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The harmful effects of watching pornography. [h=3]June 6, 2008[/h]Watching pornography can lead to serious addiction. It will start out as curiosity and ended up addicted to it. Let’s talk about the effects of it. The harmful effects/stages of watching pornography are:
1. Addicted to pornography
When addicted to pornography, the person will find every possible way to look at it again. Example, the person might watch pornography, when he/she has a chance, like when no one is at home, or the person is in a room alone. Even though some might deny that watching porn is just a one time thing and they might not look at it again, but it usually end up mostly those who watch porn for the first time, they will look at it again due to curiosity or boredom.
2. Tiredness
Yes, tiredness because most people who watch porn will tend to masturbate to the porn video as they can’t help it, this is due to lack of self-control of oneself. This is because they would like to know how it feels being like the one in the pornography act. After masturbating, the person will feel fatigue or just tired. This point will lead to stress and bad moods, below, the third point.
3. Stress and Bad Moods
When they are tired they will become moody and some might just regret for watching it but some just don’t understand why they keep turning to watching pornography when they have nothing to do. This will lead to stress on oneself as they just don’t understand themselves.
Sometimes slight temper tantrums can be seen from the person as they might not be able to access to pornography, tired after masturbation or they regret for watching it as said above. Human beings are human beings, baby cry when they are tired, and adults show tantrums when things don’t go their way. That’s human nature.
4. Bad relationship with close ones
Somehow, this point, is related to the third one because, when tantrums and bad moods are shown by the person who watches pornography, people who are close to this person, such as family and friends, will notice some change in behavior and the way the person speaks.
For instance, what if a family member or a friend finds out that you are watching pornography? They will definitely feel different about you and thinks that you are a pervert and dirty minded. Watching pornography also can break family apart. The wife will think badly of her husband if her husband watches pornography and thinks that she does not do enough to satisfy her husband needs.
The people who are addicted to pornography also tend to talk about pornography related topics and sharing new sources from time to time as they could not help it. Some people who are listening to this porn-related topic might not like it and might just avoid the person who talks about this pornography topic. The person might be good in studies or employee of the month but once others gets to know that this person has a dirty mind; it will bring this person status down and might be avoided by others.
5. Perverted minds
Those who watch porn will think different of the opposite sex which is not how life is suppose to be. As life is suppose to be about respecting the other sex and not see them in a different way or like a toy to play with. When one find the other sex attractive, they will look or even stare at them to satisfy their feelings. And if staring is not enough, they will think of how will this attractive person be in a pornography act that they have seen before.
6. Involving in sex
This I feel is the extreme stage because this is where the person does not have self-control of himself/herself and decided to have a go on sex. The age for having first time sex is around 14-16 and that is pretty low. This I can conclude due to the exposure of pornography and attempting it at a young age where most of them regret after that.
All these harmful effects above may not happen to all those who watch pornography as it depends on one self-control and thinking about pornography. If one thinks that pornography is dirty but is addicted to it, the person will likely be able to control himself/herself for doing the extreme of having sex for satisfaction.

In my opinion, those who turn to porn for the first time will eventually turn to it again. This is a fact because almost 90 percent of the friends I know watch porn. Some admit being addicted to it while some don’t. Some think it is normal because they thought it is part of growing. What about their future? Will their adulthood still be part of growing? What will others think of them? What will their children think of them? To me, a strong person is a person who has control of himself/herself.
I have written about this because I have experienced some of these effects and know those who have gone to the extreme. Sorry if I have written anything wrong or offensive and correct me if I am wrong. If you would like to add any points to the harmful effects of watching pornography or would like to share your experience or writings about what pornography have done to you, please e-mail me at destroyporn@gmail.com. Thanks for reading and stay positive

source: The harmful effects of watching pornography. « DestroyPornography
also you can read this article in the link below.
Pornography's Effects on Adult and Child
 
