Bila "vijisenti" kumbe hutulia..........

Rutashubanyuma · Mar 3, 2012

Kuna mama mmoja jirani yangu ambaye siku hizi tabasamu halimtoki mdomoni...............nilipomwuuliza hizi nderemo ni za nini jibu alilonipa liliniacha kinywa wazi nikapigwa na butwaa..........................akaniambia jeuri yake sasa kwisha.....................nilipomwuuliza nani huyo akasema si huyu mzee wake sasa "vijisenti" hana na amekuwa na kauli nzuri na hana dharau tena............akaniambia sasa hivi ni muungwana sana.........na akaongeza kashika adabu na Mungu ni mkubwa.......sala zake Mwenyezi Mungu amezisikiliza............na ya kuwa mumewe sasa anahangaika kutafuta ugali wa watoto wake bila zengwe.............Ama kwa hakika kumbe "vijisenti" tunavipenda lakini kumbe vyaweza kuleta mtafaruku ndani ya familia........................lol

Kaunga · Mar 3, 2012

Vijicent ndivyo vinawafanya mizee in their 50s n 60s kujiona kuwa they r sikstin na kufuata vimiss samwea! Na asikuambie mtu, ndoa huharibiwa zaidi na hizi nyumba ndogo zifuatazo mapene!

SI unit · Mar 3, 2012

Pesa ni sabuni ya roho bana

dubu · Mar 3, 2012

Rutashubanyuma ulikuwa wapi? ulipotea mkuu.

Amyner · Mar 3, 2012

Mwenye tabia haachi kamwe hata vijisenti vikimuishia atapata njia tu ya kuendelea kufanya upuuzi wake, kamwe siwezi kuomba riziki ipae ili eti mwenzangu atulie, zaidi angeomba Mungu mumewe abadilike au pia angejaribu kumbadili taratibu. Kwasababu akizishika tena atarudi kule kule. Sasa whats that?!

Rutashubanyuma · Mar 3, 2012

Vijicent ndivyo vinawafanya mizee in their 50s n 60s kujiona kuwa they r sikstin na kufuata vimiss samwea! Na asikuambie mtu, ndoa huharibiwa zaidi na hizi nyumba ndogo zifuatazo mapene!

vimiss lazima tuwaelewe.................wengi wao shule hawataki, kazi za mikono hawataki......................lakini kumpakata babu wanaona ni kazi laini ili mradi wapate mkate wao siku husika.................

Rutashubanyuma · Mar 3, 2012

Mwenye tabia haachi kamwe hata vijisenti vikimuishia atapata njia tu ya kuendelea kufanya upuuzi wake, kamwe siwezi kuomba riziki ipae ili eti mwenzangu atulie, zaidi angeomba Mungu mumewe abadilike au pia angejaribu kumbadili taratibu. Kwasababu akizishika tena atarudi kule kule. Sasa whats that?!

Mwanadamu huwezi kumbadili ila Mungu tu ndiye awezaye yote..............akzipata nitawajulisha kama karudia kulekule au sasa umri na uzoefu vinamwongoza kwingineko........

Rutashubanyuma · Mar 3, 2012

Rutashubanyuma ulikuwa wapi? ulipotea mkuu.

Dubu acha kujitetea.......................mimi at JF ninafahamika kama......................"never miss."

kwa hiyo ukisema nimepotea wote tunajua ni wewe umekuwa bubu hapa JF............

Congo · Mar 3, 2012

Huyo mama ni wa kuogopa kabisa. Hawezi kumuombea mumewe asiwe na hela, wakati hela ndio zinafanya maisha kuwa mazuri. Alitakiwa ktumia mbinu nyingine kumrekebisha. Nakumbuka kesi moja ambapo mama mmoja alienda kumshtaki mumewe kazini kwake kwamba anatoa wapi pesa nyingi namna ile kila mwisho wa mwezi (mumewe alikuwa paymaster jeshini na ni kipindi mishahara ilikuwa inalipwa dirishani), walipochunguza jamaa akafukuzwa kazi. Ingawa sipalilii wizi lakini huyu pia ni aina ya wanawake wa ovyo namna hiyo.

Amyner · Mar 3, 2012

Rutashubanyuma said:
Mwanadamu huwezi kumbadili ila Mungu tu ndiye awezaye yote..............akzipata nitawajulisha kama karudia kulekule au sasa umri na uzoefu vinamwongoza kwingineko........

Nilimaanisha kumbadili tabia sio uumbaji!

