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10. Does Your Car Really Matter?
Brands communicate your status, right? Actually, it turns out, not really. These ladies mostly just care that you have one. And even worse than not having enough money to have a nice car is not having enough money to have a nice car and owning one anyway. Also, cleanliness counts. A lot.
9. What Are The Rules For Texting And Sexting?
Don't pull an Anthony Weiner. The art of the sext is an essential one to master. Do it poorly and you'll become the laughingstock of her friends. Do it well and you'll get lucky. And with texts in general, be as witty as you can. Make her smile knowingly at work with clever observations about what's going on during your day.
8. What's The Best Way To Communicate In The Bedroom?
How much communication is too much? Should you take control or ask what pleases her? It turns out that for most women, it's a mix of both. If you're going into non-vanilla territory, it's probably best to ask for permission. But, as many of the women in this episode insinuate, sometimes the best sex is when the guy knows what he wants and just goes after it.
7. What Are The Rules Of Breaking Up?
We do everything by text now -- we have our biggest fights, our wittiest exchanges and even our sexiest interactions on our phones. But when it comes to breaking up, is the traditional mode of doing things still the only way to go? It turns out it is.
6. Can Long Distance Work?
Those bleary-eyed early-morning/late-night chats as you try to keep up with each other's time zone. Those lonely nights in bed when you wonder why she hasn't answered your text. That Band-Aid solution of Skype sex. Can it be enough?
It turns out there are upsides and downsides to a long-distance relationship. Yes, there are more of the latter than the former, but one very important upside is that the sex stays newer longer. And the crucial point is that you have an end date. It's the open-ended long-distance relationships that almost never work.
5. What's The Best Way To Approach Women?
This is perhaps the most important question and the hardest to answer. Use what sounds like a pickup line and you immediately elicit creepy vibes. It's hard -- even impossible -- to repair your reputation after you've been labeled creepy.
The hard part of the answer is that the guys who are successful at approaching women have a certain je ne sais quoi. The majority of it comes from having confidence and from being a good conversationalist. Even if you have self-esteem issues, say something funny, and she'll probably warm to you. Making an observation about your surroundings is always a good way to start.
4. ED: As Big A Deal As We Thought?
In short, no. But if you refuse to address it, then yes. There are ways to make up for not being able to get it up, but if you don't acknowledge the problem, it going to create A LOT of resentment. So man up and talk about it. Make sure you can get her off. And then see a doctor. ED is curable.
3. What's The Deal With Fake Orgasms?
According to these women, faking orgasms doesn't come from a malicious place. They're not trying to emasculate you and they don't necessarily think less of you. In fact, they're often doing it because they like you and don't want to let you down. Most of the answers hinged on the "I wasn't really into having sex in the first place, but sometimes in a relationship, you just have to go with it" factor. To which we say, fair enough. If our gender weren't so goddamned horny all the time, we'd probably do the same thing.
2. What Really Constitutes Cheating & How Do You Deal With It?
Are you constantly being excluded from her plans? Then you may have something to be suspicious of. And when it comes to real cheating, it's often different for guys and girls. Some of the women think that when females cheat, it's often more emotional than sexual. And that's almost harder to deal with. There's also many layers of cheating, but if you have to think about it, or are dealing with any guilt, it means you'd done something wrong. And, yes, it can be cheating even if you haven't had intercourse. What it all comes down to, is respect for your partner.
1. What Do Women Really Expect On A First Date?
The expectation that the guy will foot the bill is there. We all know it's not 1950, and most women do not expect you to pay for everything. But on a first date, it's always a nice gesture. Generosity is important. And no movies. There's no point of a date if you can't talk. And don't kill yourself trying to find an original setting to impress her with. Just go with something nice.
SOURCE: AskMen
Brands communicate your status, right? Actually, it turns out, not really. These ladies mostly just care that you have one. And even worse than not having enough money to have a nice car is not having enough money to have a nice car and owning one anyway. Also, cleanliness counts. A lot.
9. What Are The Rules For Texting And Sexting?
Don't pull an Anthony Weiner. The art of the sext is an essential one to master. Do it poorly and you'll become the laughingstock of her friends. Do it well and you'll get lucky. And with texts in general, be as witty as you can. Make her smile knowingly at work with clever observations about what's going on during your day.
8. What's The Best Way To Communicate In The Bedroom?
How much communication is too much? Should you take control or ask what pleases her? It turns out that for most women, it's a mix of both. If you're going into non-vanilla territory, it's probably best to ask for permission. But, as many of the women in this episode insinuate, sometimes the best sex is when the guy knows what he wants and just goes after it.
7. What Are The Rules Of Breaking Up?
We do everything by text now -- we have our biggest fights, our wittiest exchanges and even our sexiest interactions on our phones. But when it comes to breaking up, is the traditional mode of doing things still the only way to go? It turns out it is.
6. Can Long Distance Work?
Those bleary-eyed early-morning/late-night chats as you try to keep up with each other's time zone. Those lonely nights in bed when you wonder why she hasn't answered your text. That Band-Aid solution of Skype sex. Can it be enough?
It turns out there are upsides and downsides to a long-distance relationship. Yes, there are more of the latter than the former, but one very important upside is that the sex stays newer longer. And the crucial point is that you have an end date. It's the open-ended long-distance relationships that almost never work.
5. What's The Best Way To Approach Women?
This is perhaps the most important question and the hardest to answer. Use what sounds like a pickup line and you immediately elicit creepy vibes. It's hard -- even impossible -- to repair your reputation after you've been labeled creepy.
The hard part of the answer is that the guys who are successful at approaching women have a certain je ne sais quoi. The majority of it comes from having confidence and from being a good conversationalist. Even if you have self-esteem issues, say something funny, and she'll probably warm to you. Making an observation about your surroundings is always a good way to start.
4. ED: As Big A Deal As We Thought?
In short, no. But if you refuse to address it, then yes. There are ways to make up for not being able to get it up, but if you don't acknowledge the problem, it going to create A LOT of resentment. So man up and talk about it. Make sure you can get her off. And then see a doctor. ED is curable.
3. What's The Deal With Fake Orgasms?
According to these women, faking orgasms doesn't come from a malicious place. They're not trying to emasculate you and they don't necessarily think less of you. In fact, they're often doing it because they like you and don't want to let you down. Most of the answers hinged on the "I wasn't really into having sex in the first place, but sometimes in a relationship, you just have to go with it" factor. To which we say, fair enough. If our gender weren't so goddamned horny all the time, we'd probably do the same thing.
2. What Really Constitutes Cheating & How Do You Deal With It?
Are you constantly being excluded from her plans? Then you may have something to be suspicious of. And when it comes to real cheating, it's often different for guys and girls. Some of the women think that when females cheat, it's often more emotional than sexual. And that's almost harder to deal with. There's also many layers of cheating, but if you have to think about it, or are dealing with any guilt, it means you'd done something wrong. And, yes, it can be cheating even if you haven't had intercourse. What it all comes down to, is respect for your partner.
1. What Do Women Really Expect On A First Date?
The expectation that the guy will foot the bill is there. We all know it's not 1950, and most women do not expect you to pay for everything. But on a first date, it's always a nice gesture. Generosity is important. And no movies. There's no point of a date if you can't talk. And don't kill yourself trying to find an original setting to impress her with. Just go with something nice.
SOURCE: AskMen
