Siyo makosa yangu, wewe kuwa na fikra finyu.Shida yote ya nini Akati Kuna Wazuri Zaidi yako! Masharti yao ni Sh 500/= Nyie ndio huwa mnaishia kuolewa na Vibabu Vya Miaka 60!
Degree inakusaidia nini katika Mapenzi?
Sijakosa wanaume, sijaridhika tu. Na disadvantage ni kuwa mwanaume yeyote anaweza kumtongoza mwanamke, wengi tu, Ila mwisho wa siku unagundua kuna vitu hamko compatible at all.
So modern day problems need modern day solutions.
Mnaweza mkanicheka na kunikebehi na kuniona najiona wathamani sana Ila niko real na ninachokitaka, na hii imemisaidia sana kwenye mahusiano.
I'm going to give this explanation for those with inquiries;
Mahusiano yangu ya Kwanza yaliisha my ex alivyorudi nchini kwao ndio maana nimesisitiza kwenye proximity.
I stayed single but sexually active for a while before starting another relationship which ended up because of trust issues.
Again I'm single but sexually active.
In all those relationships, my exes or I were not perfect but atleast we were compatible based on my standards. Sijawahi settle for less na changamoto nlizopata kwenye mahusiano yaliyopita najaribu kuyakabili kwa kuboresha my standards.
Sio rahisi kupata mwanaume mwenye hizo qualities randomly in real life, kwahiyo kuweka hii post itasaidia kuongeza my chances of getting him.
Kuhusu uzuri, sitaweza kusema I'm a 2, 8 or 10. Beauty is perceived differently by people, it could be a combination of alot other things or just physical aspects to others.
Ila mimi najitambua ni mzuri, some will agree with that, some will not. Everyone has their preferences. As I said, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.
Please, don't feel so entitled.weka picha yako kwanza utakuta ndo wale wale
Very well explained. You are a beauty with the brain.
I wish you all the best in your search for the lucky one.
You mentioned that you are sexually active and you are not in any relationship, don't you see that as a red flag for someone who is really serious about starting a relationship with you ?
Thank you for the wishesVery well explained. You are a beauty with the brain.
I wish you all the best in your search for the lucky one.
Last one, you mentioned that you are sexually active and you are not in any relationship, don't you see that as a red flag for someone who is really serious about starting a relationship with you ?
Nlikuwa kama wewe tu unachowaza sa hivi na sasa nmeshtuka kwamba mtu wa aina niliyemfikiria akilini hayupo sababu hata dada yangu tu wakuzaliwa nae hafanani kitabia na mimi
Toka katika ujinga huo kabla ujachelewa
Depends, I'm not an angel. I don't want to lie to anyone that I'm just a single girl.
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Alot of people lie about their sexual statuses and eventually you come to realise you were just an option.
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Being with someone is a sacrifice, and when I say I'm sexually active it basically means I'm ready to let it go when the right man comes.
That's why a drunkard will never tell you that he/she is alcoholic until you are deep in a relationship. Because he knows he can NOT let go.
Hii ni aina gani ya baruaa?Refer to the heading above, I joined JF with the intention to look for a male lover and partner with the following specifications ( Nimejiunga JF kutafuta mpenzi wa kiume mwenye vigezo vifuatavyo) in hopes to start a productive intimate relationship:
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1√Height/Urefu: Taller than me(mrefu kuliko Mimi) I am 163cm.
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2√BMI: Normal to a overweight I don't mind. Not underweight or obese. I normally range around normal to overweight too.
I can say I'm kind of thick and there are activities I'll be doing with my future partner which do not require the disqualified characteristics.
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3√Ethnicity: A Brown skinned African man preferably a Tanzanian from any tribe will be highly prioritised. I am a dark skinned Tanzanian woman. I won't mind a white or hispanic man, although I'm skeptical about them being in JF.
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4√Hygiene and general appearance: A clean man who can take care of his body eg. shaving pubes, nice hair style, well groomed nails, cleans teeth and tongue,nice scent.
Also a man who is well dressed depending on the occasion.
He should be able to take care of himself and his stuff I mean, doing laundry, cooking, cleaning and so on.
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5√Health: HIV negative, STIs/STDs negative, Vaccinated against hepatitis.
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6√Proximity: A man who lives in Arusha or Kilimanjaro is preferred. If he lives in other regions its also okay, we could see where it goes. I find the idea of long distance relationship impractical.