Rutashubanyuma · Mar 3, 2012

Huyo mama ni wa kuogopa kabisa. Hawezi kumuombea mumewe asiwe na hela, wakati hela ndio zinafanya maisha kuwa mazuri. Alitakiwa ktumia mbinu nyingine kumrekebisha. Nakumbuka kesi moja ambapo mama mmoja alienda kumshtaki mumewe kazini kwake kwamba anatoa wapi pesa nyingi namna ile kila mwisho wa mwezi (mumewe alikuwa paymaster jeshini na ni kipindi mishahara ilikuwa inalipwa dirishani), walipochunguza jamaa akafukuzwa kazi. Ingawa sipalilii wizi lakini huyu pia ni aina ya wanawake wa ovyo namna hiyo.

umeshauri alitakiwa atafute njia mbadala ya kumrekebisha mumewe lakini hukutoa mfano wa njia ipi.....................lakini ufahamu mwanadamu ni kiumbe cha ajabu..........mara nyingi akupendaye ndiye ukimkorofisha huamua kukuchukia sana...............na huona kheri mkose wote kulikoni akose pekee yake...

MadameX · Mar 3, 2012

Congo said:
Huyo mama ni wa kuogopa kabisa. Hawezi kumuombea mumewe asiwe na hela, wakati hela ndio zinafanya maisha kuwa mazuri. Alitakiwa ktumia mbinu nyingine kumrekebisha. Nakumbuka kesi moja ambapo mama mmoja alienda kumshtaki mumewe kazini kwake kwamba anatoa wapi pesa nyingi namna ile kila mwisho wa mwezi (mumewe alikuwa paymaster jeshini na ni kipindi mishahara ilikuwa inalipwa dirishani), walipochunguza jamaa akafukuzwa kazi. Ingawa sipalilii wizi lakini huyu pia ni aina ya wanawake wa ovyo namna hiyo.

Siyo huyo mama tu hata mimi pia, kama hela ndio inayomtia dharau na kujiona very hata mimi ningemwombea awe masikini, tule bamia na mlenda wetu lakini heshima ipo ndani.

fazaa · Mar 3, 2012

Mwanamke gani anaye omba mme wake awe masikini, huyo mwanamke wakumpa pole nadhani hazimtoshi.

Rutashubanyuma · Mar 3, 2012

Nilimaanisha kumbadili tabia sio uumbaji!

nilikuelewa vivyo hivyo.tabia ya mwenzio iko nje ya uwezo wako...................labda matendo yako ndiyo silaha yako ya mwisho.....

Rutashubanyuma · Mar 3, 2012

Mwanamke gani anaye omba mme wake awe masikini, huyo mwanamke wakumpa pole nadhani hazimtoshi.

tatizo ambalo hulioni ni kuwa hakuolewa kwa ajili ya kula,..............hata kwao alikuwa anakula............kama penzi halipo huo ndiyo umasikini mkubwa kulikoni ule wa mavituzi........................

Rutashubanyuma · Mar 3, 2012

Siyo huyo mama tu hata mimi pia, kama hela ndio inayomtia dharau na kujiona very hata mimi ningemwombea awe masikini, tule bamia na mlenda wetu lakini heshima ipo ndani.

Tupo pamoja kwenye hili..................Madamex..............

fazaa · Mar 3, 2012

Rutashubanyuma said:
tatizo ambalo hulioni ni kuwa hakuolewa kwa ajili ya kula,..............hata kwao alikuwa anakula............kama penzi halipo huo ndiyo umasikini mkubwa kulikoni ule wa mavituzi........................

Kabisa kabisa sijuwi wanawake wengine wanapenda vipi aisay, unaolewa na mwanaume humpendi hio nayo noma.

Kama anampenda amme wake asinge muombea mme wake awe masikini hata siku moja.

MadameX · Mar 3, 2012

fazaa said:
Kabisa kabisa sijuwi wanawake wengine wanapenda vipi aisay, unaolewa na mwanaume humpendi hio nayo noma.

Hiyo kitu nimejaribu nimeshindwa, hata nilipotaka kung'anganiza roho kwa ajili ya maslahi mengine lakini moyo umekataa, nikabaki najiuliza swali hilo hilo

mgeni10 · Mar 3, 2012

Amyner umenena

Unamwombea mumeo UMASIKINI ili atulie,??????,Kweli itasaidia??? au atabadirisha tu viwanja na utaratibu???

La msingi piga magoti mwambie Mungu akurekebishie huyo mumeo awe wako

Chauro · Mar 3, 2012

huyo mama lazima ana matatizo

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