Kuanzia leo mi na wewe basi.......

Bishanga · Aug 30, 2011

Hakika kati ya mambo magumu yanayoweza kumkabili mwanaume ni kumwambia mkewe/gf/hawara kuwa 'its over'. Pamoja na kwamba kichwani mwako mwanaume unaweza kukata shauri kuwa huyu mwanamke hanifai kimbembe huwa kinakuja kwenye kumtamkia na ugumu unaongezeka kama unaishi naye. Wengine siku hizi wana text,wengine wanaandika e mail,wengine wanamtuma mtu awasemehe,all in all ni jambo gumu sana maana uongo binadamu tumeumbwa na uso wa haya.
Kwa wanaume: Kama ushawahi kujikuta katika situation hii ulifanye kumjulisha mwenzio kuwa mahusiano yenu yamefikia tamati?
kwa kinamama: Kama haya maswahibu yashawahi kukuta jamaa alikujulisha kwa staili ipi,and how was your reaction?
Nawasilisha

Mr Rocky · Aug 30, 2011

Mkuu haijawahi kunitokea ila ni maamuzi tuu maana huwezi kubishana na matakwa ya wakati huo au kile ambacho moyo wako unaamua
Huwa mtu anafikia kipindi anaona kabisa hapa hakuna tena kwenda mbele ni bora liishe na ni ngumu sana kwa watu kama hao kusema wazi wazi

Bishanga · Aug 30, 2011

Mr.Rocky said:
Mkuu haijawahi kunitokea ila ni maamuzi tuu maana huwezi kubishana na matakwa ya wakati huo au kile ambacho moyo wako unaamua
Huwa mtu anafikia kipindi anaona kabisa hapa hakuna tena kwenda mbele ni bora liishe na ni ngumu sana kwa watu kama hao kusema wazi wazi

Ndugu yangu isikukute ,ni mtihani mgumu sana,kama hamusihi pamoja wengine huwa wanaamua kupotezea kwa kukata mawasiliano,kasheshe inakuja mwanamke akikutafuta akaku face na kukuuliza 'hey Rocky whats going on mbona umebadilika ghafla?' hivi utamwambia 'sikutaki tena?' sana sana utajiuma uma na kusingizia u bize.

Mr Rocky · Aug 30, 2011

Bishanga said:
Ndugu yangu isikukute ,ni mtihani mgumu sana,kama hamusihi pamoja wengine huwa wanaamua kupotezea kwa kukata mawasiliano,kasheshe inakuja mwanamke akikutafuta akaku face na kukuuliza 'hey Rocky whats going on mbona umebadilika ghafla?' hivi utamwambia 'sikutaki tena?' sana sana utajiuma uma na kusingizia u bize.

hapo mkuu ni utata
maana kusema ile wazi kuwa sikutaki tena au nimekuacha ni shughuli
yaani unasingizia ubusy au safari sehem ambazo hazina net au visababu visivyo na kichwa
ila kusema ile wazi aise nimekutema ni issue

mikatabafeki · Aug 30, 2011

mkuu mi nilijidai nimeokoka hvo nkamwambia akate mguu kwangu

Bishanga · Aug 30, 2011

z

Mr.Rocky said:
hapo mkuu ni utata
maana kusema ile wazi kuwa sikutaki tena au nimekuacha ni shughuli
yaani unasingizia ubusy au safari sehem ambazo hazina net au visababu visivyo na kichwa
ila kusema ile wazi aise nimekutema ni issue

huo ndo mtihani na matokeo yake ndo 'sintofahamu' na mwishowe madai ya 'ulinipotezea muda' kumbe mapenzi yashakwisha long time.mambo magumu sana haya na ndo maana kama ni nyumba ya kupanga wengine huwa wanaondoka bila kuaga au wengine wana turn violent na kuanza kuwapiga wenza wao bila sababu ili mradi tu ajue kuwa hapendwi tena.

Bishanga · Aug 30, 2011

mikatabafeki said:
mkuu mi nilijidai nimeokoka hvo nkamwambia akate mguu kwangu

ulimwambia straight? alijibu vipi?

Mr Rocky · Aug 30, 2011

Bishanga said:
z
huo ndo mtihani na matokeo yake ndo 'sintofahamu' na mwishowe madai ya 'ulinipotezea muda' kumbe mapenzi yashakwisha long time.mambo magumu sana haya na ndo maana kama ni nyumba ya kupanga wengine huwa wanaondoka bila kuaga au wengine wana turn violent na kuanza kuwapiga wenza wao bila sababu ili mradi tu ajue kuwa hapendwi tena.

