gifts. These work out a lot. .