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7√Education: Degree and above. I'm still pursuing my degree.
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8√Age: 27-33. I'm 23 y/o. The age range I chose is strictly based on biological reasons more than intellectual. I'm a strong believer that Intellectual maturity isn't age related.
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9√Language of use: English or Swahili. English preferably, because I use it to communicate most of the times. Despite that, I'm not very fluent in either.
But I do prefer good grammar in both languages. If written please use full form words, do not write vp, mrn, nyt,niaj...PLEASE DON'T! because at this point I won't care if you have a degree or you're LeBron James tall.
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10√Intelligence: If you know that you are smart then we can get along. Let's talk about Jesse Ventura and his conspiracy theories and debate why cannabis should or shouldn't be legalized.
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11√Good communication skills and emotional intelligence: Read that again.
This is the point of return. If you know you lack the ability to communicate well, explain your emotions like a rational human being, this is the point you stop reading this post.
Because of poor communication and lack of emotional intelligence some men act like jerks, revealing stupid traits like unnecessary jealousy and possessiveness. Mistaking them for love or care. Or some could waste my time because they can't explain what they want exactly.
Please be straight forward and emotional mature. Everyone has been a victim of something so please find a proper way to deal with it or communicate with me if possible but please don't throw a pity party. Playing a victim of heartbreak or childhood trauma and use it to waste my time is a bad bad idea.
If you are not ready just stop right here.
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12√Habits: Please don't be a drunkard or extreme smoker. None to moderate is a motto for me when it comes to risky habits.
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13√Behaviour: Respectful, Mature, Selflessness, good manners in general.
Saying so doesn't mean you should be boring and obvious.
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14√Relationship type: I prefer a monogamous relationship but I'm also okay with an open relationship.
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15√Current relationship status: I am a single girl. I'm not interested in married men or those in a relationship already, sitaki complications kabisa. Single men, Bachelors I insist,are needed.
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16√Sexual activities: I'm sexually active, versatile and adventurous. I prefer that you are too. That size is important to me as I wrote earlier I'm thick, and the size is Important in this aspect.
I also like spontaneous sex and dislike talking alot about it than actually do it.
I won't like to date a virgin man, but it will be interesting to meet one.
NB. I don't do anal sex and I use condoms at all times.
Please don't send a PM pretending you're interested in dating but all you need is sex, I can smell bullshit miles away.
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17√Trust: Well, I know you must have found the previous criteria interesting but believe me it doesn't work if you aren't an honest or trustworthy person. A monogamous or any other relationship doesn't work if you aren't true to yourself and others.
Remember I'm looking for a lover and most importantly a partner. And partnership requires honesty and trust. Think hard about this.
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18√Attractive sense of humour: Please don't be unnecessarily savage to be funny. If you're not then it's also cool, I also find serious men attractive and fun to pursue.
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19√Confidence: What's sexier than a confident man? A man who is relaxed confident not a show off. I'm also confident but not much of an extrovert.
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20√Hobbies: Definitely not hiking, I mean I hate hiking but if you love to, Yay! I'll be waiting for you when you come back home.
We could go camping though, swimming, and do other fun activities.
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21√Diet: I'm not a vegan but I'm thinking of reducing my red meatintake.
I'm not allergic to anything so far. It will be cool if you aren't allergic too but this is not a disqualifying criteria.
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22√Values: I prefer a man who I share my values with. Saying so, a man who is of Christian faith is favourable, but at the same time I'm not a religious person at all.
Political views don't matter to me.
I generally think if we have a lot of similar personalities we will get along pretty well. As the saying goes, personalities last looks fade.
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23✓Other physical aspects: If you know you look good you can PM me. I believe I'm a beautiful lady.
Oh!Beards: Favourite physical aspect. It's also okay if you don't have one, you can still PM me. But please do have one
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24√Kids: I won't like to date a man with a kid or kids already. I don't have any kid. I'm still old fashioned and I believe, that I should conceive and have a baby in marriage if I'm blessed enough.
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24√Asiwe anaangalia Korean series. He could play FIFA though and all those things men do.I don't know much about football though, but I can tolerate that, not Korean series.
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25√A man who has a life. I mean, sitafuti mwanaume anayewaza mapenzi 24/7. Get your priorities straight and pursue your life goals cause I'm doing the same and a relationship or anything else should not blind us from living our personal lives.
A person with a boring unfocused life or without dreams and ambitions will be the same or worse in a relationship. Loving our lives first makes everything else amazing.
