Men are just like cats. Sounds a little weird, but hear me out!
Ever see a cat chase after a toy that is just sitting there? I certainly havent. However, when its dangled in front of them, but still remains slightly out of reach they literally go crazy for it.
They jump around, chase, sprint and pretty much will do whatever it needs to do to catch this just out of reach toy
Bizarrely, guys are exactly the same. If you are easy to win over, not a challenge and just wait there for a guy to catch you, then you can be pretty sure that hes not going to be that interested in you. But if you are fun, exciting, playful, flirty, just out of reach, then he is going to be a lot more likely to desire and chase after you.