Daby
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Add "from you".
Add "from you".I didn't expect
Hao wadada huwa hata hatuongei nao sasa sijui watatufanya nn emb elezea kidogoTafuta hela dogo uwe na kwako ukiishi kwenye hizi nyumba zetu za uswahilini na huo I introvert wako utafanyiwa kitu kibaya na hawa wadada wenye mistress ya kuolewa
It s not like that.I can't emagine a world full of narcissist
good dayI will,thank you
Sometimes people are not introvert in nature. They are depressed and unhappy and need support.Introverts are people who prefer time for themselves, few circle of friends, in short people who are not social because of being shy/quite/.
I think I have this personality,and it cost me as I feel like I don't have a life after work hours.
I need advice on how to train myself from being introvert..so that I may be able to socialize,meet people and make friends.
Njoo pm nitakusaidia kutatua changamoto dogo km iyoIntroverts are people who prefer time for themselves, few circle of friends, in short people who are not social because of being shy/quite/.
I think I have this personality,and it cost me as I feel like I don't have a life after work hours.
I need advice on how to train myself from being introvert..so that I may be able to socialize,meet people and make friends.
Something of nature or unconsciously Gained thru life experience....most of time when you trust no one due to hypocrisy of people in times of ups & down...Introverts are people who prefer time for themselves, few circle of friends, in short people who are not social because of being shy/quite/.
I think I have this personality,and it cost me as I feel like I don't have a life after work hours.
I need advice on how to train myself from being introvert..so that I may be able to socialize,meet people and make friends.
Kama sijakosea ww ni Sagittariusafter work wekeza muda wako kwenye hobbies hutojuta,for instance me napenda kusafir na kutalii,introvertism is a blessing,we are bigger mind
Well said buddy. I learnt to enjoy beeing introvert and I can tell you I really feel good of it. I have as many skills as any person would want to. I am full of energy and confidence which makes me so happy.First,consider your introvertism a blessing not a misadvantage.We are just wired differently from extroverts.So we posess many things that many(extroverts) wish to have,but we take them for granted and focus on negatives,things a society full of extroverts view as the way of living;but it's not,it's their way of living.
We posess; high inteligence,creativeness,honesty,focus,deep love,confidence,decisiveness, you name it.
Secondly,you/we need to understand what being introvert really means.Introvert is not anti social,is not egoistic,is not shyness,is not many things we name it...
Introvert is the one that recharge by being alone.That is the only difference between an introven and extrovert.The need to recharge,to regain energy,to reboost by being alone., while extroverts prefer being around people to recharge.So you wanting to regain by being around people is denying yourself peace and happiness.You will never achieve that.
I used to think that way,but slowly i discovered that I'm introvert but can talk without shy,can stand before big audience and speak,can make friends easily,can engage in group talks very nicely,things that many extroverts can't but it's just that I prefer different.And you can learn that too,not because you are an introvert but as human being.These are soft skills
anyone should learn regardless of their personalities.
So my friend,the key is to accept you are an introvert and enjoy having few meaningful friends,enjoy being alone,enjoy learning to cope with boredoom(extroverts strugles too),enjoy learning new soft skills and enjoy the fact that you are different from extroverts just like they are different from us.