Yaani mkuu ni bora kupotezea na kuhama kabisa mtaa au nyumba unayokaa kuliko kuface the reality na zile lawama
hasa kwa mtu ambaye ushamwambia kuwa u can be her husband

Ukifikiria time u spend together, time she lost for you, her expectation and lot of her plan over you unaamua kupotezea na kuhama kabisa

Kifulambute · Aug 30, 2011

Mi nilimwita home kwangu na nikamwambia...."it's Over" kila mtu afuate mambo yake kwa misukosuko tuliyopitia basi sitaki tena

Bishanga · Aug 30, 2011

Mr.Rocky said:
Yaani mkuu ni bora kupotezea na kuhama kabisa mtaa au nyumba unayokaa kuliko kuface the reality na zile lawama
hasa kwa mtu ambaye ushamwambia kuwa u can be her husband

Ukifikiria time u spend together, time she lost for you, her expectation and lot of her plan over you unaamua kupotezea na kuhama kabisa

Ugumu unakuja hapo,na tatizo mwanamke mwingine hata akiambiwa uso kwa uso huwa hawezi ku accept rejection,ndo mana wengi huwa wanachanganyikiwa,wanakonda na wengine wanakuwa suicidal.Yaani mwanaume bora yasikukute.

Mr Rocky · Aug 30, 2011

Kifulambute said:
Mi nilimwita home kwangu na nikamwambia...."it's Over" kila mtu afuate mambo yake kwa misukosuko tuliyopitia basi sitaki tena

Mkuu inategemea na yeye kama ana maono ya kuona kuwa hapa kwa kweli hakuna tena relationship
Kweli hata ukimwambia anakubaliana na wewe
Ila kuna sometime umemchoka mtu unataka kumwacha wakati yeye bado anakupenda hapo ndio inaanza kasheshe umwambieje

The Boss · Aug 30, 2011

wewe mwambie uko busy sana

wenye kuelewa wanaelewa....hasa kama huishi nae....

kama unaishi nae......hiyo shughuli

Mr Rocky · Aug 30, 2011

Bishanga said:
Ugumu unakuja hapo,na tatizo mwanamke mwingine hata akiambiwa uso kwa uso huwa hawezi ku accept rejection,ndo mana wengi huwa wanachanganyikiwa,wanakonda na wengine wanakuwa suicidal.Yaani mwanaume bora yasikukute.

yeah kwao ni ngumu sana kukubaliana na reality
na huishia kufanya vituko ambavyo huwezi tegemea
it is hard to accept hasa inapotokea kuwa huyo mtu bado mnapendana ila upande mmoja ashachoka na uhusiano wako na anaamua kukuacha wakati upande wa pili bado anapenda

Mr Rocky · Aug 30, 2011

The Boss said:
wewe mwambie uko busy sana

wenye kuelewa wanaelewa....hasa kama huishi nae....

kama unaishi nae......hiyo shughuli

TB imagine uko nae ndani bado anakupenda na anajua kwa hakika wewe ni mume wake mtarajiwa then unamwambiaje hilo

King’asti · Aug 30, 2011

bishanga,kama ni yule mkeo anaekupiga,weeh sepa tu kimya kimya. tafuta nyumba hamia wala usijadili nae asije akakushawishi. atakuua siku moja.

Ulimakafu · Aug 30, 2011

Unakata shauri tu yaishe.

Bishanga · Aug 30, 2011

The Boss said:
wewe mwambie uko busy sana

wenye kuelewa wanaelewa....hasa kama huishi nae....

kama unaishi nae......hiyo shughuli

kama unaishi naye ni mtihani mkubwa sana,na bora iwe nyumba ya kupanga unaweza kusepa,kama ni ya kwako umejenga na akakwambia 'we mwanaume sikia,mi najua kuingia tu sijui kutoka' hapo utalijua jiji.Mi namjua jamaa aliyeamua kuuza nyumba wakati bado wote wanaishi humo ndani.

The Boss · Aug 30, 2011

Mr.Rocky said:
TB imagine uko nae ndani bado anakupenda na anajua kwa hakika wewe ni mume wake mtarajiwa then unamwambiaje hilo

ndo maana nikasema hapo shughuli....
wengine huanza na visa hivi
hakuna sex,hakuna story....unarudi umechelewa
una mtuhumu ana bwana nje....its funny

but mimi napenda ya kuacha kwa wema,mnazungumza mpaka anakuelewa

King’asti · Aug 30, 2011

wanawake wa siku hizi sio ving'ang'anizi! unaweza kukuta nae anakupigia hesabu ya kukuacha,ukimuambia anaitikia haraka haraka,lmao!

Bishanga said:
Ugumu unakuja hapo,na tatizo mwanamke mwingine hata akiambiwa uso kwa uso huwa hawezi ku accept rejection,ndo mana wengi huwa wanachanganyikiwa,wanakonda na wengine wanakuwa suicidal.Yaani mwanaume bora yasikukute.

Bishanga · Aug 30, 2011

Mr.Rocky said:
yeah kwao ni ngumu sana kukubaliana na reality
na huishia kufanya vituko ambavyo huwezi tegemea
it is hard to accept hasa inapotokea kuwa huyo mtu bado mnapendana ila upande mmoja ashachoka na uhusiano wako na anaamua kukuacha wakati upande wa pili bado anapenda

wakati mwingine sio kwamba anakupenda kihivyo ni njaa tu.

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