Can Men and Women Be Friends?

[HIMARS]

Can Mouse and Cats be friends? IF no then No friendship between a man amd a woman.

 

[barafuyamoto]

The sexual attraction btn the opposite sex is irresistible. Therefore, to me it's not possible for men and women to be just friends without getting into to it. On the other hand it might be possible but the women's taste has got to be horrible, I mean I can treat her as one of my pals only if something from her doesn't drive me to be a 'man', she got to be sexually unattractive, otherwise, no place for platonic friendship, sorry!

 

[kijani11]

Not everyone has the strength/guts to just be close friends with members of the opposite sex.

Believe me you have to be very desciplined, both of you.

 

[Mwanamalundi]

Not possible. The reason is simple. Angalia picha.

 

[maichrim]

Yes, what Naima says is exactly true............ I have platonic male friends as well and it has always been that way. The golden rule is to make sure if you are in a relationship with someone else, that each side understands what is going on and is able to accept that relationship. It is also a good idea that they also are friends of your spouse, it works out well for me.

It can be true for some rare cases but it should be taken with extra care!!! It is always TRUE that unlike poles ATTRACT each other unless your blood related creatures!!! which doesn't work even for some people.

 

[maichrim]

Kiukweli mimi nikishaona mwanaume ambaye yuko close saana na wanawake...yani ndo marafiki zake..simuelewagi vzri. Sometimes ushoga unaanzia hapo! Lakini pia mara nyingi kinadada wanaofanya urafiki zaidi na wanaume ukiwaangalia sana utagundua kuna gap somewhere. Ni mtazamo

 

[seanherms]

Yes,a gay

 

[Peter Madukwa]

Imposible for africans maybe for europeans

 

[MeinKempf]

Can Men and Women Be Friends?
Can men and women be "just friends," or is sexual attraction between the sexes always inevitable? According to Rabbi Shmuley's book, men and women can be friends with members of the opposite sex, as long as they follow certain rules. He talks about platonic friendship between the sexes and shares his ground rules for opposite-sex friendships outside of marriage.

If a person isn't married, Rabbi Shmuley says it's perfectly all right to have friends who are members of the opposite sex. Society has moved away from polarizing the sexes, and today, men and women work together, go to school together and should be able to be friends, he says.

Things are different if you are married, Rabbi Shmuley says. It is possible to have an opposite sex friendship, but you cannot compromise certain borders:
• You can't go out to late night dinners together. You can have lunch together in a public place, but you should not order alcoholic beverages. "The embers of attraction really can grow in situations like that, and suddenly it's not so innocent, it's not just friendship anymore," Rabbi Shmuley says.
• You can't take long drives or long flights with the other person, even if it's for work. "Even if you have to work with a colleague [of the opposite sex], there are still certain boundaries you need to preserve," he says.
• You cannot place yourself in any situation where romance can grow. "Romance grows when people are alone; romance grows when people tell secrets," Rabbi Shmuley says.
• You can't share secrets with a platonic male or female friend that you don't share with your spouse. "Because then you're sharing an exclusivity with a member of the opposite sex that you're not with your partner, and that can lead to a big no-no," he says.
• You should not be friends with ex-lovers.

How is it possible??? bonnieL1974

 

[soft starter]

sometime can be yes, sometime no
but that cannot be the formula

 

[maneka]

Ni vigumu kuaminika eti unaweza kutembea juu ya makaa ya moto ukiwa peku na usiungue!!