anney said:
The harmful effects of watching pornography.[h=3]June 6, 2008[/h]Watching pornography can lead to serious addiction. It will start out as curiosity and ended up addicted to it. Let’s talk about the effects of it. The harmful effects/stages of watching pornography are:
1. Addicted to pornography
When addicted to pornography, the person will find every possible way to look at it again. Example, the person might watch pornography, when he/she has a chance, like when no one is at home, or the person is in a room alone. Even though some might deny that watching porn is just a one time thing and they might not look at it again, but it usually end up mostly those who watch porn for the first time, they will look at it again due to curiosity or boredom.
2. Tiredness
Yes, tiredness because most people who watch porn will tend to masturbate to the porn video as they can’t help it, this is due to lack of self-control of oneself. This is because they would like to know how it feels being like the one in the pornography act. After masturbating, the person will feel fatigue or just tired. This point will lead to stress and bad moods, below, the third point.
3. Stress and Bad Moods
When they are tired they will become moody and some might just regret for watching it but some just don’t understand why they keep turning to watching pornography when they have nothing to do. This will lead to stress on oneself as they just don’t understand themselves.
Sometimes slight temper tantrums can be seen from the person as they might not be able to access to pornography, tired after masturbation or they regret for watching it as said above. Human beings are human beings, baby cry when they are tired, and adults show tantrums when things don’t go their way. That’s human nature.
4. Bad relationship with close ones
Somehow, this point, is related to the third one because, when tantrums and bad moods are shown by the person who watches pornography, people who are close to this person, such as family and friends, will notice some change in behavior and the way the person speaks.
For instance, what if a family member or a friend finds out that you are watching pornography? They will definitely feel different about you and thinks that you are a pervert and dirty minded. Watching pornography also can break family apart. The wife will think badly of her husband if her husband watches pornography and thinks that she does not do enough to satisfy her husband needs.
The people who are addicted to pornography also tend to talk about pornography related topics and sharing new sources from time to time as they could not help it. Some people who are listening to this porn-related topic might not like it and might just avoid the person who talks about this pornography topic. The person might be good in studies or employee of the month but once others gets to know that this person has a dirty mind; it will bring this person status down and might be avoided by others.
5. Perverted minds
Those who watch porn will think different of the opposite sex which is not how life is suppose to be. As life is suppose to be about respecting the other sex and not see them in a different way or like a toy to play with. When one find the other sex attractive, they will look or even stare at them to satisfy their feelings. And if staring is not enough, they will think of how will this attractive person be in a pornography act that they have seen before.
6. Involving in sex
This I feel is the extreme stage because this is where the person does not have self-control of himself/herself and decided to have a go on sex. The age for having first time sex is around 14-16 and that is pretty low. This I can conclude due to the exposure of pornography and attempting it at a young age where most of them regret after that.
All these harmful effects above may not happen to all those who watch pornography as it depends on one self-control and thinking about pornography. If one thinks that pornography is dirty but is addicted to it, the person will likely be able to control himself/herself for doing the extreme of having sex for satisfaction.

In my opinion, those who turn to porn for the first time will eventually turn to it again. This is a fact because almost 90 percent of the friends I know watch porn. Some admit being addicted to it while some don’t. Some think it is normal because they thought it is part of growing. What about their future? Will their adulthood still be part of growing? What will others think of them? What will their children think of them? To me, a strong person is a person who has control of himself/herself.
I have written about this because I have experienced some of these effects and know those who have gone to the extreme. Sorry if I have written anything wrong or offensive and correct me if I am wrong. If you would like to add any points to the harmful effects of watching pornography or would like to share your experience or writings about what pornography have done to you, please e-mail me at destroyporn@gmail.com. Thanks for reading and stay positive

source: The harmful effects of watching pornography. « DestroyPornography
also you can read this article in the link below.
Pornography's Effects on Adult and Child
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Anney...well understood and i can see most of the bad effects mentioned are seen to my boy,so now i have to look for cure!
 
Men who watch regularly pornography could be reducing the size of their brain, a study has found.

Researchers discovered less grey matter in the brains of men who regularly view pornography compared with those who don't.

Experts say it's the first evidence for a link between watching sexually explicit material and reductions in brain size – but the new study doesn't prove that pornography causes changes to the brain.

They say an alternative explanation could be that men with a certain type of brain with overly-sensitive reward stimuli – known as the ‘striatum' - could be more likely to use pornography.

Dr Simone Kühn from the Max Planck Institution in Berlin led the study. "Unfortunately we cannot answer this question based on the results of the present," she said.

"It's not clear, for example, whether watching porn leads to brain changes or whether people born with certain brain types watch more porn".

Dr Kühn and colleagues from Berlin's Charite University used 64 healthy men between the ages of 21 and 45 years and studied their porn-watching habits.

They matched their survey results with scans of the men's brains and observed both the volume of the brain and the way they reacted to sexually explicit images.

The findings, published in the JAMA Psychiatry Journal, have been met with scepticism from some experts who say that watching pornography in moderation was probably not harmful.

Dr Gregory Tau from Columbia University said that porn-watching was "probably not terrible in moderation".

"It is possible that there are individuals with a certain kind of brain that are more susceptible to these kinds of behaviours," he said.

"Or, it's possible it's the excessive use (of porn) that's perpetuating itself to causing brain changes. Or, it could be both."

Dr Kühn has called for future studies to conduct deeper investigations into the effects of pornography on the brain over time.


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Wakati mwingine researchers huwa wanasahau kwamba mtu anafanya kitu as a compensation ya deficit aliyonayo.
 
Porno mbaya sana..sitakaa nirudie..tulikuwa tukiita madude, mara mikunjo..kidogo porno iondoke na nguvu..acheni hii kitu..
 
