Ushauri: Wanaishi nchi za nje, mke anataka kurudi Tanzania, mumewe hataki

[kijana mkimya]

Huyu dada ameolewa huko nchi za watu, miaka 7 ndoani ana watoto wawili. tatizo alilokuwa nalo dada anataka kurudisha makazi Tanzania mume wake hataki (jamaa ni raia wa hiyo nchi).

Ugumu unakuja huyu dada anataka kurudi Tanzania na watoto wake jamaa hataki, anamwambia kama unataka kurudi arudi aache watoto, hawezi kuwaruhusu watoto wake waje kuishi Africa.

Watoto wana uraia wa hiyo nchi, ameenda kwenye vyombo vya sheria vya huko, dizaini kama wanamletea ukauzu fulani, wanamwambia ili apate ruhusa ya kuchukua watoto inabidi akubaliane na jamaa, ukiangalia jamaa hataki kabisa kusikia habari za kuishi Africa.

Huyu dada ni Engineer, anafanya kazi huko, anasema wanalipa vizuri tu. Nimejaribu kumpeleleza sababu za yeye kutaka kurudi Tanzania anasema amechoka kuishi huko, anataka kuja karibu na ndugu zake (kutokana na maongezi yake naona hii sababu si ya kweli kuna sababu nyingine hataki kusema) anasema anataka kurudi Tanzania lakini hataki kuwaacha watoto huko.

Hebu msaidieni huyu dada, mi nimeshindwa kumpa ushauri, kwanza sababu anayotoa siamini kama ina ukweli. Watu wa sheria mnamshauri vipi huyu dada yetu, hataki kabisa kuendelea kuishi huko na hataki kuacha watoto huko ndoa ilifanyika huko huko.

 

[msomso]

Alipenda tamu tamu atavuna tamu tamu

 

[kijana mkimya]

Alipenda tamu tamu atavuna tamu tamu

wadada viherehere vinawaponza. yakiwakuta wanabembeleza kuonewa huruma!

 

[MBEBA MAONO KAJA]

Sio kazi rahisi kumshawishi mwanaume ahame nchi yake aende nchi ya watu amfuate mke.
Yeye aongee vema na mwenzi wake ikiwa anayo genuine reason ya kufanya hivyo.
Otherwise wafanye makubaliano ya kuishi kote kote wakifanya maendeleo kote km wanaeeza ili iwe rahisi wakiamua kuja bongo waje wakiamua kwenda ughaibuni waende.
Seems hawaelewani vizuri coz kutembelea likizo ingetosha kabisa

 

[kotelyimola]

Mpuuzi huyo, akija na watoto utasikia baba yao hataki kuwatunza. Huyo ana michepuko tu. Lakini akumbuke kwa nini alienda kwa jama huyo alifuata nini? Hicho alichokifuata kimeisha. Na akirudi kwa ndugu zake, kwa nini aliwaacha akaenda kwa jamaa. Jibu alifuta DUSHE. Je akirudi kwa ndugu zake watampa Dushe? Akisema ndiyo mshauri arudi peke yake watoto awawache huko wasije kuadhirika huku kwetu. TZ tumeizoea sie

 

[GREGO]

Si alipenda wa nje ya nchi basi aache ma watoto wake waishi huko kilichomvutia kuishi huko ndo kinamvutia mme wake asimruhusu kuondoka na watoto

Ushauri: Ajikatae tu arudi kama alivyoondoka (maana hakua na mtoto)

 

[Wi-Fi]

Wagawane watoto kama inawezekana

 

[manuu]

Sheria za Bongo haziwezi kuwa applicable huko...Maana kibongo bongo mama akizungua anaruhusiwa kukaa na watoto mpaka miaka 7kama si 9 kuanzia miaka 10 baba unachukua machalii zako...Sasa huyo Engineer labda aende ubalozi wa TZ kuomba support...

 

[Usher-smith MD]

Wazungu hao hawachelewi kuomba 0713, dada kaona isiwe tabu bora arudi kwa Magufuli

 

[kijana mkimya]

Sio kazi rahisi kumshawishi mwanaume ahame nchi yake aende nchi ya watu amfuate mke.
Yeye aongee vema na mwenzi wake ikiwa anayo genuine reason ya kufanya hivyo.
Otherwise wafanye makubaliano ya kuishi kote kote wakifanya maendeleo kote km wanaeeza ili iwe rahisi wakiamua kuja bongo waje wakiamua kwenda ughaibuni waende.
Seems hawaelewani vizuri coz kutembelea likizo ingetosha kabisa

sababu ndo hiyo hapo juu. mkuu kama ulivosema likizo inatosha, hapa kuna tatizo kubwa ila ndo hivyo mlengwa hataki kuliweka wazi!

