Is it normal wanting to be alone?

schizoid-man · Dec 20, 2016

Early teens I was very social and outgoing. Last couple years, I just want to be alone all the time so it got to the point that my friends never call me anymore and I dont call them, I always made excuses to avoid situations. I dont really hang out with anyone anymore. The only close family or friends is my sister as all my cousins and family live in a different city.

Growing up I had a pretty rocky relationship with my parents and felt very alone growing up. I know my dad gave up on us (3 kids) and just was never really supportive...although he stayed living with us. I know that gets me mad because what boy doesnt want a father to be there. I have a hard time talking to my own mom and dad. Im not really antisocial because the people I work with I can talk with and hold conversations with and tend to make people laugh easily. I know Ive been depressed and probably still am. I tend to keep everything to myself and not share how I feel. Lately I just been wanting to move away somewhere by myself.

Giving all that...I just want to be alone now. I always just stay in my room and watch movie or listen to music or play a game. Seems like everyone nowadays has a lack of respect for humans and lack of common courtesy and that is a big pet peeve for me.
Is this normal to not want to be around family or friends?

ShyaRuwa · Dec 20, 2016

Siku nilipojua ''LULU'' ni neno la Kingereza nilishangaa sana.

Miss Natafuta · Dec 20, 2016

it is normal its your life,That's completely healthy and there is no problem at all with it, but it can affect your social life in a bad way! are you witch?

Miss Natafuta · Dec 20, 2016

CHARMILTON said:
Siku nilipojua ''LULU'' ni neno la Kingereza nilishangaa sana.

nimeandika hadi jasho limenitoka ngoja tu nilale

Nyani Ngabu · Dec 20, 2016

Miss Natafuta said:
it is normal its your life,That's completely healthy and there is no problem at all with it, but it can affect your social life in a bad way! are you witch?

Are you.witch?

Miss Natafuta · Dec 20, 2016

Nyani Ngabu said:
Are you.witch?

yes nyani nyani i want to bewitch you there there at trump tower!

Nyani Ngabu · Dec 20, 2016

Miss Natafuta said:
yes nyani nyani i want to bewitch you there there at trump tower!

Bring it baby doll....bring it.

Hex the hell outta me.

ShyaRuwa · Dec 20, 2016

Miss Natafuta said:
nimeandika hadi jasho limenitoka ngoja tu nilale

Nashukuru kwa kutuonesha ID yako nyingine.............Umeandika nini hadi jasho likakutoka?

Miss Natafuta · Dec 20, 2016

CHARMILTON said:
Nashukuru kwa kutuonesha ID yako nyingine.............Umeandika nini hadi jasho likakutoka?

umeelewa kweli soma post zaote vizuri usikurupuke nakuheshimu mkuu

ShyaRuwa · Dec 20, 2016

Miss Natafuta said:
umeelewa kweli soma post zaote vizuri usikurupuke nakuheshimu mkuu

Mimi ndo nikuulize wewe kama umeelewa.

Nilipost ''Siku nilipojua LULU ni neno la Kingereza nilishangaa sana''.

Wewe ukani-quote kwenye post namba nne ukisema ''Nimeandika hadi jasho limenitoka ngoja tu nilale''.

Sasa nimekuuliza ni kitu gani umeandika hadi jasho likakutoka?.

Bila shaka wewe ndiye mwaandishi wa post namba moja.

Queen Kan · Dec 20, 2016

It's not.....you maybe holding soo many grudges in your and you lack happiness

femalepilot · Dec 20, 2016

Franklin Wolfgang said:
Early teens I was very social and outgoing. Last couple years, I just want to be alone all the time so it got to the point that my friends never call me anymore and I dont call them, I always made excuses to avoid situations. I dont really hang out with anyone anymore. The only close family or friends is my sister as all my cousins and family live in a different city.

Growing up I had a pretty rocky relationship with my parents and felt very alone growing up. I know my dad gave up on us (3 kids) and just was never really supportive...although he stayed living with us. I know that gets me mad because what boy doesnt want a father to be there. I have a hard time talking to my own mom and dad. Im not really antisocial because the people I work with I can talk with and hold conversations with and tend to make people laugh easily. I know Ive been depressed and probably still am. I tend to keep everything to myself and not share how I feel. Lately I just been wanting to move away somewhere by myself.

