People always going on about how women are hypergamous and expect a super high income bla bla bla - only true if you live in a third world country. You know what's rarer than money in the west? Masculinity. Women here would rather marry a broke ruthless guy than a soft rich one.
You won't believe this if you've never experienced a woman's genuine desire. You will think male-female relationships are based on money/status. So I understand if you disagree. Just means a woman's never liked you enough to not give a shit about your income. Kind of a self-own.
If a woman isn't obsessed with you, she will only care about money/status. If a woman is in survival mode, she will use a man to survive. Yes women are drawn to wealth and status. All this is true. Also true that women break all the rules for a man they're obsessed with.
Not all obsession is love, but all love's obsessive. If a woman does not obsess over u, she does not love u. You're just an option she's utilising. A literal option. A contract. A pragmatic choice. Do not believe otherwise. That's what you are. And that's why you see it like this
If you couldn't get her when you were broke, she's not worth being with when you're loaded.
Again, I don't expect third world guys to agree with this. Different world there. People struggling to eat. Much more transactional. But this definitely applies to any developed country.
There was a chick, daughter of some billionaire guy, ended up marrying a penniless convict.
An extreme example, but it demonstrates my point well.
Think she married him for money and status, or because she became obsessed because his ruthlessness made her wet?
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