If you are married, there are two things...

If you are married, there are TWO things involved:



You cheat on your spouse OR you are being cheated.



If you cheat on your spouse, you are SAFE! If you are being cheated, there are TWO things involved:



You don’t know about it OR you know that you are being cheated.



If you don’t know, you are SAFE! If you know, there are TWO things involved:



You accept it as part of life OR you don’t accept.



If you accept it you are SAFE! If you don’t accept it, there are TWO things involved:



You keep silent OR you take action.



If you keep silent, you are SAFE! If you take action, there are TWO things involved:



You hit the road (i.e you part) OR you hit the spouse.



If you hit the road, you are SAFE! If you hit the spouse, there are TWO things involved:



You break the hip OR you brake the Neck.



If you break the hip you are SAFE! If you break the Neck, there are TWO things involved:



The spouse survives OR the spouse dies!



If the spouse survives you are SAFE! If the spouse dies, there are TWO things involved:



You are charged with manslaughter OR you are charged with murder.



If you are charged with manslaughter, you are SAFE! If you are charged with murder, there two things involved:



You are sentenced to death OR you are served a life imprisonment.



If you are sentenced to death, you are SAFE! If you are served a life sentence, there are two things involved:



You die in prison OR the term is lifted by parole.



If you die in prison, you are SAFE! If the term is lifted by parole, there are two things involved:



You decide to stay single OR you decide to get married



If you decide to stay single, you are SAFE! If you decide to get married, there is only ONE thing involved:



THE CYCLE STARTS OVER!

Note: basketmouth? NO



I wish you all happy MARRIAGES!



cabhatica

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Fear of marriage is worse than marriage itself
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Himidini said:

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Fear of marriage is worse than marriage itself
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Nakuunga mkono mkuu.
Maana kama ndoa zingekuwa ngumu hivi, sidhani kama tungekuwa na wazazi mpaka leo au pengine tunavyozungumza hivi sasa kungekuwa hakuna ndoa. Vitisho vya ndoa vimekuwa vikubwa mno kuliko hata changamoto zake.
Changamoto za ndoa zipo, kwa sehemu, na si kubwa kiasi ambacho tumekuwa tunakizungumzia! Saa nyingine wanandoa wanapoingia kwenye ndoa siku hizi, wanatawaliwa na hofu kitu ambacho kila wakati kinawafanya kuhisi wako kwenye matatizo na pale challenge inapotokea basi hukimbilia kuomba talaka wakidhani yale yanayosemwa ndiyo yamefika! Ni hatari kwa afya ya ndoa.

HorsePower said:

Nakuunga mkono mkuu.
Maana kama ndoa zingekuwa ngumu hivi, sidhani kama tungekuwa na wazazi mpaka leo au pengine tunavyozungumza hivi sasa kungekuwa hakuna ndoa. Vitisho vya ndoa vimekuwa vikubwa mno kuliko hata changamoto zake.
Changamoto za ndoa zipo, kwa sehemu, na si kubwa kiasi ambacho tumekuwa tunakizungumzia! Saa nyingine wanandoa wanapoingia kwenye ndoa siku hizi, wanatawaliwa na hofu kitu ambacho kila wakati kinawafanya kuhisi wako kwenye matatizo na pale challenge inapotokea basi hukimbilia kuomba talaka wakidhani yale yanayosemwa ndiyo yamefika! Ni hatari kwa afya ya ndoa.

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Sahihi kabisa @Horse Power..wanashindwa kabla hawajathubutu.
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kwa hiyo unataka kuhallalisha notion yako kwamba kila ndoa cheating inahusika aaaagh wapi...........akilini mwangu hiyo haipo cha kujipa mapresha nini.........ilimradi ananitimizia mahitaji yangu na sioni tabia hatarishi basiiiiiii

On a serious account..i found this some how funny ingawa siamini kama kweli yote hayo yanaweza kutokea

Haya Basketmouth

Himidini said:

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Fear of marriage is worse than marriage itself
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Its true Himidini, we need to reverse the trend.

HorsePower said:

Nakuunga mkono mkuu.
Maana kama ndoa zingekuwa ngumu hivi, sidhani kama tungekuwa na wazazi mpaka leo au pengine tunavyozungumza hivi sasa kungekuwa hakuna ndoa. Vitisho vya ndoa vimekuwa vikubwa mno kuliko hata changamoto zake.
Changamoto za ndoa zipo, kwa sehemu, na si kubwa kiasi ambacho tumekuwa tunakizungumzia! Saa nyingine wanandoa wanapoingia kwenye ndoa siku hizi, wanatawaliwa na hofu kitu ambacho kila wakati kinawafanya kuhisi wako kwenye matatizo na pale challenge inapotokea basi hukimbilia kuomba talaka wakidhani yale yanayosemwa ndiyo yamefika! Ni hatari kwa afya ya ndoa.

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Ni kweli ndoa siyo ngumu kama baadhi ya watu wanavyotaka kutuaminisha, lakini pia ni ukweli kwamba marriage is not a bed of roses. One has to strike a balance between the two and reach a mutual consensus

Lyamber said:

On a serious account..i found this some how funny ingawa siamini kama kweli yote hayo yanaweza kutokea

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you have to take it lightly if you want to live longer. Be happy.

Asnam said:

kwa hiyo unataka kuhallalisha notion yako kwamba kila ndoa cheating inahusika aaaagh wapi...........akilini mwangu hiyo haipo cha kujipa mapresha nini.........ilimradi ananitimizia mahitaji yangu na sioni tabia hatarishi basiiiiiii

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Dont take it too seriously Asnam, I dont believe in it either. Happy marriage

naona unaa verse mwanawane

Mmmh ndoa zote zingekua hivyo basi sijui ingekuaje. Wengi wanaamini kuwa hakuna uaminifu hata chembe kwenye ndoa yaani kama haucheat basi mwenzio anacheat dhana hii haiko sahihi hata kidogo. kukutana na walevi kila mara haimaanishi kua watu wote ni walevi. Binafsi naamini zipo ndoa salama na hiyo habari ya cheating haipo kabisaaaa. Haijalishi hata kama unakutana na ndoa zenye matatizo ya cheating elewa kwamba zipo zilizo salama ambazo wewe kwa bahati mbaya hujapata bahati ya kukutana nazo. Napenda kuwatia moyo wale ambao bado hawajaingia kwenye ndoa wasiwe na wasi wasi zipo ndoa njema na za kuonewa gele wajitahidi kupata wenza wanaowapenda na wamshirikishe Muumba kwenye chaguzi zao.

una utafiti au ni mawazo yako yalivyojisikia??

ineb said:

una utafiti au ni mawazo yako yalivyojisikia??

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You may take it as a joke or you may do a little research on your own. Ni mawazo yangu yalivyojisikia, kwani kuna ubaya mpwa?