Importance of communication in a relationship

[Good Neighbour]

Habari zenu comrades!!!

Is love an emotion or an attitude of the heart?(fikiri hilo wakati unajikita kwenye mada husika)

Communication between a man and a woman is complicated by the fact that men and women think differently,perceive things differently and respond differently.
In general men are LOGICAL THINKERS while women are EMOTIONAL FEELERS.men speak what they are thinking and women speak what they are feeling.

CONVERSATION VS COMMUNICATION

Many people seem to equate conversation with communication.Just because two people talk to each other does not necessarily mean that they understand each other.what one says may not be what the other one hears and what one hears may not be what the other one means.Two way conversation does not guarantee communication.
Once again the key to communication is UNDERSTANDING.

Mwanafalsafa wa kigiriki Epictetus aliwahi kusema;

"We have two ears but one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak"

And i strongly believe there is a great deal of truth in that statement.Even the Bible contains many similar words of wisdom,the book of proverbs calls us to listen and understand.Jesus called the crowd to Him and said listen and understand.

So friends communication is very important in any relationship.and the key to it is UNDERSTANDING

Lets keep learning

Until then

God bless you

Good neighbour

 

[Kapeace]

Kiswahili ingependeza zaidi

 

[Mr Cu]

Kiswahili ingependeza zaidi

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[Slim5]

Kiswahili ingependeza zaidi

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[Kapeace]

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Wengine hatuijui hiyo yudizim inafananaje???

 

[Kapeace]

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Ndo umenichanganya kabisa acheni ubaguzi si mtumie kiswahili

 

[Mkomavu]

Akina sie tusiyejua lugha hapo tumepigwa kushoto

 

[Good Neighbour]

Kiswahili ingependeza zaidi

Asante kapeace japo nafikiri kiingereza hicho sio kigumu kwa wana JF wengi.
Once again the key is UNDERSTANDING

 

[Kapeace]

Asante kapeace japo nafikiri kiingereza hicho sio kigumu kwa wana JF wengi.
Once again the key is UNDERSTANDING

Itafsiri bhana usitubague

 

[Good Neighbour]

Itafsiri bhana usitubague

Nitafanya hivyo best nikipata nafasi

 

[tremendous]

Kumbe watu msipoelewana hakuna mawasiliano hapo hata kama mnazungumza daily, nimekupata mkuu.

 

[Good Neighbour]

Kumbe watu msipoelewana hakuna mawasiliano hapo hata kama mnazungumza daily, nimekupata mkuu.

Vizuri tremendous/Enormous/monumental/Titanic

 

[Mr Cu]

Wengine hatuijui hiyo yudizim inafananaje???

Tukutane pm nikuonyeshe

 

[Kapeace]

Tukutane pm nikuonyeshe

Tangulia nakuja

 

[Mr Cu]

Tangulia nakuja

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[Tajirimsomi]

Kiswahili ingependeza zaidi

Uko juu

 

[Kapeace]

Uko juu

Yeah

 

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Lugha ilikuja na meli

 

[Wissman]

Habari za wandugu!

Je! Upendo ni hisia au mtazamo wa moyo? (Fikiria wakati unapokuja kwenye mada husika)

Mawasiliano kati ya mwanamume na mwanamke ni ngumu na ukweli kwamba wanaume na wanawake wanadhani tofauti, kuelewa mambo tofauti na kujibu tofauti.
Kwa wanaume kwa ujumla ni WAKAZI WA LOGICAL wakati wanawake ni WAKAZI WA MAFUNZO.maume wanasema wanafikiri na wanawake wanasema nini wanahisi.

MAFUNZO YA VVUVU VS

Watu wengi wanaonekana kuwa sawa na mazungumzo na mawasiliano.Kwa sababu watu wawili wanazungumza haimaanishi kwamba wanaeleana. Nini mtu anasema inaweza kuwa yale yale yule mwingine anayasikia na kile ambacho husikia inaweza kuwa kile kile maana yake Mazungumzo ya njia mbili hauhakiki mawasiliano.
Mara nyingine tena ufunguo wa mawasiliano ni KUJIMA.

Mwanafalsafa wa Kigiriki Epictetus aliwahi kusema;

"Tuna masikio mawili lakini kinywa kimoja ili tuweze kusikiliza mara mbili tunapozungumza"

Na ninaamini sana kuna ukweli mkubwa katika maneno hayo. Hata Biblia ina maneno mengi ya hekima sawa, kitabu cha mithali kinatuita sisi kusikiliza na kuelewa. Yesu aliwaita umati wake na akasema kusikiliza na kuelewa.

Kwa hiyo mawasiliano ya marafiki ni muhimu sana katika uhusiano wowote. Na ufunguo wa hayo ni KUJIMA

Hebu kuendelea kujifunza

Hadi wakati huo

Mungu akubariki

Jirani nzuri


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[faraja mtasingwa]

Habari za wandugu!

Je! Upendo ni hisia au mtazamo wa moyo? (Fikiria wakati unapokuja kwenye mada husika)

Mawasiliano kati ya mwanamume na mwanamke ni ngumu na ukweli kwamba wanaume na wanawake wanadhani tofauti, kuelewa mambo tofauti na kujibu tofauti.
Kwa wanaume kwa ujumla ni WAKAZI WA LOGICAL wakati wanawake ni WAKAZI WA MAFUNZO.maume wanasema wanafikiri na wanawake wanasema nini wanahisi.

MAFUNZO YA VVUVU VS

Watu wengi wanaonekana kuwa sawa na mazungumzo na mawasiliano.Kwa sababu watu wawili wanazungumza haimaanishi kwamba wanaeleana. Nini mtu anasema inaweza kuwa yale yale yule mwingine anayasikia na kile ambacho husikia inaweza kuwa kile kile maana yake Mazungumzo ya njia mbili hauhakiki mawasiliano.
Mara nyingine tena ufunguo wa mawasiliano ni KUJIMA.

Mwanafalsafa wa Kigiriki Epictetus aliwahi kusema;

"Tuna masikio mawili lakini kinywa kimoja ili tuweze kusikiliza mara mbili tunapozungumza"

Na ninaamini sana kuna ukweli mkubwa katika maneno hayo. Hata Biblia ina maneno mengi ya hekima sawa, kitabu cha mithali kinatuita sisi kusikiliza na kuelewa. Yesu aliwaita umati wake na akasema kusikiliza na kuelewa.

Kwa hiyo mawasiliano ya marafiki ni muhimu sana katika uhusiano wowote. Na ufunguo wa hayo ni KUJIMA

Hebu kuendelea kujifunza

Hadi wakati huo

Mungu akubariki

Jirani nzuri


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