Dr. Chapa Kiuno
JF-Expert Member
- Sep 11, 2009
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Note: This article assumes you already know her this is not advice for men just trying to figure out if the Hooters waitress thinks youre cute, ok? This is for men whove already met the woman theyre trying to figure out. Ill write something for the rest of you next.
1. She initiates emails and phone calls for no reason.
In other words, shes not calling / emailing you to find out if you can fix her car, to find out if you can loan her some dosh, or to find out if you can paint her living room pink. Shes calling just to chat this is the sign of someone whos interested in you.
Tip: There is such a thing as platonic friendship, so if shes chatting away like youre one of the girls, this is NOT a sign shes into you.
2. She fixes you up.
No, not with other women. I mean fix up your clothing. If she straightens your tie, unbuttons a button, straightens your hair a bit these are strong indications shes into you. And even if shes not in love with you, shes likely very attracted to you.
Tip: If she does that thing where she licks her thumb and then wipes crud off your face (you know, like Grandma used to do) this probably isn't a woman you want to be into you.
3. She asks questions about your family and your past.
Women like to hear about their mans childhood and family experiences because it makes them feel closer to him. If shes asking what life was like in your home, that means she wants to get to know you and what made you the way you are today. Women dont do this randomly. If shes asking, shes into you.
Tip: If shes asking these kinds of questions and you dont want to answer them, be careful about how you refuse. If youre too stern shell take that to mean you dont trust her.
4. She touches you.
This can take nearly any form. Does she bump into you a lot? Unless youre deliberately walking into her, thats a sign she likes being very close to you this is not something people do unless theyre interested. Its probably not conscious, but its real all the same. Does she slap you playfully? Does she rest a hand on your arm, shoulder, etc, even for a few seconds? Women who arent into a man are very careful to avoid this kind of thing. If shes doing it, shes into you.
Tip: If you want to test this, casually step away and see if she moves toward you. Just make sure you're subtle, or she'll think something is up.
5. Another woman tells you so.
The easiest way to tell if a hottie is into you, is to ask another woman. We have a built-in radar for this kind of thing, and its just never wrong. Seriously. Arrange some kind of meeting coffee, perhaps with you, the hottie and a female friend of yours. By the end of the date youll have your answer.
Tip: Be sure the hottie knows the extra female is just a friend, otherwise thatll be you sending mixed signals.
Obviously these are just a few of the many ways you can tell if shes into you. You might not see them all with one woman, but if you see one, theres a good chance she likes you, likes you.
1. She initiates emails and phone calls for no reason.
In other words, shes not calling / emailing you to find out if you can fix her car, to find out if you can loan her some dosh, or to find out if you can paint her living room pink. Shes calling just to chat this is the sign of someone whos interested in you.
Tip: There is such a thing as platonic friendship, so if shes chatting away like youre one of the girls, this is NOT a sign shes into you.
2. She fixes you up.
No, not with other women. I mean fix up your clothing. If she straightens your tie, unbuttons a button, straightens your hair a bit these are strong indications shes into you. And even if shes not in love with you, shes likely very attracted to you.
Tip: If she does that thing where she licks her thumb and then wipes crud off your face (you know, like Grandma used to do) this probably isn't a woman you want to be into you.
3. She asks questions about your family and your past.
Women like to hear about their mans childhood and family experiences because it makes them feel closer to him. If shes asking what life was like in your home, that means she wants to get to know you and what made you the way you are today. Women dont do this randomly. If shes asking, shes into you.
Tip: If shes asking these kinds of questions and you dont want to answer them, be careful about how you refuse. If youre too stern shell take that to mean you dont trust her.
4. She touches you.
This can take nearly any form. Does she bump into you a lot? Unless youre deliberately walking into her, thats a sign she likes being very close to you this is not something people do unless theyre interested. Its probably not conscious, but its real all the same. Does she slap you playfully? Does she rest a hand on your arm, shoulder, etc, even for a few seconds? Women who arent into a man are very careful to avoid this kind of thing. If shes doing it, shes into you.
Tip: If you want to test this, casually step away and see if she moves toward you. Just make sure you're subtle, or she'll think something is up.
5. Another woman tells you so.
The easiest way to tell if a hottie is into you, is to ask another woman. We have a built-in radar for this kind of thing, and its just never wrong. Seriously. Arrange some kind of meeting coffee, perhaps with you, the hottie and a female friend of yours. By the end of the date youll have your answer.
Tip: Be sure the hottie knows the extra female is just a friend, otherwise thatll be you sending mixed signals.
Obviously these are just a few of the many ways you can tell if shes into you. You might not see them all with one woman, but if you see one, theres a good chance she likes you, likes you.