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√ I'm patient and very serious about this. I emphasize again, small minded and immature men are not welcomed at all.
√I think it's also important for you to understand that I'm not here for unecessary chit chats.
√I believe getting a lover could be easy or hard, but being real makes things easier for both of us.
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√I hope that you understood me, I apologize for not being able to write in Swahili too for the reasons I explained earlier.
Looking forward to receiving a serious PM from you.
Sincerely,
Thatdumbgirl.
PS. I will not compromise any criteria unless you convince me enough. Otherwise, hasta la vista baby!
Okay, I respect your opinion. But that's how it works for me. I know it hardly works for others especially men.I got it. But my advice, some things are better left unsaid.
Mmmh chukua tu udongo uumbe wako mama...Refer to the heading above, I joined JF with the intention to look for a male lover and partner with the following specifications ( Nimejiunga JF kutafuta mpenzi wa kiume mwenye vigezo vifuatavyo) in hopes to start a productive intimate relationship:
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1√Height/Urefu: Taller than me(mrefu kuliko Mimi) I am 163cm.
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.
2√BMI: Normal to a overweight I don't mind. Not underweight or obese. I normally range around normal to overweight too.
I can say I'm kind of thick and there are activities I'll be doing with my future partner which do not require the disqualified characteristics.
.
.
3√Ethnicity: A Brown skinned African man preferably a Tanzanian from any tribe will be highly prioritised. I am a dark skinned Tanzanian woman. I won't mind a white or hispanic man, although I'm skeptical about them being in JF.
.
.
4√Hygiene and general appearance: A clean man who can take care of his body eg. shaving pubes, nice hair style, well groomed nails, cleans teeth and tongue,nice scent.
Also a man who is well dressed depending on the occasion.
He should be able to take care of himself and his stuff I mean, doing laundry, cooking, cleaning and so on.
.
.
5√Health: HIV negative, STIs/STDs negative, Vaccinated against hepatitis.
.
.
6√Proximity: A man who lives in Arusha or Kilimanjaro is preferred. If he lives in other regions its also okay, we could see where it goes. I find the idea of long distance relationship impractical.
.
.
7√Education: Degree and above. I'm still pursuing my degree.
.
.
8√Age: 27-33. I'm 23 y/o. The age range I chose is strictly based on biological reasons more than intellectual. I'm a strong believer that Intellectual maturity isn't age related.
.
.
9√Language of use: English or Swahili. English preferably, because I use it to communicate most of the times. Despite that, I'm not very fluent in either.
But I do prefer good grammar in both languages. If written please use full form words, do not write vp, mrn, nyt,niaj...PLEASE DON'T! because at this point I won't care if you have a degree or you're LeBron James tall.
.
.
10√Intelligence: If you know that you are smart then we can get along. Let's talk about Jesse Ventura and his conspiracy theories and debate why cannabis should or shouldn't be legalized.
.
.
11√Good communication skills and emotional intelligence: Read that again.
This is the point of return. If you know you lack the ability to communicate well, explain your emotions like a rational human being, this is the point you stop reading this post.
Because of poor communication and lack of emotional intelligence some men act like jerks, revealing stupid traits like unnecessary jealousy and possessiveness. Mistaking them for love or care. Or some could waste my time because they can't explain what they want exactly.
Please be straight forward and emotional mature. Everyone has been a victim of something so please find a proper way to deal with it or communicate with me if possible but please don't throw a pity party. Playing a victim of heartbreak or childhood trauma and use it to waste my time is a bad bad idea.
If you are not ready just stop right here.
.
.
12√Habits: Please don't be a drunkard or extreme smoker. None to moderate is a motto for me when it comes to risky habits.
.
.
13√Behaviour: Respectful, Mature, Selflessness, good manners in general.
Saying so doesn't mean you should be boring and obvious.
.
.
14√Relationship type: I prefer a monogamous relationship but I'm also okay with an open relationship.
.
.
15√Current relationship status: I am a single girl. I'm not interested in married men or those in a relationship already, sitaki complications kabisa. Single men, Bachelors I insist,are needed.
.
.
16√Sexual activities: I'm sexually active, versatile and adventurous. I prefer that you are too. That size is important to me as I wrote earlier I'm thick, and the size is Important in this aspect.
I also like spontaneous sex and dislike talking alot about it than actually do it.
I won't like to date a virgin man, but it will be interesting to meet one.
NB. I don't do anal sex and I use condoms at all times.
