How To Breakup With A Woman......!!!!!

donlucchese · Aug 28, 2013

Salute wakuu,
As the topic says above, sometimes you may meet with a girl who cherishes you, loves you and seem to care a lot about you. But as time goes, you start noticing some things ambavyo hamuendani and wewe mwenyewe you can feel it kwamba hauna future na mwanamke huyo. Tatizo kubwa unakuta dada wa watu amefall in love deeply and she see you as her Mr.Perfect and willing to take it to the next step. As much as she loves you, you learn that your love for her diminishes as the time passes. You try to act like you have changed so that she can leave you but she doesn't, sana sana ndo anazidisha mapenzi kwako. Kwa kweli it pains a lot kuona jinsi anavyoteseka kwaajili yako and here comes the big Question:
How Do You Break-up with her without hurting her?
Do you just tell her that you don't feel the same way no more? Or perhaps you tell her friend to tell her its over? As much as you'd hate to hurt her feelings, you find that breakup is the best solution rather than pretending you still love her (which in my opinion is more hurtful). So how do you handle it?

Tangopori · Aug 28, 2013

Truth will set you free!

Maumivu atakayopata hapo yatakuwa kidogo compared na atakayopata ukija kumsaliti baadae!
Mwambie ukweli!

Heaven on Earth · Aug 28, 2013

Getting dumped sucks, no matter how it's done.

Break-ups are never perfect,and they will never be perfect but if your a man enough

I would prefer to be told directly(in persons) see you in your eyes that your braking up with me!!!

donlucchese · Aug 28, 2013

Heaven on earth hahah that's a bit scary, nisije panga kukuchana live mwisho wa siku unanikazia macho nakwambia nimenunua kiwanja msata.

Himidini · Aug 28, 2013

^^
Mapenzi ya mwanamke huanza polepole,na huisha polepole..ukimuacha haraka utajua kuwa moyo wa mwanadamu hauna mfupa
^^

arnolds · Aug 28, 2013

embu tuifanye vice versa alaf tuanzie hapo!..kama mm mpenz wangu anataka tu-break kwa sababu zozote zile alizonazo ningemuona mstaarabu sana kama akiniambia ukweli, tena face to face!.ofcoz kama hanifeel tena siwez kumng'ang'ania na itakua pointless kuendelea naye kama mapenzi hayapo!..so tukirud kwenye mada, its better kumwambia ukweli, ataumia lakini ni afadhali kuliko kuendelea kumpotezea muda..who knows, labda kuna jamaa wengine ambao wanamfeel sana2 bt they cant have her kwasababu bado upo naye!..

lara 1 · Aug 28, 2013

How about THE DISAPPEARING ACT? You just vanish!!!!!!!! No calls, no text, nothing! Just a cold silence! Or face her and tell her she aint good enough no more! Why are you chickening out! You are a man, and that is a manly action ain't it?

Mi ndo maana I AM MONEY MONGER you treat somebody very mighty and what do you get in return? Being told your not good enough for him? Mazafantaaaa! Leta ATM hio fastaaaaa!

kyannala nabiso · Aug 28, 2013

ungekuwa wewe ungetumia njia gani? maana kila njia utakayo tumia itamuumiza baadhi ya wanaume bwana bure kabisa

OLESAIDIMU · Aug 28, 2013

How do you find youself into such a situation as if you were bieng held hostage!!!!
How did you start,what were the departing terms and conditions!!!??
Do you feel about your future or you exactly plan for????
Women are not such passive creatures as per the thread's narration they play according to beats only that they can get accustomed so fast and permanently to a certain tradition..so most of the times men are producer and Djz!!!!!!

As of marriage; A deer can not choose part of the body to be shot,but this rests with the shooter!!!!!

Set your premises and departing modalities openly and such will be the termination procedure!!!!!

arnolds · Aug 28, 2013

Heaven on earth said:
Getting dumped sucks, no matter how it's done.

Break-ups are never perfect,and they will never be perfect but if your a man enough

I would prefer to be told directly(in persons) see you in your eyes that your braking up with me!!!

