LADIES; WHEN IT COMES TO A RELATIONSHIP
Don't wait for the first good guy to come your way. Don't even let the "butterflies" guide your decisions!
Instead, have some standards in place. What are the good qualities you're looking for in a partner?
These qualities raise your relationship's chances of long-term success:
(1) Honesty - with God, Himself and you
(2) Sincerity – He says what he means, and he means what he says
(3) Responsibility – Less blaming, and more "I'll take care of it" and he does
(4) Strong sense of family – If he loves his mom, that's a good sign!
(5) Strong financial know-how – Because the bills won't pay themselves. Haha 😉
Also, take note of the BAD qualities you don't want. Make sure that anyone with these "non-negotiable-s" have NO CHANCE at winning your heart.
If you asked me, these would be good non-negotiables- to start with…
(1) An Unbeliever or UnSerious Christian..
(2) Someone with An active criminal record
(3) A violent streak
(4) Someone who Lies habitually
(5) Jobless and no efforts he is doing to be productive or in massive debt
(8) Sex, Drug or alcohol addiction