Ambiele Kiviele
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Maisha Matam sana ukikutana na Mtu anaye jua thamani yako
Mume wake hakuwa akimjali, kila siku alikuwa akimsababishia maumivu ya kihisia.
Siku moja mke akamtizama mumewe aliyekuwa akicheza kwa furaha na binti yake mdogo wa miaka minne.
Mke akamuuliza mumuwe: Utafanya nini kama siku moja binti yetu ataolewa na mwanaume atakaemfanya awe analia kila siku na kujuta kuolewa?
Mwanaume kwa kujiamini akajibu:
Nitakula nae sahani moja huyo mwanaume kwa kweli, nitamjeruhi.
Huyu ni binti yangu, damu yangu, ndio kila kitu kwangu!
Huku machozi yakimtoka mke akamwambia mumewe huku amepiga magoti;
hata mimi nina baba yangu anayenipenda, hafurahishwi na haya unayonitendea kila siku!
Kwanini unaniumiza sana? Kwanini hutulii na mimi, nifanye na mimi nifurahie ndoa kuliko kila siku kujuta kwanini niliolewa!
Hii ilimgusa sana mume wake, na akaahidi kubadikika na akamwambia kuwa atakuwa mume bora ambae angetamani hata binti yake atakapokuja kuolewa huyo mume awe kama yeye.
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Enyi wanaume
wapendeni wake zenu, tengenezeni ndoa zenu, ndoa yenye furaha na amani ni msingi wa kujenga familia iliyo bora, ambapo kupitia familia hiyo tunaweza kujenga taifa lililo bora kimaadili.
Watoto zenu wanajifunza sana kupitia jinsi mnavyoishi ndani ya nyumba.
Oneshaneni upendo, hii itawapa matumaini watoto zenu juu ya taasisi takatifu ya Ndoa.
Ukibadilika na kuwa mume bora hauwezi pungua nguvu za kiume, ila utakuwa baba unayeheshimika kwa mke na kwa watoto.
N:B Ahsanten kwa kuja
hakuna mwanaume anayepiga mwanamke kuna wavulana tu ndiyo wanafanya hivyo.Kuna mmoja nilimuuliza how would you feel if it was your own blood Sister anafanyiwa hivyo kama unavyommfanyia mwenzii wako , how would you feel? Akajibu pain and Go straight to the guy and deal with him... I was like kumbe hutaki na hupendi your sister to have abusive man then what about the woman you mistreat always, don't you know that she has her own brothers , sisters, parents who care and love her so much...( alinyamaza kimya kidogo and then akaanza kujitetea ).. Any man abuse his woman, he is not a real man at all...He is a weaker than anything else and I don't feel no sympathy for them.. Do what you want others do unto you.. Treat the other people the way you want them to treat you ... We have to against the domestic Violence... So many lives are lost because of the domestic violence abuse.. So many scars inside , that cant never go away that easily, how did I know? I know, how it feels when this situation comes.. You just wish could have someone who can be on your side by listening to you and believing in you without blaming you ,... . Ewe Mama uliye ndani ya mahusiano ambayo hayakupi Furaha na Amani kwa kupigwa na kunyanyaswa please its not too late yet for you to make the right decision while you still breathing .. Hata kama una kids na Huyo abuser still its not too late to make the best decision ambayo ita save your life and kids' lives.. Please dont feel a shame to come out of veil.. Maisha yako yana thamani kuliko hata money, Gold and anything else na usipojijali wewe who will ?? Come out sister , Mama because you can .. And get some help .. Lets all against this domestic violence abuse .... To all victims Just know you are not alone ... And its okay to share with someone who you can trust and Yes she / he can trust your trauma story .. Save your life today #.. Thanks..
That's why I have said they are not a real man.. A real man will never laid his hands on the woman he loves , Never.. Thanks..hakuna mwanaume anayepiga mwanamke kuna wavulana tu ndiyo wanafanya hivyo.
haswaa, na ni waoga balaa kwa wanaume wenzano. but all in all kwanini watu mfikie hatua ya kupigana au kupiga? what do you get from the fight?That's why I have said they are not a real man.. A real man will never laid his hands on the woman he loves , Never.. Thanks..
Hapo sasa.. Kama mmechokana si muachane kwa amani tuu.. Abuse men wananiuziiii, na kunitia hasira tuu... Usiombe your sister yammkute its very pain very.... Thanks...haswaa, na ni waoga balaa kwa wanaume wenzano. but all in all kwanini watu mfikie hatua ya kupigana au kupiga? what do you get from the fight?
nimekutana na hizi kesi mara nyingi sana but huwa sipati logic ya watu kupigana, though quarrels lazima ziwepo but extent ya kupiga mtu No,Hapo sasa.. Kama mmechokana si muachane kwa amani tuu.. Abuse men wananiuziiii, na kunitia hasira tuu... Usiombe your sister yammkute its very pain very.... Thanks...
loveissweetKuna mmoja nilimuuliza how would you feel if it was your own blood Sister anafanyiwa hivyo kama unavyommfanyia mwenzii wako , how would you feel? Akajibu pain and Go straight to the guy and deal with him... I was like kumbe hutaki na hupendi your sister to have abusive man then what about the woman you mistreat always, don't you know that she has her own brothers , sisters, parents who care and love her so much...( alinyamaza kimya kidogo and then akaanza kujitetea ).. Any man abuse his woman, he is not a real man at all...He is a weaker than anything else and I don't feel no sympathy for them.. Do what you want others to do unto you.. Treat the other people the way you want them to treat you ... We have to against the domestic Violence... So many lives are lost because of the domestic violence abuse.. So many scars inside , that cant never go away that easily, how did I know? I know, how it feels when this situation comes.. You just wish could have someone who can be on your side by listening to you and believing in you without blaming you ,... . Ewe Mama uliye ndani ya mahusiano ambayo hayakupi Furaha na Amani kwa kupigwa na kunyanyaswa please its not too late yet for you to make the right decision while you still breathing .. Hata kama una kids na Huyo abuser still its not too late to make the best decision ambayo ita save your life and kids' lives.. Please dont feel a shame to come out of veil.. Maisha yako yana thamani kuliko hata money, Gold and anything else na usipojijali wewe who will ?? Come out sister , Mama because you can .. And get some help .. Lets all against this domestic violence abuse .... To all victims Just know you are not alone ... And its okay to share with someone who you can trust and Yes she / he can trust your trauma story .. Save your life today #.. Thanks..
Very true.. There is no excuses , kwa mazingira yeyote Yale to abuse somebody else's child no, no... Unataka kupigana na unajiona una nguvu go kapigane na mwanaume mwenzio or Ukuta ... Women hawapigwi Bali wanakanywa kwa upendo na kama hasikiii separate nae its better than to abuse her ... Thanks..nimekutana na hizi kesi mara nyingi sana but huwa sipati logic ya watu kupigana, though quarrels lazima ziwepo but extent ya kupiga mtu No,
Samahani kwa hilo nitajitahidi.. Thanks.loveissweet
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