Giving all that...I just want to be alone now. I always just stay in my room and watch movie or listen to music or play a game. Seems like everyone nowadays has a lack of respect for humans and lack of common courtesy and that is a big pet peeve for me.
Is this normal to not want to be around family or friends?

i ask myself the same questions everyday,our situations are quite similar! i tried seeking psychological help,but it hasnt done much to change anything! i am sorry i couldnt answer your questions,but you are not alone

Mzee wa hat-trick · Dec 20, 2016

Its normal if and only if u want to, bt its not good and ethical. We as humans, need to atleast have someone to talk to and share our problems or even our inner-most feelings as well, but with the one u trust.

Sharing brings relief and eases our pain. I'm afraid u may decide to hurt urself easily after facing any difficult which could have a solution if shared.

Jst find ONE person, whom YOU THINK you can trust. Befriend him/her. Narrate this story to him/her, WHY..?? Its because he should not be offended when u act differently. If that person is wise enough, he/she can take you as you are, and help u get through.

I guess you are a MAN. Are u married..?? If the answer is NO, then you better don't get married recently cz YOU'LL NEVER FIND THE GOODNESS IN HER, and u'll always want to be alone while she needs you.

Its curable, if YOU need.

schizoid-man · Dec 21, 2016

Miss Natafuta said:
it is normal its your life,That's completely healthy and there is no problem at all with it, but it can affect your social life in a bad way! are you witch?

I'm not a witch.. And Thanks for the advice

schizoid-man · Dec 21, 2016

CHARMILTON said:
Siku nilipojua ''LULU'' ni neno la Kingereza nilishangaa sana.

Sijakusoma kiongoz.. Is this related to my post?

schizoid-man · Dec 21, 2016

Queen Kan said:
It's not.....you maybe holding soo many grudges in your and you lack happiness

I'm quite happy being "alone" than around people.. That's my concern, I want to know if its a problem

mamaafacebook II · Dec 21, 2016

CHARMILTON said:
Mimi ndo nikuulize wewe kama umeelewa.

Nilipost ''Siku nilipojua LULU ni neno la Kingereza nilishangaa sana''.

Wewe ukani-quote kwenye post namba nne ukisema ''Nimeandika hadi jasho limenitoka ngoja tu nilale''.

Sasa nimekuuliza ni kitu gani umeandika hadi jasho likakutoka?.

Bila shaka wewe ndiye mwaandishi wa post namba moja.

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schizoid-man · Dec 21, 2016

femalepilot said:
i ask myself the same questions everyday,our situations are quite similar! i tried seeking psychological help,but it hasnt done much to change anything! i am sorry i couldnt answer your questions,but you are not alone

Yeah its good to know you're not alone..[emoji1] I haven't seek any psychological help.. Yet.

Still struggling to figure out what the hell is going on within me.. Maybe I need a vacation or something, or to talk to someone in a similar situation maybe it could help, who knows

schizoid-man · Dec 21, 2016

Mzee wa hat-trick said:
Its normal if and only if u want to, bt its not good and ethical. We as humans, need to atleast have someone to talk to and share our problems or even our inner-most feelings as well, but with the one u trust.

Sharing brings relief and eases our pain. I'm afraid u may decide to hurt urself easily after facing any difficult which could have a solution if shared.

Jst find ONE person, whom YOU THINK you can trust. Befriend him/her. Narrate this story to him/her, WHY..?? Its because he should not be offended when u act differently. If that person is wise enough, he/she can take you as you are, and help u get through.

I guess you are a MAN. Are u married..?? If the answer is NO, then you better don't get married recently cz YOU'LL NEVER FIND THE GOODNESS IN HER, and u'll always want to be alone while she needs you.

Its curable, if YOU need.

I guess you're right.. I need to let it all out to someone, it could bring some relief, thanks for your advice.

[emoji1] no I'm not married and don't have a gf.. But I have few friends

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