Please don't send a PM pretending you're interested in dating but all you need is sex, I can smell bullshit miles away.
.
.
17√Trust: Well, I know you must have found the previous criteria interesting but believe me it doesn't work if you aren't an honest or trustworthy person. A monogamous or any other relationship doesn't work if you aren't true to yourself and others.
Remember I'm looking for a lover and most importantly a partner. And partnership requires honesty and trust. Think hard about this.
.
.
18√Attractive sense of humour: Please don't be unnecessarily savage to be funny. If you're not then it's also cool, I also find serious men attractive and fun to pursue.
.
.
19√Confidence: What's sexier than a confident man? A man who is relaxed confident not a show off. I'm also confident but not much of an extrovert.
.
.
20√Hobbies: Definitely not hiking, I mean I hate hiking but if you love to, Yay! I'll be waiting for you when you come back home.
We could go camping though, swimming, and do other fun activities.
.
.
21√Diet: I'm not a vegan but I'm thinking of reducing my red meatintake.
I'm not allergic to anything so far. It will be cool if you aren't allergic too but this is not a disqualifying criteria.
.
.
22√Values: I prefer a man who I share my values with. Saying so, a man who is of Christian faith is favourable, but at the same time I'm not a religious person at all.
Political views don't matter to me.
I generally think if we have a lot of similar personalities we will get along pretty well. As the saying goes, personalities last looks fade.
.
.
23✓Other physical aspects: If you know you look good you can PM me. I believe I'm a beautiful lady.
Oh!Beards: Favourite physical aspect. It's also okay if you don't have one, you can still PM me. But please do have one
.
.
24√Kids: I won't like to date a man with a kid or kids already. I don't have any kid. I'm still old fashioned and I believe, that I should conceive and have a baby in marriage if I'm blessed enough.
.
.
24√Asiwe anaangalia Korean series. He could play FIFA though and all those things men do.I don't know much about football though, but I can tolerate that, not Korean series.
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.
25√A man who has a life. I mean, sitafuti mwanaume anayewaza mapenzi 24/7. Get your priorities straight and pursue your life goals cause I'm doing the same and a relationship or anything else should not blind us from living our personal lives.
A person with a boring unfocused life or without dreams and ambitions will be the same or worse in a relationship. Loving our lives first makes everything else amazing.
.
.
√ I'm patient and very serious about this. I emphasize again, small minded and immature men are not welcomed at all.
√I think it's also important for you to understand that I'm not here for unecessary chit chats.
√I believe getting a lover could be easy or hard, but being real makes things easier for both of us.
.
.
√I hope that you understood me, I apologize for not being able to write in Swahili too for the reasons I explained earlier.
Looking forward to receiving a serious PM from you.
Sincerely,
Thatdumbgirl.
PS. I will not compromise any criteria unless you convince me enough. Otherwise, hasta la vista baby!
Mr liverpool hata wewe umekata tamaa 😀😀Mmmh chukua tu udongo uumbe wako mama...
"There is no PERFECT in this world""
It's unrealistic to you, its a reality to some of us.Mmmh chukua tu udongo uumbe wako mama...
"There is no PERFECT in this world""
Baba Swalehe ( mbobez 😀)
Mwifwa
Ni lugha ndio tatizo au hamko interested?
Wapi mzee wa kuzichakata papuchi Zero IQ wewe unachakata za maji matitu tu? Njoo ukutane na bigbrains huku 😀😀
Castr usijifanye huoni huku au umezoea vya kunyongwa?
On height section I'm 172cm, you're 163cm, the difference between heights is my dick size(in inches).
you're welcome.
Siyo makosa yangu, wewe kuwa na fikra finyu.
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Kwanza kabisa, naomba nikukumbushe siko kwenye mashindano ya uzuri.
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Pili, napenda kutoa pole kwako kwa namna vigezo vyangu kwa namna moja au nyingine vimekufanya ujione huna thamani ya kuwa na mimi.
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Amini nakwambia, kuna wasichana wengi tu watakuwa wanakuona kama lulu.
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Jiamini, kaza moyo konde, kuwa mtu mwenye fikra chanya zaidi.
Mungu akubariki sana.
Disqualified because of the above sentenceHe should be able to take care of himself and his stuff I mean, doing laundry, cooking, cleaning and so on.
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wakuzaliwa nae hafanani kitabia na mimi
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂Toka katika ujinga huo kabla ujachelewa