The words are so beautiful, painting us women so beautifully....
The words in the Red part would have been really good if people and the men in particular would be positive about that part of the statement, life would have been simpler for us ladies.... But unfortunately in our world today for you as a woman to be recognized and appreciated your external (physical) beauty, the way you dress, the way you carry your self and your body has to be presentable. For if these things are according to your liking even you as a woman will feel good for you have confidence you are looking good not only to men but to anyone who sets eyes on you... I have seen a lot of ladies very decent, very good hearten, very sensitive and caring but wamejiachia - they do not care how they look, what /how they dress, and about there all physical appearance .... inakua ni tatizo getting a decent guy wa kua nae or else maybe a one night stand.
Ndio naweza sema hivyo vitu havijalishi lakini nitakua naongopa; mimi ni mwanamke na nime experience at first hand how it feels wewe personally ukijiachia... Unapoteza kabisa selfesteem.