Wengine inatuongezea uwezo wa kusolve very complex problems.

Hao wanasayansi wanapotosha umma.

Waende wizara husika wakajieleze.
 
habar wana jf nauliza ni madhara gan yanaweza kumpata mtu anayeangalia mikanda ya xx mara kwa mara.mi napenda kuangalia sana nikizifuta kweny cm najikuta nimeshadown load naangalia
 
Habarini wana jamvi,

Jamani naomba msaada wa ushauri,

Mimi ni binti mwenye umri mkubwa kias ( almost 30years), single. I used to love sex (enzi za mahusiano) but this time nimekua mpenda kuangalia porn mpaka najihisi nimekua addicted kwani bila kuangalia usiku ni lazima asubuhi kabla ya kujiandaa kwenda kazini niangalie ndo nijiandae au hata kama ni weekend lazima niangalie kwanza ndo nitoke room kuendelea na mambo mengineyo ya nyumbani.

Hali hii inanisumbua sana kiasi kwamba baada ya kuangalia ndo najiona sijitendei haki. Nilijaribu kuwa nasoma novels naangalia movies na kufanya mazoezi just to keep myself busy kama sipo kazini lakini hata kama nikisoma au kufanya mazoezi mwisho wa siku ni lazima nichungulie kwanza :eek:.

Asanteni..
 
Nafsi ya mwanadamu inakuwa controlled na vitu viwili (1) Evil spirit (2) Holy spirit. Sasa we ndugu upo upande gani? Hakuna namna utajinasua na huo mtego kama sio muhudhuriaji mzuri wa ibada ambako utafundishwa kumwogopa Mungu.

Utajitahidi weeeee uache but hutaaacha nakwambia kwasababu kuna roho chafu nyuma yake!! Chagua kusuka au kunyoa.

Kutokuhudhuria ibada ni kujiendekeza, na kama unahudhuria basi ni ile kufata mkumbo huna lolote kwenye kichwa chako.

Pole yako
 
Hunyu said:
Wakikutukana usishangae maana huko ni kujiendekeza.

Nafsi ya mwanadamu inakuwa controlled na vitu viwili (1) Evil spirit (2) Holy spirit. Sasa we ndugu upo upande gani? Hakuna namna utajinasua na huo mtego kama sio muhudhuriaji mzuri wa ibada ambako utafundishwa kumwogopa Mungu.

Utajitahidi weeeee uache but hutaaacha nakwambia kwasababu kuna roho chafu nyuma yake!! Chagua kusuka au kunyoa.

Kutokuhudhuria ibada ni kujiendekeza, na kama unahudhuria basi ni ile kufata mkumbo huna lolote kwenye kichwa chako.

Pole yako[]
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Hunyu said:
Wakikutukana usishangae maana huko ni kujiendekeza.

Nafsi ya mwanadamu inakuwa controlled na vitu viwili (1) Evil spirit (2) Holy spirit. Sasa we ndugu upo upande gani? Hakuna namna utajinasua na huo mtego kama sio muhudhuriaji mzuri wa ibada ambako utafundishwa kumwogopa Mungu.

Utajitahidi weeeee uache but hutaaacha nakwambia kwasababu kuna roho chafu nyuma yake!! Chagua kusuka au kunyoa.

Kutokuhudhuria ibada ni kujiendekeza, na kama unahudhuria basi ni ile kufata mkumbo huna lolote kwenye kichwa chako.

Pole yako
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Hapo bado hujasidia kitu. umeshawahi kukutana na mgonjwa halafu ukamwambia kua amejitakia mwenyewe ugonjwa? wangapi wanasali na bado wanafanya maovu !?! remember no one's perfect kila mmoja anamapungufu yake, mimi hili ni langu. Ibada naenda na ninahofu ya Mungu, ningekua sina hofu ya Mungu ningeendelea fanya without seeking jinsi ya kujinasua. Mpaka nimefikia kutafuta jinsiya kujinasua na kupost waweza ona the way nisivopenda izi mambo. Asnte kwa mchango wako.
 
Labda kwa vile upo single?, kwa maelezo yako ni kama vile hupendi mahusiano na mwanaume ,mara nyingi mtu aliepevuka hupata hamu ya mapenzi sana asubuhi, tafuta mwenza~ ni mtazamo tu mkuu
 
Njia rahisi anza na kuikata Internet, au kama una tumia kwa masomo basi jaribu kutafuta rafiki wa kukaa nae kama jirani au mwanafunzi mwenzio asiependa mambo ya ngono sana. Pia jaribu kufanya mazoezi na usiwe na fikra za kufanya au kutamani kufanya ngono. Pia ukiona hamu imekujaa kutaka kuangalia porn basi jaribu kulala au angalia vipindi vyenye makumbusho ya dini.
 
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