I am 42 yeas old and finished

Delegate · Jul 8, 2014

This is a lesson to younger one. Tafadhali nashindwa kujieleza kwa kiswahili, this is real.

Iam a proffesional male who left work when i was 40, in order to pursue something kama watanzania wengi tunavyofanya. But now i just realize it is beyond my capacity.

I now think I made a mistake and have made things worse, I am not married but i have children with two different women who are married with other guys. I dont have house but i have a car, in general i feel like I am finished.

I feel like I am on an empty journey... I feel miserable and frightened.

THIS WORLD IS NOT FAIR!

REALITY · Jul 10, 2014

really your finished you went against GODs rule you now reap what you sow not bad just repent and tell JESUS to give a light fungua hata genge uza or uza gari kajenge nyumba ya mbao kijijini,tafuta kashamba panda chakula

Maundumula · Jul 10, 2014

Sperm donor?

utinotino · Jul 10, 2014

Watanzania wengi wanaacha kazi at 40 ku pursue something?
Dude are you ok au frustration zinasababisha uchanganyikiwe kidogo?
Pole its life!

Dr Matola PhD · Jul 10, 2014

sijaelewa hapa tukusaidie nini? nyumba, mke au sumu ufe kabisa?

RR · Jul 10, 2014

@Delegate y dont u go back to employment? Y not get married now??

MWANAKA · Jul 10, 2014

Matola said:
sijaelewa hapa tukusaidie nini? nyumba, mke au sumu ufe kabisa?

kaka uwe na huruma basi duh !!!!

double R · Jul 10, 2014

Asante kwa somo, the finished. Mistake can be lessons and challenge unless you are dead.

xfactor · Jul 10, 2014

Tatizo nini ati? Kutokuwa na nyumba? Kutokuwa umeoa? Kuwa na watoto wawili mama tofauti? Huna kazi? Au all of the above?

Halafu utakuwa mbeba box wewe.Anyways,life is simple my friend so don't complicate things caz age is just a number
If you are single,get married

If you don't have a job,get a job,u had it once u can have it again

Watoto wana kushinda,peleka kwa mama zao kwa muda au kwa bibi,kuanza upya sio ujinga.Rudisha mpira kwa kipa anza moja

If you don't have a house,get a plan and stay focused

We are our own worst enemy.

palalisote · Jul 10, 2014

"nakumbuka siku moja dada zangu waliniambia unajua kaka sisi wanawake wote tuko hivyo hivyo usidhani utampata mwanamke toka mbinguni ambaye utamwaona yuko tofauti sana na hawa" . Ndugu yangu bado hujachelewa:

Nyumba siyo dili sana cha msingi una sehemu unakaa na unaweza kulipa pango la nyumba.
acha kuweka vigezo vingi vya mwanamke unayetaka kumwoa.

Wimana · Jul 10, 2014

Delegate said:
This is a lesson to younger one,,,

Tafadhali nashindwa kujieleza kwa kiswahili!!!!THIS IS REAL!!!

Iam a proffesional male who left work when i was 40, in order to pursue something kama watanzania wengi tunavyofanya. But now i just realize it is beyond my capacity.

I now think I made a mistake and have made things worse, I am not married but i have children with two different women who are married with other guys. I dont have house but i have a car, in general i feel like I am finished!!!!

i feel like I am on an empty journey... I feel miserable and frightened!!!!

THIS WORLD IS NOT FAR!

Maandiko Matakatifu yanasema, ajionavyo mtu nafsini mwake, ndivyo alivyo.

I feel sorry to you because you are still young and energetic, why giving up?

Kataa kushindwa, kwa umri huo bado unaweza kurudi kuajiriwa. Tena bado kuna fursa nyingi mbele yako, kama umeweza kumiliki gari, umesoma, na hujavuka umri wa ujana, hofu inatoka wapi? Hilo gari ukiamua kuliuza ni mtaji kabisa, au haliuziki?

Hoodla · Jul 10, 2014

Having a car is nothing having a place you call home is everything.....swallow your pride go back to employment prioritize your needs.

Dr Matola PhD · Jul 10, 2014

Khantwe said:
Khaaaa...!

Khantwe!!

REALITY · Jul 10, 2014

Wimana said:
Maandiko Matakatifu yanasema, ajionavyo mtu nafsini mwake, ndivyo alivyo.

