Does come we stay lead to marriage?

HillaryKombe · Mar 20, 2014

Nowadays a lot of couples are moving in together before marriage. It's called ''Come We Stay''. Some people say that it is best way to know if you are compatible. That it is like test driving a car. You will know if you can stay together as a married couple. But other says most of this arrangement don't lead to marriage because you are already getting what you can get in marriage without married. Does come we stay lead to marriage?

Karucee · Mar 20, 2014

Its not automatic.

But why settle for a sinful life that displeases God while you could get into marriage and start a good life just as God intended?

Kongosho · Mar 20, 2014

Maisha hayana fomula, wapo wanaofanikiwa, wapo wanaoshindwa.

Daud omar · Mar 20, 2014

Kawia ufike wanita

mrsleo · Mar 20, 2014

wazungu ndo wana hizo sana za ku move in together , ila kwasisi waafrika ukirogwa ukaingia kwa mwanaume eti kisa amekwambia uende ukaishi ujue hapo ndoa utaisikia tu au mtakuja kubariki mkiwa na kuzaa mmemaliza

Kiraka · Mar 20, 2014

mrsleo said:
wazungu ndo wana hizo sana za ku move in together , ila kwasisi waafrika ukirogwa ukaingia kwa mwanaume eti kisa amekwambia uende ukaishi ujue hapo ndoa utaisikia tu au mtakuja kubariki mkiwa na kuzaa mmemaliza

Si kweli! Mimi ni mwafrika, kabla ya kumuoa mke wangu tuliishi pamoja for two years. Ni namna tu nyinyi wawili mnavyokubaiana na kupendana. Usigeneralize kwa waafrika wote.

Karucee · Mar 20, 2014

Kongosho said:
Maisha hayana fomula, wapo wanaofanikiwa, wapo wanaoshindwa.

Sredi yetu imeenda wapi?

Heaven on Earth · Mar 20, 2014

kiraka said:
si kweli! Mimi ni mwafrika, kabla ya kumuoa mke wangu tuliishi pamoja for two years. Ni namna tu nyinyi wawili mnavyokubaiana na kupendana. Usigeneralize kwa waafrika wote.

ila kama kuna namna ni bora tu mfunge hiyo ndoa mwanzoni.........

Cos mapenzi haya hayana guarantee

Nyani Ngabu · Mar 20, 2014

..the hell is 'come we stay'?

Kongosho · Mar 20, 2014

Wameipeleka jukwaa la dini, sijapenda kabisa. Kule watu hawaendi afu wengine hawana hata access.

Karucee said:
Sredi yetu imeenda wapi?

kijani11 · Mar 20, 2014

Kuipa ngono free mlango wa nyuma tu hapo. "Leading to marriage "inategea wapo nnaowajua ambao iliishia kugombana na kupigana chini, wengine mimba ikabidi wabariki ndoa.

everlenk · Mar 20, 2014

Karucee said:
Its not automatic.

But why settle for a sinful life that displeases God while you could get into marriage and start a good life just as God intended?

Excellent!! eat like kubwaaaaaaa

HARUFU · Mar 20, 2014

Maisha ya kidijitali yameharibu mila zote, tofauti na enzi za mababu zetu walikuwa wavumilivu sana

Unavuta kitu kibichi unachana manailoni mwenyewe

Siku hizi waweza uziwa mbuzi kwenye gunia

Nokia83 · Mar 20, 2014

Mm nlikaa na wife miaka 3 b4 hatujaoana nw tuna miaka 4 ya ndoa.

Logikos · Mar 20, 2014

What is Marriage to you ?

Because Marriage has different definitions for people of different faith. In the eye of the law even staying with someone as husband and wife for a certain time you can be counted as married couple.

By the way you people are different you can not expect same outcome from different people it doesn't work like that.., Just because it worked or didn't work for Aisha or Rose does not mean it wouldnt work for Ashura or Eliza.

Karucee · Mar 20, 2014

Kongosho said:
Wameipeleka jukwaa la dini, sijapenda kabisa. Kule watu hawaendi afu wengine hawana hata access.

wA KWANZA MIE SINA ACCESS.

badiebey · Mar 20, 2014

HillaryKombe said:
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Nowadays a lot of couples are moving in together before marriage. It's called ''Come We Stay''. Some people say that it is best way to know if you are compatible. That it is like test driving a car. You will know if you can stay together as a married couple. But other says most of this arrangement don't lead to marriage because you are already getting what you can get in marriage without married. Does come we stay lead to marriage?

ts called cohabitation...
naona si nzuri esp kwa mwanamke,na ukiwa umezaando kabisaa...u got a lot to lose,jamaa akuchakaza K nk na anaweza asikuoe

Asprin · Mar 20, 2014

Karucee said:
Its not automatic.

But why settle for a sinful life that displeases God while you could get into marriage and start a good life just as God intended?

Mara ya mwisho umesali mwaka gani?

MankaM · Mar 20, 2014

aiseee

ERoni · Mar 20, 2014

Karucee said:
Its not automatic.

But why settle for a sinful life that displeases God while you could get into marriage and start a good life just as God intended?

...comparibility test... we use trial n error method to solve complex numbers, lol...
..it actually works, only that the girl will have to wave marriage(wedding) "goodbye"..

Does come we stay lead to marriage?

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