 

[kijana mkimya]

Wazungu hao hawachelewi kuomba 0713, dada kaona isiwe tabu bora arudi kwa Magufuli

miaka 7 atakua amezoea kuliwa tigo labda kama amechoka kuliwa tigo

 

[kijana mkimya]

Si alipenda wa nje ya nchi basi aache ma watoto wake waishi huko kilichomvutia kuishi huko ndo kinamvutia mme wake asimruhusu kuondoka na watoto

Ushauri: Ajikatae tu arudi kama alivyoondoka (maana hakua na mtoto)

teh teh mkuu huu ushauri wako ngumu kumeza!

 

[GREGO]

teh teh mkuu huu ushauri wako ngumu kumeza!

Mkuu hakuna namna maana hawa dada zetu wanapenda sana watu wa mbele (nje ya nchi) hata kama ni UG hapo tu utasikia niko nje ya nchi wanaume wa Tz wasumbufuuu

 

[manyovu 1]

Mpuuzi huyo, akija na watoto utasikia baba yao hataki kuwatunza. Huyo ana michepuko tu. Lakini akumbuke kwa nini alienda kwa jama huyo alifuata nini? Hicho alichokifuata kimeisha. Na akirudi kwa ndugu zake, kwa nini aliwaacha akaenda kwa jamaa. Jibu alifuta DUSHE. Je akirudi kwa ndugu zake watampa Dushe? Akisema ndiyo mshauri arudi peke yake watoto awawache huko wasije kuadhirika huku kwetu. TZ tumeizoea sie

Yeye arudi tu bongo kama ni watoto na huko bongo wanaume wapo watamzalisha

 

[mamkuu5]

Mapenzi kuvumilia mapenzi so kuyumba angelijua mwanzo siange kaza kamba......mandojo naimba mpenziiiiii,
Hizo kesi nyingi sana huwa nawaangalia hawa wadada ukienda huko unasoma unawaza mume na watoto huku bongo wanakuona kama fala.usipokua na mzungu wakukufanya hapo chuo nakukusupport unaonekana Lofa kweli,tena ukiongelea uaminifu kwa mwanaume wa kibongo uliemuacha na watoto ndio unaonekana mbwiga kabisa,minaona huruma ila ndo mkome kiherehere

 

[mumemwema]

Uwiiiiii.... Kazi kweli kweli.... That's what we get some women to marry other country nationality.. Haya mie niliyaona long time ago , mmhhhmmm honestly I didn't want it kwa kukwepa hizi shida za baadae..Haswa when it comes to kids .. And that's why no matter what , jamani WA home ni WA home tuu kataa ,ukubali... This is the lesson for some of those who still want to marry outside of nationality especially western culture ..( don't take me wrong here, and I'm not racist but I speak the Truth and reality, ni very few of them ambao ni wema to agree kids wake to live Tz very few na sio rahisi kuwapata because wameshawahiwa na wengine. One of them is my BFF , alibahatika na now wako here home Tz wanalea family .. With peace .... ) Binafsi bado sijashawishika kabisa na hawa watu unless Born again with fire of the Holy Ghost and sign paper za agreement za kukubaliana kuwa its okay for me to take my kids and go back home Tz incase anything happen kwa ndoa yetu down on the road , may be , I will consider ... Hivi ikiwa wao WA nnje wana shida na kids do you think watakubali kuachia kids wao ( nationality yao waende tuu just like that nop, nop ).. Ingekuwa mmbongo wako trust me shida hii isinge tokea maana wote mmetoka country moja, lugha moja.. Hata ukijirudia still kids wataona ndugu wa baba , kwa kweli hii ni raha .. Mnakuwa mmeachana kwa amani na kids wana amani ... Tuwe tunafikiria mbeleni some women.. Who are in love na hawa watu , we are not suppose to be blind . on this because of love , looh.. Haya tuje kwa huyo bidada ... Dear Family matter Courts za nnje na Tz are very different .. What I get the picture there on your friend is her marriage is over that's why she wants to come back home Tz for good... Hapo hammna ujanja kama ameshafile divorce na yuko full divorced afanye haya :

