mwekundu si kila chozi la mwanamke linathamani na kuonesha kuonewa!
Machozi mengine ni kutafuta attention tu = Intension seeking personal disorder,
one among the ways that used by a woman who seek intension is crying! Kwa jina la kitaalamu wanaitwa 'FIGNERS'
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Soma article hii:
"The feigner: when called to account and
outwitted, the person
instinctively uses the
denial - counterattack -
feigning victimhood
strategy to manipulate everyone present,
especially bystanders
and those in authority.
The most effective
method of feigning
victimhood is to burst into tears, for most
people's instinct is to
feel sorry for them, to
put their arm round
them or offer them a
tissue. There's little more plausible than real
tears, although as
actresses know, it's
possible to turn these
on at will. Feigners are
adept at using crocodile tears. From years of
practice, attention-
seekers often give an
Oscar-winning
performance in this
respect. Feigning victimhood is a
favourite tactic of
bullies and harassers to
evade accountability
and sanction. When
accused of bullying and harassment, the person
immediately turns on
the water works and
claims they are the one
being bullied or
harassed - even though there's been no prior
mention of being
bullied or harassed. It's
the fact that this claim
appears only after and
in response to having been called to account
that is revealing. Mature
adults do not burst into
tears when held
accountable for their
actions."
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Si umeona hapo!