Heaven on Earth, siku ukitaka kubreak na mimi naomba unitext tuuu!..sitaweza kuhandle ukiniambia face to face mama
:behindsofa:

Tamatheo · Aug 28, 2013

Jamani tushauriane namna ya kuwafanya wapenzi wetu kurudi kuwa kama zamani....wakati mwingine sababisho tunakuwa nalo sisi ila kwa sababu ni wanaume tunakimbilia short cut za kuwadampo na kuchukua wengine....Nashauri tutafute mbinu na akili za kuondoa makwaruzano ktk mahusiano yetu na siyo kukimbiana au kukimbizana kwani hii siyo njia stahiki hata kidogo na tufikiri kama watendwa pia.

Mapi · Aug 28, 2013

usimpotezee nafas ya kuokota dhahabu zake...mweleze ukweli japo itamuuma lakn itakuwa nafas nzur kutafuta wanaoendana..ila ukae ukijua pengne unatupa dhahabu kwenda kuokota chupa.

Heaven on Earth · Aug 28, 2013

arnolds said:
Heaven on Earth, siku ukitaka kubreak na mimi naomba unitext tuuu!..sitaweza kuhandle ukiniambia face to face mama
:behindsofa:

mie ya kunitumia text sintoiweza,uniambie tu Its Over tena short kama hivyo uuh

Dr Lizzy · Aug 28, 2013

Mwambie ukweli, utakuwa umemsaidia japo inauma.

donlucchese · Aug 28, 2013

lara 1 hahaha, u made my day!

Mkirua · Aug 28, 2013

sioni sababu ya kumung'unya maneno .....tell me black and white kwamba things has fallen apart hence no longer at ease! Yes it will hurt me but for a while...

Mkirua · Aug 28, 2013

Lizzy said:
Mwambie ukweli, utakuwa umemsaidia japo inauma.

Alafu wewe.....

OLESAIDIMU · Aug 28, 2013

lara 1 said:
How about THE DISAPPEARING ACT? You just vanish!!!!!!!! No calls, no text, nothing! Just a cold silence! Or face her and tell her she aint good enough no more! Why are you chickening out! You are a man, and that is a manly action ain't it?

Mi ndo maana I AM MONEY MONGER you treat somebody very mighty and what do you get in return? Being told your not good enough for him? Mazafantaaaa! Leta ATM hio fastaaaaa!

Lazima.uwe na plan b mamah! !!!
Enzi za ujana nishawahi kuibukiwa saa tatu usiku na demu nyumbani kwa bro tena kagonga kafunguliwa kajitambulisha na kudai kaja ku check kama mpenzi wake yupo ok as imekuwa kimya ghafla na yeye yuko worried!!!!!!Can you imagine..

By the time nagongewa mlango na.juice kashapewa zamani shemiji kuona msala kaingia chumbani kwao mi natoka nakutana na bro na demu slowly sipping juice tears lingering. Mwenye nyumba kaniambia rafiki yako huyu anakutafuta anadai hakupati kwa mawasiliano..jokingly huku akiamka ananilipua kuwa marafiki wa kukujali hivi ni wachache with a mocking smile!!!!!!

Sebuleni nikabaki naye wawili tu niliishia kumtazama kwa hasira lakini alikuwa kaniweza kiasi cha kuniweza yaaani i was flat,managed to run but was unable to hide!!!!

Nikaishia kumrudisha kwake kimya all the way yeye ananiuliza kosa lake nini mpaka nimfanyie hivyo wakati ananipenda na hajanifanyia lolote baya of which was true! !!!!!!

Anyways hii method bana inategemea na muhusika wengine ni die hards hashindwi kwa just a wipe off

donlucchese · Aug 28, 2013

Mkirua said:
sioni sababu ya kumung'unya maneno .....tell me black and white kwamba things has fallen apart hence no longer at ease! Yes it will hurt me but for a while...

Hahah, u made your point in a very literal way quoting chinua.

Gorgeousmimi · Aug 28, 2013

lara 1 said:
How about THE DISAPPEARING ACT? You just vanish!!!!!!!! No calls, no text, nothing! Just a cold silence! Or face her and tell her she aint good enough no more! Why are you chickening out! You are a man, and that is a manly action ain't it?

Mi ndo maana I AM MONEY MONGER you treat somebody very mighty and what do you get in return? Being told your not good enough for him? Mazafantaaaa! Leta ATM hio fastaaaaa!

Thats COWARDNESS,a real man should man himself up and tell you ITS OVER!I would rather prefer someone telling me I am not good enough it hurts but its the truth!

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