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Nahitaji counseling

Discussion in 'JF Doctor' started by florence, Oct 4, 2011.

  1. florence

    florence JF-Expert Member

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    Tafadhali nisaidienimwenzenu boyfriend wangu ambaye ndiye mchumba ameniacha bila sababu za msingi, nilimpenda sana na kibaya zaidi nimepata ajali ndo akaanza visa mpaka kuniacha. siwezi hata kula napata msongo wa mawazo mpaka kulala inakuwa tabu. Naombeni ushauri ambao utanisaidia nirudi katika hali ya kawaida nateseka sana kisaikolojia. Natanguliza shukrani kwa ushauri mtakaonipatia
     
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    utantambua JF-Expert Member

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    Shukuru tu kaonyesha his true colours mapema bado mkiwa boyfriend/girlfriend. Ingekua mko katika ndoa tayari ungekua umepatikana lakini kwa sasa kiroho safi kabisa ruhusu hali halisi ichukue mkondo wake.
     
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    hayaka JF-Expert Member

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    pole sana but unatakiwa ujue hayo ndo maisha. kaza buti, songa mbele. hebu jiulize kama angekufa leo ungekufa naye??? maisha bila yeye inawezikana.
     
  4. Makindi N

    Makindi N JF-Expert Member

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    Duuuuuuh! Pole! Wanaume at the worst part us............. Hope u gotta close friends/relatives tumia muda mwingi ku-socialise nao.... Toka Dar for sometimes au hamia sehemu nyingine ya Dar for another experience of lyf... Na mengi utakayoshauriwa humu jamvini.........
     
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    Vonix JF-Expert Member

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    Pole sana,ila kuoa/kuolewa mara zote mtangulize Mungu usijaribu kwenda kwa hisia zako tu utakwama Mungu amekuonyesha huyo si mchumba wako wa ukweli alikuwa anatimiza tamaa zake tu kwako.Pia dada na kwa wote tuliopo jamvini tuepuke kupenda sana siku mambo yamehalibika moyo unaumia sana kama yalivyompata huyu dada,inawezekana wewe ulikuwa unampenda sana kumbe yeye nakupenda kiasi tu yalipotokea hayo yaliyokupata akasepa kirahisi tu.Mwachie Mungu dumu kwenye maombi atakusahalisha nae tu.
     
  6. Mtalingolo

    Mtalingolo JF-Expert Member

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    Pole sana huwezi kujua mtu moyon mwake anawaza nini. Pengine hakukupenda sana kam wewe ulivodhania. Piga moyo konde maisha uyashinde..
     
  7. mayoscissors

    mayoscissors JF-Expert Member

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    Pole sana ndugu kwa tatizo hilo,naliita tatizo kwani linakusumbua,nafurahi pia kwani umegundua kuwa ni tatizo na tiba umeanza mwenyewe kwa kutambua tatizo na kuomba msaada,swala la msingi hapa ni wewe kufahamu kuwa unadhamani kubwa sana wewe ndo wa kwanza kujijali hivyo huyo ambaye kakukimbia kwa kupata ajali kaona kuwa wewe si wa msaada kwake.Watu wengi wanafanya hivyo ila kuna wachache kama wewe ambao hawawezi kufanya hivyo na ndo maana unashangaa na kuumia.
    Nakushauri kwa kuwa una uzima na utu wako msamee huyo bwana bure na anza maisha mengine na mwisho wa siku utaishi kama kawaida na mungun atamleta mwingine.
    hangera kwa kuomba msaada ni ishara ya kujipenda.
    siku njema
     
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    Pius Kafefa Member

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    Pole kwa ajali. Lakini tafuta kwanza matibabu kwa maumivu ya mwili, huyo hawara (wewe unamwita boyfriend) siyo dawa kwa matatizo yako ya sasa yaliyotokana na ajali. Ukipona au kupata nafuu tutakupa ushauri. Hata hivyo si busara kuwa na 'hawara', vile vile tumia muda wako kukaa na kuongea na ngugu au jamaa wako wa karibu - sio boyfriend mdadala.
     
  9. Husninyo

    Husninyo JF-Expert Member

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    Bila sababu ya msingi?!! Hebu sema sababu aisee.
     
  10. sweetlady

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    Pole sana.
     
  11. sweetlady

    sweetlady JF-Expert Member

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    Amesema amepata ajali ndio mpenzi a.k.a mchumba akaanza visa na hatimaye kumwacha... Kuanzia kesho naanza kukutengenezea juice ya mchicha manake naona Sayona imeanza kukuharibu macho! Sema sante!
     
  12. Husninyo

    Husninyo JF-Expert Member

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    sante bodyguard. Nitengenezee na juice ya mlenda.
     
  13. sweetlady

    sweetlady JF-Expert Member

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    Heee! Nimekukaribisha sebuleni naona wataka kuingia mpaka chumbani... Hiyo ya mlenda mwambie mamkwe wako King'asti akutengenezee!..lol
     
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    Husninyo JF-Expert Member

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    ngoja nimwambie kloro akufukuze kazi. Unamjibu vibaya bosi.
     
  15. Nyalotsi

    Nyalotsi JF-Expert Member

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    mmh!! Nyie watu kwa kuchakachua siredi za wa2! Mi napita tu,ila aangalie asije akatumbukia kwetu tunaosubiri mtu aachike kisha tumlie mingo!
     
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    feis buku JF-Expert Member

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    mmmh!pole sana,izi jinsia za suruali mi ata kuziona sometymz naboeka!
     
  17. Beautiful Lady

    Beautiful Lady Senior Member

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    Pole sana. just know kwamba huyo ni binadamu wala sio Mungu. kama amekuacha huna sababu ya kuumia sana .tulia utapata mtu mwingine atakayekupenda kwa dhati na sio msanii kama huyo.
     
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