1) Find the best lawyer ( these are very expensive).. Aeleze anachotaka...
For her case she has to file for the full custody and have strong evidence to prove that her ex husband can't be a stable father ( asiingize mambo ya kurudi Africa .. ) .. Muhimu evidence to prove that he is irresponsible Father.. Mfano , Abusive physical, verbal and emotional , Anger , ..Alcoholic, doing drugs...Anything that show he will harm the kids.. Akipata hizo evidence vwalaaaaa... She will win the case ... Asifiche kitu kama alishawahi kuwa abusive husband.. Akishapata full custody then she can take her kids and leave ..
2) she has to ask lawyer if its okay kama anaweza kufile joint custody ( she can do this kama hiyo njia number one haipo ) kwa kusaini kuwa she will stay with kids out of the country but every vacation they can go visit to their Dad with active comunication in both two parties .. ( this means kids wakiwa hapa Bongo waendelee kuwasiliana Baba yao na wakiwa kwa Baba out side of bongo still wawasiliane na Mother too) .. Both parties have to agree and sign it .. Who ever don't right will face consequences..

3) If all 2 ways are zero dear then no choice ni kuongea tuu na jamaa awe humble na amuahidi kuwa kids watakuwa wanakwenda kwake every vacation and its okay for him to contact them anytime .( this one no late night please , aweke wazi na days ) . She better mean it what she says other wise they will track her down and lose all rights for her children.. That's all .. May be let's hear from others .. Thanks..

 

[mumemwema]

Mapenzi kuvumilia mapenzi so kuyumba angelijua mwanzo siange kaza kamba......mandojo naimba mpenziiiiii,
Hizo kesi nyingi sana huwa nawaangalia hawa wadada ukienda huko unasoma unawaza mume na watoto huku bongo wanakuona kama fala.usipokua na mzungu wakukufanya hapo chuo nakukusupport unaonekana Lofa kweli,tena ukiongelea uaminifu kwa mwanaume wa kibongo uliemuacha na watoto ndio unaonekana mbwiga kabisa,minaona huruma ila ndo mkome kiherehere

Ahhaaaaaa... Ouch.. Thank you message received.. Now ushauri basi dear... Thanks..

 

[mumemwema]

Yeye arudi tu bongo kama ni watoto na huko bongo wanaume wapo watamzalisha

Duuh hii ngumu kwa kweli , to leave her kids for good? I don't know may be others can do that . uchungu WA mwana aujuaye ni Mama dear ... Thanks..

 

[RRONDO]

huyu dada ameolewa huko nchi za watu. miaka 7 ndoani ana watoto wawili. tatizo alilokua nalo, dada anataka kurudisha makazi Tanzania mume wake hataki (jamaa ni raia wa hiyo nchi). ugumu unakuja huyu dada anataka kurudi Tanzania na watoto wake jamaa hataki, anamwambia kama unataka kurudi arudi aache watoto, hawezi kuwaruhusu watoto wake waje kuishi Africa. watoto wana uraia wa hiyo nchi. ameenda kwenye vyombo vya sheria vya huko, dizaini kama wanamletea ukauzu fulani, wanamwambia ili apate ruhsa ya kuchukua watoto inabidi akubaliane na jamaa, ukiangalia jamaa hataki kabisa kusikia habari za kuishi Africa. huyu dada ni engineer, anafanya kazi huko, anasema wanalipa vizuri tu. nimejaribu kumpeleleza sababu za yeye kutaka kurudi Tanzania anasema amechoka kuishi huko anataka kuja karibu na ndugu zake( kutokana na maongezi yake naona hii sababu si ya kweli kuna sababu nyingine hataki kusema). anasema anataka kurudi Tanzania lakini hataki kuwaacha watoto huko. hebu msaidieni huyu dada. mi nimeshindwa kumpa ushauri, kwanza sababu anayotoa siamini kama ina ukweli. watu wa sheria mnamshauri vipi huyu dada yetu. htaki kabisa kuendelea kuishi huko na hataki kuacha watoto huko.ndoa ilifanyika huko huko.

Watoto wana umri gani?

 

[RRONDO]

Duuh hii ngumu kwa kweli , to leave my kids for good? I don't know may be others can do that . uchungu WA mwana aujuaye ni Mama dear ... Thanks..

una watoto??!!