In short, go for what makes you happy as long as you don't transgress anyone's perimeter!
For some time now, I've been [emoji131] what we call numbers D & E. I admit that these numbers don't know how to hang on, they love the show-off life and worthless pledges and have nothing else to offer but sex.
As of today, I am officially starting to date middle-aged women, the so-called A-number, and a few B-numbers. They are not lost on me, they know how to keep their promises and give advice if needed.
In conclusion, your advice is useless and will not change reality.