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ladies only---- check this out

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by lifeofmshaba, Jun 4, 2011.

  1. lifeofmshaba

    lifeofmshaba JF-Expert Member

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    hey check this out

    When a man says he's not sure he's "into you" - RUN.

    If he says he's "not sure of his feelings", that would be the cue to get out of there.
    When you're waiting and begging and pleading for ONE man to "come around" while you're doing everything to impress him, you deal a death blow to your confidence and self-esteem, and it's totally unattractive to a man.

    this is what happenned

    If you're feeling like you're throwing away your energy, your heart, and your self-esteem on a man who is pulling away, especially after he's come on so strong and practically BEGGED you to give him a chance at the beginning, I can't imagine anything more frustrating.
    Maybe this has happened to you.
    You meet a man you're not especially attracted to, but he's persistent about wanting to date you. He calls, he sends you flowers, he tells you how wonderful and beautiful you are. You don't know how you feel about him, but you decide to give him a chance and allow yourself to spend more and more time with him.
    Before you know it, you're hooked. He's grown on you, and suddenly you're thinking about him all the time and feel GOOD in his company.
    It seems as if as soon as he's "won" you over, he loses interest. He doesn't call as often. He tells you he can't get together this weekend because he's BUSY. He acts distant when you're with him and isn't looking at you or complimenting you as much as he used to. And to top it off, he tells you that he's not sure how he feels anymore about YOU.
    Maybe this is a pattern for you. You only feel attracted to a man after he's clearly stated that he's not sure of his feelings. You find yourself practically BEGGING him to fall in love with you. You don't have to do this sort of thing anymore. You can fix it from the INSIDE as well as changing how a man responds to you on the OUTSIDE
  2. lifeofmshaba

    lifeofmshaba JF-Expert Member

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    begging for love is a crime and you be imprison for that
  3. BlackBerry

    BlackBerry JF-Expert Member

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    Kwnza kwa nini unampa nafasi mpaka akwambie yooote hayo, unaona signs tu kwamba hakupendi basi unaachia ngazi huna haja ya kung'ang'nia wakati he is not into you kabisa
  4. itnojec

    itnojec JF-Expert Member

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    closed topic
  5. sweetlady

    sweetlady JF-Expert Member

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    Thanx BB! Umeninenea maneno yangu!
  6. Kaizer

    Kaizer JF-Expert Member

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    mh. hapa pagumu naona ni 4 ladies 2. all the best
  7. Ballerina

    Ballerina JF-Expert Member

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    Inakuwaje kama huyo mwanaume ni mume wa ndoa,tena ya kanisani?Ilishamtokea one of our fimily member.Mume kazaa nje ya ndoa,kisha akadai inabidi aishi na huyo mwanamke eti kwa kuwa mtoto anahitaji malezi ya wazazi wawili.Bahati mbaya ndugu yetu alikuwa hajazaa na ndoa ilikuwa na miaka 3 tu,japo walishaishi kwa miaka 2 kabla ya ndoa.