I feel sorry to you because you are still young and energetic, why giving up?

Kataa kushindwa, kwa umri huo bado unaweza kurudi kuajiriwa. Tena bado kuna fursa nyingi mbele yako, kama umeweza kumiliki gari, umesoma, na hujavuka umri wa ujana, hofu inatoka wapi? Hilo gari ukiamua kuliuza ni mtaji kabisa, au haliuziki?

life is not easy as you think let him aje ajibu hizi alizoleta pengine hata hela ya kula ni stress

Niwemugizi · Jul 10, 2014

Delegate said:
This is a lesson to younger one. Tafadhali nashindwa kujieleza kwa kiswahili, this is real.

Iam a proffesional male who left work when i was 40, in order to pursue something kama watanzania wengi tunavyofanya. But now i just realize it is beyond my capacity.

I now think I made a mistake and have made things worse, I am not married but i have children with two different women who are married with other guys. I dont have house but i have a car, in general i feel like I am finished.

I feel like I am on an empty journey... I feel miserable and frightened.

THIS WORLD IS NOT FAIR!

Unashindwa kujieleza kwa Kiswahili kwa hiyo wewe ni Mcongoman unajua kifaransa tu maana kwa uelewa wangu hata hicho kiingereza ni issue.By the way back to the topic, pole sana maana bwana kuacha kazi bila kuwa na base ni issue sana na pia huwezijua huenda hamkuachana kwenye good terms na hao wanawake uliowazalisha,katubu kanisani waombe msamaha naamini Mungu atafanya njia maana kila kinachomtokea mtu ujue kuna reason behind

PetCash · Jul 10, 2014

You are a professional? as the term states being a professional means you have capacity to contribute to work, as a consultant or employee.
a) Try building a network of consultation through volunteering and learning a lot how to make your knowledge useful.
b) Go to house of worship and sit down and let God show you the wonders of life and the beauty of it...Let Him show you the reason why you were born and how you can contribute to life( Truth is, you still have not experienced life man)
c) Your missions failed yes, but at 42 you are now old enought to know in life failure is what makes success and life meaningful, you don't run or fear it! Have heart and pick yourself again.

d) Take a break, usiogope maisha ama chochote watu watakachosema....Get yourself off the life rat race for a while and meditate on everything that people think wrong about life. Love your children and listen to them as life becomes more and more revealed to them (Trust me you'll learn thing u didn't know).

e) As you think of life and try to relax. You may see the woman you want to spend your life with, who by the way you may not be seeing because you are so busy getting frustrated with life.

Rogie · Jul 10, 2014

nabii mweusi said:
ww hujaelewa kama mm,ni kuwa umechanganyikwa kisa umri umeenda na hujafanya chochote?ila du kweli umekwisha na mitoto inakutizama ww!!!!!looo ?????pole sana kunywa tu sumu watoto peleka kwa mama zao

You don't feel what the lost guy feels man.

Tuya · Jul 10, 2014

Matola said:
sijaelewa hapa tukusaidie nini? nyumba, mke au sumu ufe kabisa?

Hahahahahaha kweli hujaelewa .

REALITY · Jul 10, 2014

Matola said:
wewe ni choko reality.

matola bana mimi ni REALITY ila wewe ni choko si nimekuambia lakini mbona lawama eti bi shosti

Tuya · Jul 10, 2014

Delegate said:
This is a lesson to younger one. Tafadhali nashindwa kujieleza kwa kiswahili, this is real.

Iam a proffesional male who left work when i was 40, in order to pursue something kama watanzania wengi tunavyofanya. But now i just realize it is beyond my capacity.

I now think I made a mistake and have made things worse, I am not married but i have children with two different women who are married with other guys. I dont have house but i have a car, in general i feel like I am finished.

I feel like I am on an empty journey... I feel miserable and frightened.

THIS WORLD IS NOT FAIR!

Nakuvutia taswira naona ulikua mtu fulani matawi sana ndio nyie mlikua mnavaa soksi na kandambili. Ila hujachelewa Mungu hashindwi na jambo, mrudie Mungu wako fanya toba atakusamehe na atafanya njia umri wako unaruhusu .

I am 42 yeas old and finished

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