uliyosema ni kweli. Ila hutakiwi kuwa kwenyw extremes, jaribu kutafuta balance ya kutomfurahisha mwenzio kupita kiasi and at the same time don't ignore him.
Wana matayizo sana hawa viumbe, hiyo yote ni kwasababu hawajiamini. Ukiwataka wafanye wajibu wao - means playing their role wanasema you are taking them for granted.